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Q: so okay valentines is coming up i know well there is this guy named skylar and i really like him, well im not sure if he likes me, i mean i dont get to talk to him that much ,and i am afraid to talk to him, but i dont want to say somthing stupid. i am 13/f 7th grade i know younge oh well so if you are gonna say somthing about my age please dont bother posting please, well anyway i want to talk to him so, but what do we talk about..... and how do i find out if he likes me..... and if i find out he doesnt like anyone should i ask him out?! please please help me!!!!! i will rate hi!

IF he dont like ne1 ask him out if he likes someone and the person he likes gots a bf ask him out if the person he likes is single and hes to afriad to ask her out or if hes been rejected by her ask him out........ the worse thing he could say would be no and thats not the end of the world

Luv ya
Hannah

Q: is there an easy way to get guys attention w/o acting slutty? because its very hard when guys are teenagers and have sex on the mind at all times

There is an article in the new Teen People Magizne((the one wit Ashlee Simpson on the front))It has like the 25 ways to get the guyy((like wearing pink, flirty hair curl, etc etc))

Luv YA
Hannah

Q: OKAY heres the deal i got this areo sweater for christmas its pink with a deep V and a cute little brown belt and jeans and OMG the cutest earrings ever they have 3hearts going down with diamonds in the middle of each one..........Do you think this will be a cute outfit for the Dance or what??

PS----i dont have a date so i was tryin to make sure that i made all the ppls who could've asked me DIE

OMG sounds GREAT!! totally wear it!! if you dont get asked to dance then well the guyys at yo schoool is crazii!!! Or to scared to ask you

Luv Always
Hannah

PS-I think i have the same aero sweater but in blu how cool!! lolz

Q: im in 8th grade and me and my boyfried have been going out for a few months...but we dont rly talk on the phone.We talk ALOT in school but not on the phone and when we talk there is allways something to talk about..is this a bad thing that we dont rly talk on the phone?
help i rate!!

i dont think it is a bad thing NOT to talk on the phone with your b/f i mean i nevered talked to mine on the phone and im 13 so yea i mean if you guys needs to talk then yeah or something

hannah

Q: I've been friends with my best friend Kristen, for about a year or two. Recently I got with this guy, and him and I got into a conversation the other day about what we would give up for each other. I then realized, that I would give up my best friend Kristen, for this guy. Does that mean that I'm an awful friend? The way I look at it, it seems that my boyfriend has replaced my old best friend.. and he is now not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well, which is why I feel I could give her up for him. Let me know. &heart;

YOUR giving up your best friend for a guy!??!?!!? your krazi i would never give up a best friend for a guy i broke it off with a guy who said you cant hang with her and i was so pissed so i ended it anyways if he is making you choose him or her thats juss the begining of a whole lot more tests soon he'll be asking you if you wanna have sex with him or something that could damage you for the rest of your life and thats all i have to say *~!Hannah!~*

Q: Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do?

i read the first 2 or 3 lines and you say you weigh 105lbs thats not fat first of all now about the dudes who pick on you are buttmunches so dont worry about what they say now about you throwing up after every meal or w/e thats juss disgusting instead of throwing up try going to the gym every weekend for an hour or so i mean it worked for me i lost about 15 lbs and im 13 too so juss do that if you wanna talk more im me at monkeebuziness10 iight hoped i helped!!! *~!Hannah!~*

Q: I am best friends with this boy called Tom. Things were fine until I introduced him to another friend who lives really far away from us, Hannah. Now all he does is talk online to her and I'm so jealous. I don't know why, he's just a friend but I get so jealous when they talk. I have a boyfriend, I don't like Tom in that way so I don't understand it. Tom and I used to like eachother and we dated once but I don't feel that way about him anymore. How do I stop feeling this way?

well i would juss let it go dont worry about them worry about YOUR relationship with YOUR boyfriend bcuz if he sees you jealous he might get a lil mad that is if he is anything like my boyfriend *~!Hannah!~*

Q: hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help

AVOID AT ALL COSTS!!!!! get a new email and never talk to him again!!! hope i helped!! *~!Hannah!~*

Q: I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

Well babii doll he was probally in a crappy mood because he got dumped and that can make anybody sad xspecialy if he really liked her but him liking you i dont really know about that you really didnt give us enough details

Q: does anyone know where you get those VOTE FOR PEDRO shirts? ive seen a few people that have them!! and its my boyfriends birthday next tuesday and we both watched napolean dynamite together and we LOVE that movie....so i reallly want to get him one as a joke....

h0t t0pic!!!!

