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ughh..
Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.
One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..
so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?
(sorry its so long)
xoxoo
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I went through the same thing. I felt bad at first and at first my friend hated me. But she got over it and so did i. now we're still really good friends and i'm still with the same guy.
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WELL YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR FRIEND THE TRUTH AND IF SHE GETS MAD AT YOU THEN SHE IS REALLY NOT WORTH IT. SHE NEEDS TO GET OVER IT IF SHE TOLD YOU THAT SHE DOESNT LIKE HIM ANYMORE THEN YOU ARE FREE TO GO OUT WITH HIM. SHE HAS NO SAY IN IT AND IF SHE GETS MAD THEN LIKE YOU SAID SHE IS NOT REALLY A GOOD FRIEND!!!!
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My friend went out with the person I liked very much. I felt like it was the end of the world, and we got in a huge fight. That doesn't matter. I got over it. It's silly to lose a friendship over boys. If you really like this boy, then don't hold yourself back. Believe me your friend will get over it. My friend did it to me TWICE, but I still love her to death.
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I've been in the same situation... the thing you gotta understand is if your friend is really a friend then she'll want you to be happy and she'll understand..And if she likes a bunch of guys then you really shouldn't worry about it.. believe me she'll get over it with time.
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you need to figure out what is more important..your friend..(even though she isnt your GREAT friend) or..a guy..Many friendships are often broke up because of guys. Don't be the one to be the back stabber. If your friend is like how you described her qoute&qoute;"but shes the type that likes almost like everybody" she will get over this guy and find someone new..my advice to you is not go out with this guy until she's spillin to you about someone else! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
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Well I think you should so go for him! If your friend gets mad bring up what she said about not liking him anymore! I mean she did say that so why not go for him? *Hope I helped!* :)
-Emily-
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First of all I dont see what you are so worried about. If your friend already said that she didnt like him anymore, then just believe her!! Im sure she wouldnt mind if u went out with him! And also u said that she isnt that great of a friend.. so if shes not a very good friend, then what r u so worried about losing?? U might ask her how she would feel if u went out with him. Or if u REALLY dont want her to find out, then you could just go out with him on weekends, and how would she ever find out? well i hope it all works out..goodluck!!
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i think what you should do..is just be "together" with him..but like not telling anyone..that way u can see if it relaly is worth goin out with him..and ur friend..dont worry..shell get over it..u should just try to tell her ureself..let her be the first one to know if u guyz start telling every1 that ur goin out..hope i helped<3
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haha wow this sounds familiar and go figure the guy's name in my situation was mike also. to prevent drama id just stay away from him-lord knows u don't want it to turn out like my situation did. if you really want him tho, go for it-if your friend is "the type who likes everybody" like you said then she will get over it eventually. just be careful cuz you never quite know what you are getting into...
"always know if the juice is worth the squeeze"
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If you snog him at a party, your friend will totally find out... Sounds like your friend is a bit of a psycho, why don't you just go to the party with the attitude of "what happens happens" and then if something does happen with this guy, she will probably hate you, but you can't live your whole life trying to make EVERYONE happy.
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Wait, is your friend going with the party? If not, make sure no one is gonna like tell her or wtvr. Maybe you should go on a walk with him when you get there or go in a bedroom and make sure no one sees you go up there, that way no one can tell her and if you go on that walk, it will just be the two of you. Just some ideas. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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