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okay .. well there's this kid ivan who likes me .. well i don't like me and all his friends and like my friends are like are you two gonna go out b.c he likes you a lot .. i'm like okay but i don't like him he's just like my friend .. well ivan is always calling me non-stop .. to the point where i've told my family just not to give me the fone .. and now he calls my cell fone non-stop and leaves messages like .. on time he said he was upset and he was like i dunno .. just hearing ur voicemail and u talking made me feel better.. okay we're 14! i don't even kno what the frigg love is and i feel like he''s stalking me // he knows i don't like him and won't go out with him .. but he doesn't get the ount to stop calling and i don't know what to do .. b.c it gets me mad and aggravated .. so i need help on how to get this kid to back off
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Well tell him, or he will keep doing it. Just say that you don't like being smuthered with phone calls and conversations that scare you. Tell him to keep it to himself. He needs to let go. Get straight to the point and tell him.
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Yea! hmm this sounds familair! haha lol ive had this happen to me before to! This guy.. wont sey NAMES lol keptcalling me all the time, and he lied me alot and stuff if always hear bout, and then like i tlaked to him in the beg, but thn it got really bad and he wood calland jus sey dumb things or ask stupid questions i was jus like ok w.e! and i kept telling my parents if it was him to sey im not home and stuff like that! I jus kinda stopped talking to him andwhen he called itold him not 2 call so much ne more, even tho i hate ebing mean like that i HATED him calling me so it was ok after awhile! lol But if u kan dont give out your house phone becuase then sometimes p0eople will start calling it when u get olkder at like weird times! if u hav a cel phon give that # out instead becuase then u Can contul when ot toanswer it and knowho it is nd stuff like that, yea being 14 thats pretty bad and al i have to sey is jus stay away frum him!
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I have a guy tht does tht we broke up and he still calls me non-stop and parents r starting to get mad...
just tell him u want to be friends
if he doesnt understand them tlk it through him and tell him nicely to stop calling so much and he should under stand
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Ive been through the same exact thing. This one kid liked me and would call me 5 times a day. I had to tell him everytime that i had to go do my hw. he got soo annoying that i started being rude and mean to him. This drew him away cuz i didnt have a reason to be mad at him. i just was. Then eventually he stopped liking me. I even told him once that my mom said he was calling too much and he needed to stop calling my house. lol it worked. or just talk to him about it and tell him to leave u alone. hope i helped
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In most states, if you feel threatened by Ivan's behavior you (or your parents on your behalf) can qualify for a restraining order. Regardless of whether or not you want to get one right now, you can always let him know it is an action you are willing to take. Talk to him one final time. Tell him that his behavior meets the legal definition of harassment and that if he continues to contact you, you will file a restraining order. If he contacts you again, follow through with filing the order. I would also recommend documenting the harassment by saving his phone messages, keeping a log of his calls, etc.
Be cautious in dealing with this person. He seems to be fairly emotional and that can make him unpredictable. When you talk to him, be clear and firm. Tell him you will take legal action and be willing to do so.
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have ur dad answer the phone next time and have em chew him out ofr making it ring all the time, lol... you just need to straight up tell him to stop bugging u so much, threatn him or something, or get a BF just tell him ur sick of him always hitting on you and calling and stuff, hope i helped!
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This is so easy, just tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you will call the police... that way, when you DO call the police, you can be all like "I told him to leave me alone and he wouldn't!" Then they will go around to his place and ask him about... he will be so scared! HAHA! :P
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okay..
what you need to do is talk to him
tell him that u don't like him and
that he can't keep calling you and
stuff - but if you feel bad ..make
up an excuse like: "my mom doesn't
let me date.. or .."i'm grounded b
cuz u keep calling me every second
be creative lol..i hope i helped<3
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Maybe if he calls your phone so much, you should make a voice mail that says, Ivan please stop calling, I'm sorry I don't like you like that your just a friend and this is getting out of hand. And then after he calls change your voicemail back to normal. Or you can just tell him or tell a friend and get them to tell him. That is very crazy and that happened to me also about a month ago. I felt like he was stalking me too, so I blocked his sn and I stopped answering his calls and when he did call and I answered I told him I had to go and he got annoyed with it I guess and quit doing that and now he doesn't ever call me anymore. -Kayla
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