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heartbroken over my best friend...
this girl, we'll call her lucy, ok well, we were the best of friends for 6th and 7th grade. last year i would sometimes get mad at her, and she would cry and i just felt so bad and would miss her and i'd forgive her. but this year a new girl came and she completly ditched me for her and i didn't even do anything wrong! now she always says they are best friends. plus, i dont think this new chick even likes me! i dont know what to do- it's not fair- i've cried so much and for some reason she just doesnt even care. im just so heart broken! should i just try and forget about her... even though it's neat impossible.. or is ther a way to be friend again?
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maybe "lucy" feels as if once she met this other girl, she saw how a real friendship should be and maybe she thinks that after hanging out with this other girl, that you weren't a good friend to her. i think you just need to sit her down and explain to her how you're feeling and just remember that as you get older, things change...alot of things will change...including friends. so, you also need to understand how she is hanging out with someone new, but you're right, it's not right of her to ditch you for this new girl all of a sudden. the only way to clear things up is if you talk to lucy and let her know how you're feeling.
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There are certain times in friendships that are rough don't let them get to ya. Just hold on...
If the other friend doesn't like you, show her that you are fun to be around. If she likes you, then I'm pretty sure "Lucy" will like you. Then, you guys can be a 3-some. I'm sorry if this doesn't work out...I tried my best.
-Michelle-
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Been there, done that - many times. It's best if you can get her alone and talk with her. Find a neutral place, like McDonald's or the food court at the mall. Get a Coke or lunch or a snack and just talk. Start it off by asking her if you did anything that would make her behave the way she is behaving, like she hates you or something. Does she really not like you or is she acting this way because her new friend doesn't like you? And does her new friend even know you or is she going according to what your old friend told her about last year (I hope you understood that, it sure ran on a lot!)
If she doesn't even want to meet with you, well, unfortunately, I think that answers your question. Pick up the pieces of your heart, find a new best friend, and realize that your former best friend doesn't deserve you. I know it sounds like the end of the world, but you're young (and I also know you really didn't need to hear that also) and you will live.
Hope it helps.
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Talk to her. Maybe you upset her in a way you didnt realize. She probably doesnt mean to be acting like that, but you should totally talk to her. Please rate! Hope I helped!
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