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Is it still special
I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it.
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It probably does become less speacial to the person the more she does it.. its a nightly daily monthly or whatever thing for her.. i would just try to move on and find a girl that thinks its something speacial you sound like a good guy aside the whole having sex part
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I'd say it's possible that she feels the same way. Ask her and find out. She'll probably appreciate someone taking the time to ask her what she thinks and how she feels. To some people, sex isn't really important to them, in regards to love and all that. But of course, there's always the opposites of that. If you know why she's slept with six guys, that usually helps. It tends to show a pattern- whether or not these people were important to her at the time. It may just be that she thinks that sex is what guys want so if she gives herself up, then they'll like her more. Obviously it worked for you, but she may just like the attention. Find out what her intentions are and go from there.
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That is a lot of guys for her age, lol. Ask her how she feels about you. If she feels the same way go for it. Sex is the most intense form of intimacy and it really releases a lot of hormones, espically in a male.
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It's entirely possible that she feels the way you do about this. I don't think sex becomes less special the more a person's done it, really. To me - even though I've only been with one guy - it's always special 'cause it's kind of a bonding thing...
Ask her if you're curious. Tell her what's on your mind and ask her if the same kind of thing is on hers. ^_^
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idk if it becomes less special...if shes a whore then it prly didnt mean anything 2 her but if shes a rly sweet girl than she prly feels the same!! it all depends on the type of person she is
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well she probly just thanx that for each person it is special until she eets another guy and then goes and does it again i am 14 and never had sex before but to you it may be special because it was your first time so dont let the girl get in your way yeah you can getto no her better but does she want to get to no you do you guys hang out still if you do then there is a chance a goo chance but yeah i dont want to bring you down or sound mean but i do think that the more times you do it it becomes less special i am not tring to be mean but i hoppe i helped
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If your havin these feelins for her she might b havin the same feelins for u. Just talk to her n tell how u feel. See if she really is feelin for u or if shes just in it w/ guys to get some!!!!
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I don't think it wears off, it's not the sex, it's the person. If you're having these feelings good chances are, she is too. Let her know you want to get to know her better, more about her. I definatly don't think it becomes less special the more you've done it. I think sex is at it's best whenever you're in love, or have strong feelings for that person.
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I think it depends on the person..you should talk to her about your feelings and hers.Tell her how you really have feelings for her and not just a craving for more sex.I hope I helped and I hope everything works out well..GOOD LUCK!!
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It really all depends on the person!! 6 guys to me is also a lot and you both are still young.. but talk to her about it... ask her to go to the movies or to the beach.. hang out with her and flirt..
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It's certainly possible that she gets the same feeling,but if she's had six guys already,I don't think you're as special to her as she is to you. She was your first,you were her seventh. I mean she could still feel the same way(wanting to get to know you better and hang out more and everything),but this all depends on how much she likes you to begin with. If she really cares about you,then the sex was very special to her. People have had sex before marriage and they say sex with their spouses is still very special so keep that in mind. Good luck dude.
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