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Hey it's Michelle! I'm ready to do whatever it takes to help you out. I'm only 13 but I am very smart(all A's) and lets just say I am sort of a miracle worker.
I am a gymnast, so I am very strong. Not just my muscles, but my heart and my social personality.

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this girl, we'll call her lucy, ok well, we were the best of friends for 6th and 7th grade. last year i would sometimes get mad at her, and she would cry and i just felt so bad and would miss her and i'd forgive her. but this year a new girl came and she completly ditched me for her and i didn't even do anything wrong! now she always says they are best friends. plus, i dont think this new chick even likes me! i dont know what to do- it's not fair- i've cried so much and for some reason she just doesnt even care. im just so heart broken! should i just try and forget about her... even though it's neat impossible.. or is ther a way to be friend again?

There are certain times in friendships that are rough don't let them get to ya. Just hold on...
If the other friend doesn't like you, show her that you are fun to be around. If she likes you, then I'm pretty sure "Lucy" will like you. Then, you guys can be a 3-some. I'm sorry if this doesn't work out...I tried my best.
-Michelle-

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please help me. im 14 and when i was 9 my mum left me and i was left with my dad but my dad blaimed me and he started hitting me and then he has been taken to court but he wont get sent to prison because i cant give evidence because i cut myself and im 'suicidal' so they say im mentally unstable what shall i do i want to die and im scared.

OMG! Leave him... do anything to get away, report him to child protection services or something. Do not take the chance of getting hurt by an abusive parent and do not hurt yourself because of it. you need to do something about it. run away and live with a friend or something like that. don't say with him.

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my garbage cans do not fit under my sink in the kitchen, so we leave them to the side. What are some good things tht I can do to them to 'hide' them, because they look really ugly just standing out in the open. I want to make them look nicer. Thanks!

We put ours in the pantry, but I don't recommend that. It makes the pantry smell. :( Since your trash is already outside, Why don't you just put it in your garage? It won't be noticable and the gasoline smell already overwhelms it, so no stinky trash smell.

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Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.

One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..

so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?

(sorry its so long)

xoxoo

My friend went out with the person I liked very much. I felt like it was the end of the world, and we got in a huge fight. That doesn't matter. I got over it. It's silly to lose a friendship over boys. If you really like this boy, then don't hold yourself back. Believe me your friend will get over it. My friend did it to me TWICE, but I still love her to death.

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okay .. well there's this kid ivan who likes me .. well i don't like me and all his friends and like my friends are like are you two gonna go out b.c he likes you a lot .. i'm like okay but i don't like him he's just like my friend .. well ivan is always calling me non-stop .. to the point where i've told my family just not to give me the fone .. and now he calls my cell fone non-stop and leaves messages like .. on time he said he was upset and he was like i dunno .. just hearing ur voicemail and u talking made me feel better.. okay we're 14! i don't even kno what the frigg love is and i feel like he''s stalking me // he knows i don't like him and won't go out with him .. but he doesn't get the ount to stop calling and i don't know what to do .. b.c it gets me mad and aggravated .. so i need help on how to get this kid to back off

Well tell him, or he will keep doing it. Just say that you don't like being smuthered with phone calls and conversations that scare you. Tell him to keep it to himself. He needs to let go. Get straight to the point and tell him.

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ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.

I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx

it is unhealthy...my sister is only one inch higher than you and i'm sure she weighs much more, and she is totally in shape. I can't really tell you how to gain weight cuz i spend most of my time burning it during gymnastics. but maybe you should see a doctor

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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!

Friends are like...shoes. You can grow out of them especially if they hurt you. If your shoes aren't not comfortable, you don't get them, right?
Same with friends, if you aren't comfortable and you don't trust them, don't be friends. Don't risk getting hurt again. Find someone you CAN trust and you CAN be yourself with. It doesn't matter if they beg you to come back to them. It's their fault.

Tell them...friends are a privilege. If you lose that privilege, you don't get it back.

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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw?

If you feel that you need to then you should, but don't if you feel pressured by your parents. You can be beautiful no matter how skinny, fat, tall or short you are. It's all up to you. Ask the people who like you..."Do you think I am getting bigger?" or whatever gives you an honest answer.

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i have been with my boyfreind off and on kinda of for 8 months, i wanted to take a break becuase like i felt like he was holding me back from things i wanted to do, like he always wnated to knoe where i was or what i was doing and always aummesed things like he had no trust in me or sumthing. but during the break i tlaked to afew other guys and i felt likle happy talking to them and didnt wanan go back, but he keeps like sucking me backinto the relasitship bcuz he knows he kan, becuase i still care for him way to much and hes all in love with me and stuff and woukdnt never do ne thing againt me, i duno its jus hard, becuase im the one thats confused i could jus go right back into the relatsihip and b the sameold way but i think i want something new, hs the first guy ive ever relaly made out with kind of my first everything, so i odnt kno ne thing other then him so is kind of hard when alot of other guys want to like hang out or somethingand i want to but i cant knopwing i sitll have him, i duno im jus really confused !

If you are confused with your relationship(which you are), ask yourself do you really love him or do you want to try someone new. Either way you can make a mistake. Look deep down inside of you...now if you want to to stay with him, tell him that sometimes you need a little space. Don't make it sound like a break up though. If you don't want to stay with him, then put it down on him(not to hard).
Whenever he comes to talk to you, you feel smuthered and want him to go away. Then, I suggest you find someone new.

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OK-
last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ

SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY

The same thing happened to me. All the guys used to like me, and I love that feeling even if I do not like the people. Then came middle school, my best friend changed her looks, and the boys were drooling over her. I thought about it, and realized if she can change so can I. I tried really hard. Still didn't work, but that's ok. Nobody is judging you. You make the first move. Ask the guy out don't wait for him to ask you out. I've made that mistake tons of times. Find a guy that you might like and go out on a date. If you don't like it dump him.
Remember:
If he breaks my heart, I break his jaw. Hehe!

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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

Well, if you want to look good at school then don't wear the dark liner (especially if you're pale). what you want to do is keep it neutral. Fall is all about the NEUTRALS.
Eye colors:
blue-silver(light, medium, & dark skin)
green-gold, light brown(light to medium) champagne(dark)
brown-gold(light, medium & dark)
hazel-champagne(dark skin)gold(medium,light)
Still having trouble...be your own judge. Get some makeup out try it out. Critique it and find out why it doesn't work for you.

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