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r they using me hey i feel like my friends are using me but i dont no my on friend was using me to get to his guy but they went out for like a day and he hates her no and he was using me to get to her which she hates him now and i hang out with him all the time but i dont no if i should ask him if he was because my friends sister told me that she was talking to him online and then she goes are you using er to get to my sister and he goes yeah but then her sister is inda crazy and does that stuff to get ppl mad so i dont no if she was doing that to me to make me mad and then my other friend lives out in the country and i live in towm and so does he b/f and i feel like when she comz ova she is using me to get to her b/f and when i hang out with them i feel reallly retart i no that this aint a ? but i am confused but can you help me in ne way?
thanx
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Desirae im not using you i never even hang out with him that much in town god i just wanted to see him at the park for 30 mins thats it i had spent like 2 days with you already im sry if you thought i was using you i wasnt but you know my mom and anyways im sry and wen you read this dont bring it up ok its over
advicegrl123 ]
here are you choices:
A. Ask them what's up. Are they really using you or are you being paranoid?
B. Ignor it and just convince yourself that you
're not thinking clearly and that your emotions are all haywire.
C. Tell them to kiss and make up. Tell them that you don't like that they keep getting all mad and stuff.
Forget about yor friends sister. She's just making the problem worse. Don't tell your friend that though, because sisterhood is a tight bond not to be screwed with. ]
i think u should of just stayed out of it ]
i think you need to get new friends ]
you should not communicate between them, let them talk between their selves and let them work it out. this happens all the time between friends. so....if you truly think they are using you,dont let them. let them hang out alone for a while...maybe they will fix things up and then you wont feel so awkward all the time. hope i could help,<3 Niki Lyn ]
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