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What is going on?
Well, there's this guy in one of my classes and I like him a lot. I've written him two notes now. The first one asked if he wanted to hang out the weekend of halloween with me and some friend and I gave it to him on a Tuesday. He never wrote me back so on Friday, I told him not to worry about writing me back because I guess he didn't want to hang out anyways. Well, then he told me that he didn't write me back because he was busy this weekend with some friends. Well, he started talking to me more since then. Last week I gave him another note saying that I didn't think he wanted to hang out with me or just be my friend or anything like that and he never wrote me back. I'm not sure what's going on, but since that note he talks to me a whole bunch and will just start random conversations with me. By the way he is very shy and doesn't talk too much, but now he talks to me a lot. I'm not sure what to think about all this. Do you think I should just confront him and tell him that obviously what I said in the note was true? Please give me some great advice! It would help a lot!
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well it kinda seems like he is starting to like you, just try to get to know him better and talk to him more. Be friends first and then see what happens. But just be yourself around him and talk to him alot after a while when you feel that it is right just tell him how you feel. Hope this helped!
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Well lots of guys aren't into the note writing thing so i just wouldn't worry about it to much.
*~Hannah~*
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He seems like he's trying to reply to you verbally rather than writin notes back, lol. he must find you a pleasure to talk to if he's talking a lot.. and it sounds like he really does like yOu not doesnt wna be your friend or anything. If he didnt like you why would he talk? sounds like he wants to get to know ya! x0x muah*jess
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ur crazy! what's really happening is if he's shy, he probably likes you as a friend but your notes are a "guilt motivation" to speak to you. He feels guilty and that makes him get over his shyness so he talks to you. All I can say is you need to ask him "do I make you feel bad, and are my notes the ONLY reason why you speak to me? I like you as a friend, I was just curious..."
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Well he probaly liked you from the start because after the second note when you said that he didnt want to hang out with him he probaly knew that he had to start talking so you would like him i dont think you should say anything about the notes you should just talk to him and stuff :-)
cya
*Mr.NeWyOrK*
yes u should c if he likes u :-P
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Maybe he just is trying to show you that he does want to be friends but nothing more? He's just trying to be nice..so when he starts convos with you..talk to him. Or since he's shy he likes you but doesnt wanna do anything with you just yet. You never know..but for now, when he trys to talk to you..talk back:)
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