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jealousy 13/f
I am best friends with this boy called Tom. Things were fine until I introduced him to another friend who lives really far away from us, Hannah. Now all he does is talk online to her and I'm so jealous. I don't know why, he's just a friend but I get so jealous when they talk. I have a boyfriend, I don't like Tom in that way so I don't understand it. Tom and I used to like eachother and we dated once but I don't feel that way about him anymore. How do I stop feeling this way?
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Hey! i think your feeling this way because like you don't wanna lose your best friend and you think he likes Hannah better than you but don't worry too much...xoxo!!
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well i would juss let it go dont worry about them worry about YOUR relationship with YOUR boyfriend bcuz if he sees you jealous he might get a lil mad that is if he is anything like my boyfriend *~!Hannah!~*
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I think the reason why you're feeling this way is because you are afraid that Hannah will take your best friend's place with Tom. You might also feel this way because your friend is getting more attention than you from Tom. Try talking to them and just tell them how you feel. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Ok, I know this situation back and forth, inside and out. I think I know why you're jealous of Tom talking to your friend. It's not because you like him, it's because you don't want to lose him! I know how that is... anyway. It wont help to be upset, or angry, or jealous. Talk to your friend who you introduced to Tom, and talk to Tom about how you feel. Tell them that you're jealous and that you want to keep their friendships, but you don't want to lose them.. like if they ever were to date, you wouldn't want to stop talking to them. If they are understanding of you, then they should have some advice or something to say about this. If they think that you're a total freak and a big baby, you should get some new friends. True friends will listen to what you have to say, comprehend it as well as possible, and help you through this. Tom may like this girl, and he may not. This girl may like Tom, and she may not. You have to ask to know for sure. Jealosy will kill you from the inside out.. talk about it with your friends.
-FunnyCide
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Hey! Well maybe the reason why you feel this way is that, you also do think Hannah might take your best friends place with Tom! I think you might be a little jealous is because, your not getting attention from Tom. I got jealous, because i didnt' get the attention i use to have. This is something you have to talk `bout with Tom, or something, you would have to adjust to! I hope i helped, if u need anything else, feel free to stop by my inbox! Take care.
.:*PhuOng*:.
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Maybe because you feel hannah might take your best friend place. Thats sometimes how i felt w/my best friend. Sometimes even my boyfriend. It might help if you talk to him. it always helps me!-trix
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