Q: 13/f I've been playing th epiano for 4 years, i have to admit, I'm gettin pretty good at it, but I HATE IT!!!!!!! I've hated it since maybe 2 years ago, but my parents always say: "oh, your getting better" or "the piano teacher will be so upset if you quit". But now, I've just about had it, and my parents are like; give it a chance, one more lesson, but when they do that they'll tell the teacher i wanna quit, and he gets all nice and easy....ugh I HATE IT.

I've always been interested in the drums or guitar....something not very easy, but new to learn. If I do quit though, this'll be a load to drop on my parents [they're the sort of classical, act professional, ivy-league-for-you parents, plus I'd have to get the instruments somewhere!!!!

I just asked my parents a minute ago to quit, and they got all "stop being a teenager....ugh" and "one more lesson" how can I FIRMLY tell them I want to quit, without all this other crap coming up? And how hard is it to play the drums? either question, I'LL LOVE YOU IF YOU ANSWER IT!!

Be like i get guitar((or drums)) and you get music okay

Q: I dont mean to have a blonde moment here, what what the heck is a stick shift???

--Clueless

OMG i kno that and im 13/f but anyway its where you have to like change gears

Q: Well...what clothing styles are in style this winter...and what accessories will spice up an outfit? Please give me some ideas!

American Eagle, DEB, Wet Seal, Areopostale, and you can check out some magiznes like seventeen or teenpeople or cosmo girl hoped i helped!!

*~!Hannah!~*

Q: im out of style and have no money what should i do??

ask your parents for some money then hit the mall with your friends who the same sense of style you do *~!Hannah!~*

Q: me and my ex bf have broken up 11 months ago and i have been with my current bf 10 months. i went out with my ex for 2 years and a month... i love my curent boyfriend alot..... but i cant help but think abt my ex from time to time.... he broke up with me saying he didnt love me but the next day he called me to tell me he just wanted to see other people and he wanted me to wait for him.... and that he still loved me.... should i have waited is that why i still think abt him till this day..... is that normal after all this time i still think abt him....can it be that i do love my boyfriend i have right now but im still wondering abt the ex? this is tearing me up please help

let me put it this way you never stop loving someone you juss learn to live without so ask yourself you can i live without *~!Hannah!~*

Q: i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e

nothin you can do your juss verticaly challenged

*~!Hannah!~*

Q: A lot of people at school call me teachers' pet. I don't like any of my teachers, nor suck up to them. I only get good grades because I want to get into the Naval Academy. I don't show off or anything.. i think.. so what should I do to shut these bitches up? (13, F, 7th grade)

OMG i want to go to the Navel Academy to!!! anyways juss be yourself have a ball live life to the fullest and hope for the best!!!
*~!Hannah!~*

Q: i'm 13/f. Okay, i like this guy. bu the problem is that He is good friends with my ex-boyfriend and I am good friends With the guy like's ex-girlfriend!!!! Would we be able to go out? or would we just get "in troble"

follow your heart itll work out for the best *~Hannah~*

Q: ive become really depressed lately..bc of my weight...im five feet tall and i weigh 135. i dont think im fat but then again i dont know...i have big boobs and a butt..so that sometimes gets mistaken for fat also and makes me look bigger...can someone plz tell me how to get rid of all this weight? i dont have a gym memebership so i cant work out...any suggestions??

In the feb. Issue of Seventeen Magizne it has a little work thing and you could like loose some inches and pounds

Q: Hey guys! I'll try to make thise short.. okay, so I want to go to this high school in Aurora, IL and I am from Springfield. It's called Illinois Math and Science Academy. My parents don't care or anything but they say that I can't go to Florida with my youth group or Puerto Rico with my friend Erin over the summer if I want to go to this high school. It's a 3-year school and it would mean I skip 9th grade, but I would also get to study many cool subjects like astronomy. Which should I pick and why should I pick it? i rate high. Thanks in advance! ~Brit