Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 7:28 am
please help me. im 14 and when i was 9 my mum left me and i was left with my dad but my dad blaimed me and he started hitting me and then he has been taken to court but he wont get sent to prison because i cant give evidence because i cut myself and im 'suicidal' so they say im mentally unstable what shall i do i want to die and im scared.
americangirl101 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 9:09 pm: Call a relitive/friend and call a child protection center. They will help. Im sure that your family will be willing to take you in. It's not right for your dad to do this to you. I so sorry bless your heart. <3 American Girl [ americangirl101's advice column | Ask americangirl101 A Question ]
DeathAngel101 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:56 pm: ...i can only imagine the pain you feel. what kind of shitty parent treats their child like that,huh?! go ahead and leave him! go live with another family member or friend who actually cares about you.
sorry if i sound kinda tense but i'm at maximum rage right now after hearing this... [ DeathAngel101's advice column | Ask DeathAngel101 A Question ]
CoKeIzZle answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:14 pm: hey hun,first of all i have to say i am SO sorry about all this!Call a child services place and get him reported!Don't kill yourself! Talk to a close relative about this and go stay with your aunt/uncle/grandparents!oh my i am so sorry about this! God Bless!xoxo Nicole feel free to ask me anything! [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
Carebear23 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:00 pm: OMG! Leave him... do anything to get away, report him to child protection services or something. Do not take the chance of getting hurt by an abusive parent and do not hurt yourself because of it. you need to do something about it. run away and live with a friend or something like that. don't say with him. [ Carebear23's advice column | Ask Carebear23 A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Thursday December 30 2004, 12:49 pm: oh shit!!!!!! Well dont be like tht your scaring me just thinking bout that, i know thinbgs most be hrd with ure mom not there andno is not your fault that your mom left you, and your dad is prob just mad at i duno what! But things will get better just try and pull though it.. it may not seem like it now, but jus hold on and trust me things will get better, please dont hurt yourself any more and make things worse! [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
frenchy answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:43 am: hey, i know that you have probably heard this lke a hundred times by now, but you have to stop cutting yourself, it doesnt do you any good, believe me, it doesnt. you might think that it does, but it really doesnt. dont kill yourself, because that wont help either. dont run away from your fears. talk to someone about this, a close friend/relative, someone you can trust. yuo have to tell on your dad again, its not your fault that your mom left, your dad just cant keep abusing you like this. tell someone about this, call for help, its the best way to go. talk to me if you need more help, i'll be glad to answer your questions, peace and love [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:03 am: Don't kill yourself, please. If your mom isn't around anymore, talk to a close friend, relative, anyone. See if you could live with one of them. Do you have godparents? You could live with them instead. But don't kill yourself. Just get away from your dad. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:19 am: How often does he hit you? If he hits you often, get a video camera, a small one if you can, and hide it somewhere. Capture your dads abuse on the camera, and take it to the police. If you cant do that, try and stop cutting yourself so the next time your dad hits you you'll have evidence. You must have bruises all over, and they think you did that to yourself? Im sorry your in this horrible situation,..have you talked to your guidance couselor or a trusted adult? Try that maybe. A tape recorder could even catch him. Maybe go to a friends house to live there and unwind for a week or two.
I really hope everything works out..drop me somethin in my inbox if you have anything else to ask
-melissa [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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