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What would you do.?.
What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?..
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That's a lame thing to say....your friend and your boyfriend should have thought first before acting and/or speaking. They aren't thinking of how this'll make you feel and you probably shouldn't be dating this guy. And you should talk to your friend- she just broke the unwritten code of friendship where you don't date- much less sleep with- your friend's ex unless you talk to them first. See where your friend's priorities are and decide where to go from there. Ditch the boyfriend.
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well u can forgive them..but dont forget1 idk if id ever be able 2 trust either of them like i used 2..n think about wut kinda friend wuld do tht 2 u. they obviously feel bad about it tho..but ehh idk lying and betraying u..thts a toughy..i guess it al ldpeends on how forgiving u r. i kno id forgive, but id NEVER forget
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any friend who would do that to you is definitly NOT a friend!! i would stop being friends with her and definitly loose contact with the guy. You don't need people like that in your life.
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That was REALLY shallow of them both to do. I would definately dump the guy, but if the girl was one of your good friends i think you should talk to her about it, and if shes really sorry try and forgive her. Good luck with whatever you do!
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Hey, I'm 13, but I may I have a different answer. Well as soon as you left your boyfriend, he went to your best friend. That's cold. They had sex. That's cold. YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOUR BOY FRIEND THAT YOU JUST BROKE UP WITH HAD SEX! You need to ask your friend why she did it. Don't get mad, it'll ruin everything if you do. Then you need to go to the guy and tell him, either he is a jackass and say goodbye, or he is a jackass and say you still love him. That descision is for you to decide. I do not know what happened in your relationship with him, but if you liked it, overtime you will come to forgive him. If you need to reach me go to my column and get my screen name. Peace up, a-town down.
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Aww you must be really hurt! you should tell your friend that she had no right to do that and right now you need time to think before your friends again and let ur boyfriend know that he was also stupid to do that and if he loved you he wouldnt of did it! Talk to your boyriend about it and if you think you can trust him give him another shot and see where it goes from there <3 hope i helped and good luck
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Well i say that you dump both the friend and the boyfriend. b/c it is really not right what they did. And if they did it once there is no saying that they couldn't do it again. or your boyfriend couldn't do it with another girl. Plus the fact that they lied about it, breaks all trust!
Hope I Helped......Alina
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y would oyou go back to him dont let ne guy walk all ova you and then be so sad and sorry and sweet dont do that all he wants is a piece of @$$ dont let him do that because then he is going to go and do it again again and then again since you already went back with him think about i hope i helped
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take cAiTi082's advice. if this happened 2 me, i wouldn't forgive them.
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Well it was over so what can you do? I admit it's a little insensitive, but at least they admitted it to you. How much can you ask for. You can't say that you don't want to be with him and you don't want him being with other girls either.
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well u should stop going out with him and not be her friend
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Now that your with him i say that you i say let him go because if he can do that with one your good friends that means he could do it with anybody.never let a guy take over like that if he does something to hurt you that much i say let him go as soon as you find out.As for your frieend...she's not such a good friend if she would do something like that.any good friend knows that you never sleep with your friends ex.so maybe you should just talk to them so that they know how you feel.
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That is not what i call a good friend! and whya re oyu back wiht him?!?! didnt u learn teh first time.. u deserve better
Sit down wiht your friend and tlak to her. Ask ehr why she did it and why she lied abotu it. Try to get it from ehr point of view but also explain to ehr how hurt you are why you are upset. What she did was absolutely disgusting and i knwo if one of my friends did that to em we woudl definalty not be on speaking terms for a while.
But sit ehr down talk to her and then maek a desicion from there as to whether or not you want this peson as a friend.
Good Luck Hope I helped!! if you need anyhtign else then just let me know!
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SORRY IF ANY OF THIS SOUNDS RUDE OR INSENCERE, I DON'T MEAN FOR IT TO!!!
ok, well what u should do is sit down and talk with them
or atleast with your friend, i mean, how could she betray your trust, and sleep with your Ex??
also how old are you
how old are they??
you really need to talk to ur friend, and here's a lil sayin that a friend told me, u need it now more then ever
Grls r 4eva, guys r w/e, when worse cumz 2 worse, my grlz cum 1st
if u think she's sincere when she apologizes, then accept the apology, and try to work on your friendship, the guy, he can just go to hades house
I CAN'T BELIEVE U TOOK THE GUY BACK!?!?!?!
well good luck, and don't just check out my opinion on this 1, u need as much help as u can get
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