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boyfriend and a guy boyfriend hates


Question Posted Monday July 26 2004, 12:20 am

ok .. ive been with the same guy for a year. thats good for me cuz i never do that .. but last summer i talked to a guy noname and we were going to date but we decided not too because our familys were best friends and we didnt want to mess that up if something happened. well me and my boyfriend are haveing some problems because i have a new job maken goood money and we never get to see each other because we have different off days. well my mom and i and nonames family went to see kenny chesney. last thursday. well boyfriend didnt like that to much and was being a rude asswhole.. which in return to that made me cry in front of everyone in the hummer limo!! my whole like was messed up .. well after i was droped off noname was helping me carry some stuff to my car .. he was being really sweet and was tryn to make me smile and i guess just feel better! well he told me he was going to call me i returned with you better because we are really good friends . well needless to say he leaned in and kissed me i was shocked i didnt know what to do but look away and say why? .. now he calls me every day makes sure everythings ok and my days going good .. his little cousin lives across the street and he told her that he really did love me .. thinking it wasnt true he even told his aunt which i know wouldnt like about something like that ... he comes by my house alll the time .. he even came by jus a little while ago. i keep having all these mixed feelings and i dont know what to do . i mean i do love my boyfriend but i feel that im just tired of the same ol thing i dont know what to do ....its been two weeks since i seen my boyfriend and im going to see him tomorrow .. but noname will see him 1st. they have to get sinor pic. done tomorrow and noname is still really mad and ive asked him not to say or do anything to him because idont want to make things worse. boyfriend knows about the whole kiss thing and he says hes not mad but i know deep down it hurts him but over the last couple of months hes really hurt me ... every time iget off the phone with him i end up crying. i dont know what to do anymore.can anyone help me?

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Additional info, added Thursday July 29 2004, 1:21 am:
ok know its been a few days sence all this and i found out last night by nonames aunt that noname has a g/f and hes been tryn to get me to break up with boyfriend and all thiss i was like wow omg how could i be so stupid .... and i almost broke up with my boyfriend of a year and i cant believe i feel soo stupid and i talked to boyfriend yesterday 1st time i seen him in 2 weeks and i was like im soo sorry i cant believe everything that has been going on .. will u ever for give me and he said i had no reason to be sorry that he'll alwayz love me and that hes going to change his ways and now i feel so much better but i still feel soo stupid! .

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LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:05 pm:
g0 0ut wid n0nayme. Try diff. pe0ple 0ut. It seemz as if y0u and y0ur b0yfriend need a break. Maybe y0ur b0yfriend will learn to treat y0u better 0nce he realizes that hes g0ing t0 have t0 fight f0r y0u. wh0 kn0ez? n0nayme c0uld be y0ur s0ulmate and y0u w0uld never kn0w because y0u never gave him a try. h0pe i helped. plz rate meh. =)

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xRuBbErDuCkYx answered Monday July 26 2004, 4:35 pm:
well i dont no if this will work but when you have a boyfriend that is going to be a jerk because you have another guy friend well thats not cool the boyfriends that i like are the kind that you can act all dorky with so i think that you should go with noname because he sounds alot better then the other guy and he cares about you and you see noname more then you boyfriend and you and your boyfriend can still be friends but i would go wit noname and if things dont go well with him the maybe your boyfriend will go back out with you
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IxAmxCrying answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:27 am:
I say pimp 'em while you're young.

Think about it...

When you get married, you won't have the chance to fool around as much.

Well I'm sure you can, but that can come with a divorce and a loss of property and money.

I say get some love from both of them.

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storageanddisposal answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:06 am:
It sounds like your getting bored with the relationship. It happens to most who last as long as you two did. Besides, he's making you cry everytime you get off the phone with him. I think you should at least take a break. I know you still like him, but you need to see what it's like without him. Maybe with this other guy. This other guys seems infatuated with you. He seems a little needy to me, but if you like him give him a shot. See how it works out. And of course he's affected by the kiss, but I think he's more pissed than hurt. If the family thing is what's still keeping you from dating, then I wouldn't worry about it. Whose to say a relationship won't end with you two still being friends (if it would endat all).

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