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heyY! mY namE isZ karyN! i'M 14/F/ohiO! y0o gotT questionS..I gotT answerS! asK awaY! i'lL B shurE tO getT tO yeR questionS righT awaY!! x0Lallyp0p
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hello. well im having some problems with this guy who i am talking to. he and i get a long great we talk for hours, all through the night and all day. me and him have been talking for 4 monthes and we went out for about one month but me and him still talk everyday every minute we can- but the problem is he one day he tells me he loves me and then the next day he is like i dont love you and i dont want to be more than friends with you and he can be such an asshole but then he can be so sweet. and i just cant let him go, it doesnt matter what he does to me, and i mean he has hurt me really bad but i always go back to him because if i didnt it would be a huge part of my life that is missing, if would be just an empty whole that i wouldnt be able to fill because of how often we talk, he calls me everyday! and just dont know what to do because ya he hurts me but i think it would hurt more if i didnt have him anymore. so what do you think?
well if it helps i get a lot of emails that say "he loves me one day and the next day he tells me he hates me"..the good news is..all guy are like that..the bad news..you cant stop it..if he's in a good mood he will tell you he loves you..if hes in a bad mood..you can expect the opposite. best way to handle it..let it slide through..when he calls you..just say im busy can i call you back..it will save you from getting hurt and him from saying something he will regret..hope i helped! x0Lallyp0p
karyn.. wow i need your help like reelii bad!! i love this kid soOoOoOo much!! like i dont kno why he just makes me sOooOo happy and hes knows like how to make me laugh smile jeez its maddness!! i love him very much n he used to love me but now he doesnt feel the same way and it hurts me soOooo bad.. like i say im over him but im not at all.. it sux... i reelii need help... n we just went out n then like 4 days later he tells me he doesnt like me ne more.. n like weve went out b4 like 4 times i think.. n i cant let go of the moments we've shared i love him.. i reelii love him... i think.. i need some help kayrn please help me!!
there's a good chance that you guys will go out again..since you have already gone out 4 times..but jeez oh man i know what you're going through..n yeah i was *obsessed* with this kid chucky..n we both liked each other..but one day he just got over me and it hurt me so bad..i cried and couldn;t get my mind off of him..i got over him by hanging out with my girlfriends and meeting other guys. Talking to your guy friends will help you too!Just tell people you trust how you feel..it will help you so much to let it all out..But the best way to handle this is to keep busy! Hang out with friends as much time as possible as well as your family! Stay active! Hope I helped! keep me updated sweetie! I love y0o! xOLallyp0p
karyn do i have a big weiner? i like to call my penis methodman and sometimes the commander
yer weiner is huge..
**~Ok.. I like this one kid.. he asked a girl out.. but i dont no if she said yes or no because i asked him what she said and he said i dont wanna talk about the wench.. but then i think thats a No but like i wanna go out with him but i wanna do more things with him.............................................................**~im 14 i wanna get more closer to this kid like have sex with him but sometimes i get scared because im afread someing will happend~** what should i do
well obviously he said no to the other girl..if he called her a wench..but i wouldn't go out with this guy juzt because you want to have sex with him..get closer to him by like knowing him better..not by having sex with him..
heres sometying to think about:
-what if y0o get pregnant? can you face your friends and parents?
-what if you get AIDS..those plans you've had since you were in kindergarten saying im going to get married and have lots of kids are completely out of the question..your screwed for life..and can never have sex again. what if you fall in love with a guy who wants to have kids..well that means you're out of luck.. just think about it. your only 14..i know you can get that urge but theres more disadvantages in sex than advantages..
x0Lallyp0p Hope I helped
this is matt we need to hang out cuz u always change yo planes last second on me.
(i kno its not really a ? but o well)
lol matt..yeh' im sorry..lol..my parents are perdy gay sometimes..call me seriously..omg but go and see meet the fockers with me..like the day after christmas..okay? lol
hey karyn yeah i do go to your school umm i have a question i really dont know what to do i am bi and i made out with girls but thats all i have done with girls and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or i can really let my feelings out ... what should ido? and i love sex i cant stop doing stuff with guys what can i do to kinda help make me stop a little bit? thanks luv ya im 14
hmm..i dont think your bi..i think that its just the spur of the moment and you happen to be with a girl..if you were bi you would be doing way more stuff with girls than just make out..but i honestly would not let that get out! especially if you go to my school..you know how much drama goes around in r damn school..you could ruin your rep if you let that get around..keep it on the down low..
alright about the sex thing..idk heres something to think about to maybe get you to stop..ok what if you happen to get pregnant? what would you do? what would you tell your friends your parents? would you get grounded? ok now what if you got AIDS..you're screwed fer life now..what if you get any other kind of diseases that won't allow you to ever have sex again..guess what that means plans for gettin married and having kids are out..
