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grandma
my grandma loves me but she loves my other cuzin more and it shows they have like a great relationship and me and my grama dont talk that mutch she always kids around and says o this is my favorite grndaughter and she is not talking about me i just feel so bad because ahe might not be around that much anymore shes pretty old and i want her to love me as much as my other cuzins.What should i do?
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shes ur granma!! of course she loves u!!...juss let her know how much u luv her b4 u knoe..she leaves!
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Aww..Maybe try being with your grandma more and talk to her..and if u feel comfortable enough then tell her how you really feel..hope i helped..
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u sed yall dont tlk alot..so make more of an effort 2 tlk 2 her!! find sumthn yall have in common n run w. it! mayb show some interest in things she likes even if its completely boring. just try 2 give her a reason 4 u 2 b her favorite other than the fact tht ur family
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Don't worry, your grandma loves you in the same way! Just because she jokes around about it doesn't mean she doesn't love you as much. Try to spend more time with your grandmother and do things that you both like to do. That might strengthen your relationship a little bit.
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Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel
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im sure she loves u just tell her how u feel.
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I would sit down with Grandma and let her know how you feel!Tell her how much you love her and that you wish she would spend some time with you.I wouldn't really go into a tirade about how much attention she pays to your cousins,cuz it's probably best to avoid whining or complaining.That might just start a fight or get you the opposite reaction of what you want!Ya know? Just let your Grandma know that you've been feeling a little left out lately,say something cutesy like "So when do I get to spend time with ya?When is (your cousins name) gonna stop hoggin ya?" Just let her know you love her and wanna spend time with her.I'm sure she'll be more than happy to!!!! ;)
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Alright, I don't think your grandmother would ever want to come off like that. I don't know if this is your case, but maybe.. Maybe your grandparents spend more time with them, she's more comfortable around them perhaps. That is how it goes in my family, my little cousin is the odd-man out.. mainly becuase her parents are divorced so she doesn't get to be around as much. But I know my grandmother loves her just the same.
So, it's probably not that she doesn't love you any less than them, it's just that she's not as close with you as them, which yes, it can sometime hurt I'm sure. But the best thing to do is reach out to her, it'll probably be one of the best feelings to her in the world to know she's wanted by her grandchild.
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yeah me and my grandma are like that because she will by them more but with me she likes my older brother better because that was he 1st or 2nd grand kid but i still talk to her even thought she lives like 5 in a half hours away so maybe if you talk to her bout that it may work
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