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Question Posted Sunday November 14 2004, 2:52 pm

I have this friend i think he is GAY and he is like always making fun of me and my one friend and i think he takes everything WAY TO SERIOUSLY by the way i am a 14 M and he is a 14 m HELP



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xOMsRunninAwayOx answered Monday November 15 2004, 12:08 am:
Ask him. Ask him is he is gay tell him he shouldnt be ASHAMED by it. If you want to know if he is. Tell him you dont have a problem with it. So then you dont feel like an ass when you say a comment thats rude about 'Gay' People. Im from KEY WEST There are alot of GAY'S here. My best friend went gay on me. He likes my boifriend. I understand that he likes his sexuality, there is no *PROBLEM* With that. If he's your friend you should respect him and treat him no DIFFERENTLY. Also, make sure he doesnt like you and you let him know that. Say you dont like guys and your straight, he will most likely (he will) Respect that. I know alot of gays they are the coolest people to me. My friends are all lesbians. But you have to put that to the side. Yuor friends. You shouldnt let it screw up everything. Its nice to know though if your friend is or not so then you dont make mistakes or make it seem like ur leading him on or something. I Would just sit down talk to him and ask him that this is how you feel and ur not sure if its true. Tell him to be truthful, and that ya'll are friends and you can tell each other anything, and that you have no problem with it. He'll understand and tell you the truth. Trust me, a friend that would be that kind to him he would tell the truth. If he says "NO!" Then its no, dont pressure him and piss him off it just makes matters worse. Tell me how it goes if you decide to take my advice. I hope i helped you. Leave me one on how it goes or if you have any more questions. I Love to help people and give all the advice i can give them. Im a very DETAILED Person. Sammy Sam.

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pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:43 pm:
so tell him hes annoying and not to take jokes so serious...talk to him about it! good luck!

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xXAsKmEaNyThInGXx answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:38 pm:
first of all dont freak out...just because he takes every way to seriously that doesnt mean he is gay...jsut make a gay joke and see if he is offended...and if he is gay well i have no idea what you do

good luck

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cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:10 pm:
Think for a second, do you really "know" that he is gay? is there anything that makes you think he is gay? but when you say he takes everything too seriously maybe he cant take a joke. Try not to joke around and make jokes infront of him if he cant take them. But if he is gay, i would not tease him or laugh at him. If you dont want to be around someone like that, you dont "have" to be friends.

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iwasherexox answered Sunday November 14 2004, 4:55 pm:
theres nothing wrong with gay people...just because he acts the stereotypical "gay" way doesnt mean hes gay. confront him and dont be so prejudiced

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Choccocat answered Sunday November 14 2004, 4:54 pm:
There's nothing wrong with being gay. Gay means happy! Hahaha... Okay, I get your point, but you're not really saying why you think he's gay. Just because he's serious and makes fun of you? About what? Your clothes and stuff?
You could ask him casually. It shouldn't matter if you're really good friends. If he doesn't want to talk about it, don't pressure him.
-Cat

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MrNeWyOrK answered Sunday November 14 2004, 4:40 pm:
maybe if hes making fun of you and stuff he shouldnt be your friends cuz u problay dont want a friend that hurts your feelings rite
make up your mind if hes a true friend or not
cya
*Mr.NeWyOrK*

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