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i hate my best friend? (i rate)
i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!
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Just tell her how you feel and if she truly is your best friend she will understand...
Hope I helped
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Haleigh Ann
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I think you should try telling her how shes acting and if she starts acting up about it say i dont need this..but if she understands and she wants to try n be better help her get better..hope it works and and hope i helped
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WoW that was really confusing! Tell friend (A) how you feel about everything. You should tell her exactly what you explained in your story. Then hopefully you 2 can work things out.
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sry to say but all of u are basing ur relationship on material things.. n a friendship shouldnt b lyk tat.. a friendship is to have fun to talk to sumone about things n to hand out.. not to buy eachother things.. u cant really tell her n e thing b cuz its not really n e 1's fault.. i think all of u r just battling to see who buys the other more.. try to work on tat.. gud luck.. xoxo angie
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you should talk to her about it,try to make it equal between all of you. if u really, really hate her, tell her you feel left out and if she isn't going to treat u the same as your other friend, that you dont want to be around her when you can have better friends that treat you good.
hope i could help...<3 Niki Lyn
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just tell her you don't like the way shes been treating you. you don't like how you do nice things for her but you get nothing in return. remember friendships aren't about who spends the most money or gets the best gift, it's about spending time together and having fun!!
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You don't necessarily have to tell her you don't want to be friends anymore, just stop hanging out with her. Say no if she invites you somewhere. Maybe she will get the hint. And if she asks, then tell her the truth. That you just don't feel a connection with her, and you felt that your friendship was one sided. You were tired of giving so much with nothing in return, and then made to feel guilty about a pretzel.
But remember, friendships can't be bought. Hopefuly in the future you won't be quite so generous. It's great to be generous, but don't resent your friends if you don't get things in return.
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I can definitely relate to this!!!I've been in the same situation!!I know it's a hard thing to go thru and an even tougher decision to make,especailly if you're like me(which it sounds like you are) and hate to hurt someone's feelings or to fight with someone.But I say it's high time you stood up for yourself sweetie!!!There's a whole big world out there filled with great people in it who WON'T use you,which is exactly what this friend is doing!!You deserve so much better!Find some new friends who are willing to meet you half-way,and who care as much about you as you do them.A real friend doesn't treat you the way this girl is!!
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You're right, she is a bad friend. She's just using you to get cash. Tell her she either has to get a job so she can buy her own popcorn, or she has to go without popcorn, because she can't sponge off you. Don't feel bad about it. Sometimes my friends ask me to borrow money, so I jokingingly say "buy your own damn candy!". They know I"m joking, but it gets the point across. My real friends don't get mad when I don't let them borrow money, and if this girl was a real friend, than she wouldn't get mad either.
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