those are just some situations to think about..if you were ever in those positions..maybe it will help you to stop..you're young..and you won't be much longer..so take advantage of bein 14..hope I helped babe! x0Lallyp0p
**~Hey Karyn..... I need help... I like this one kid... I met him over the weekend... He is one year older then me.. He goes to Normandy... I don't know if he likes me... well he said he might ask me out in the future.. but like he also likes one of my best friends... and this always happends to me and im sick of it.... but this kid is really different i like him alot N like i wanna become closer to him.. but then he also like my best friend what should i do?~**
well..what if he really likes your friend more than you? your gonna be wasting your time with him then..and besides that you could get hurt. hav a little one on one talk with him and find out who he likes more..mayb talk to his friends and find owt if he isz a playa..hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
theres this girl i like but im not going out with her yet and this other girl i like but just wanta do stuff with her is that bad wut should i do
yeah..it is bad to just want to do stuff with this other girl..cuz you're using her. how do you think she will feel if she found out you were using her? Well just figure out who you like more and why..like who has the better qualitites..but don't be a playa..x0Lallyp0p Hope I helped!
what if u like 3 girls and maby 2 of them like you but u like the thrid girl the most
well maybe the third one doesn't know you like her! You should talk to her about it! write a note! say.. hey do you have any feelings for me..cuz i got some for you and i just want to know if i have a chance! and the worst thing you can do to a girl is to go out with her and still like somebody else..Hope I helped babez!! x0Lallyp0p
Alright, Karyn..this is serious nd i need your HONEST TO GOD opionion..
Do you think its weird that im 14 nd i havent done anything..at all?? Like not even kissed yet..i mean...its not im prude er ne thing its just..im waiting for the right guy..the first guy i kiss will probably be the first one i do stuff with...and the one i'll remember forever. Have any advice AT ALL on my situation? Any feedback?
ThAnX sWeEtHeArT..
sighned,
*HoPeLeSsLy WaItInG*
well..I wouldnt call you prude..but its time that you definitely experience a kiss..your 14..you need to experiment a little bit! But I totally get what yer saying bout waiting for the right guy! and I totally give you credit for achieiving that..i could never go out with a guy and at least not kiss him..(wow I feel like a whore now lol)but its your choice..im not gunna tell you to kiss every guy you go out with..and im not tellin you not to kiss a guy..it depends on your feelings..and when YOUR time is right..hope I helped sweetie! Let me noe! x0Lallyp0p
**~you no how i was takin about my friends ditching me tho but like there my best friends and like there really only the friends i have i dontno what to do theres no one else to really hang out with them~**
well maybe you should give them another chance! If it doesn't work out or they ditch you again then find new friends! Trust me they're are a lot of other poeple you can hang out with! Or just be friends with all different people. You don't have to isolate yourself to one group. Be like me, I don't hang out in one group but I hang out with all different people. Every weekend I'm hangin with someone new! This way you're never stuck with only a couple of friends! Go0d Luck! x0Lallyp0p
**karyn what would you do if you got ditch on holloween or like everytime you wanna do somethin with your friends like this one time i was suppost to do somethin with my friends and they never came and got me. . . . should i be friends with them. . . . but now there like all being my friends now and all like hanging out with me i dunno what to do. . . . and this kid likes me and i like him but i wanna get to no him more what should i do?!**
i had one friend that was like that..she's still my friend now but we rarely talk..i would find new friends..you don't need friends who are going to ditch you..just talk to them but dont hang out with them! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
the other day i was with my girlfriend and it was just me and her...we were all alone and i tried to go down on her and she said that if i did she would kill me! what should i do? should i dump her or beat the hell out of her? PS you are hott and im thinking that me and my girlfriend arent gonna last so i was wondering if i could go down on you?
your girlfriend obviously doesnt like when your down on her..you shouldn't dump her just because of that..and i dont even know who this is..so why would i say that you can go down on me?? x0Lallyp0p
how big is the average weiner? is 6 inches small?
6.16 is the avergae size for a teenage boy.. (I just looked it up online lol)
Karyn.. im lost.. i luv this guy.. and we went out for like 4 weeks and then one day he was like.. "i luv u!" and then the next day he was like.. "Idont wannah tlk to u" and hung up.. he doesnt like me and now he likes my best friend..i was like WTF and now i dont wannah luv him but i luved him so dearly b4 that now i cant get over him.. i feel like a tard.. wut should i do?!?!? im so lost and upset! thanks luv ya!
hmm...maybe you should just be friends..sounds like he has mixed emotions..talk to him about be like one day you love me and then the next you dont want to talk to me?? whats up with this? its hard to get over someone you like..but just try talking to him! hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
...ok i fell in love with this boy over the summer and i still really love him but he moved....and everyone always makes a big deal of me getting new b/f's ......i mean me n him are still really good friends ........but everyone always says i dont love him or else i wouldnt have other b/f's but the truth is i still really do like him but we're ONLY friends so i cant jsut stop dating ahh what should i do i miss him so much.
hmm..long distance relationships are hard..my friend went out with a guy for over a year on and off..and it just so happens they ended up cheating on each other a few times..i would definitely try to avoid long distance relationships..go out with other guys..stay friends and keep in touch with this boy that you met over the summer..but i would try nothing more than to be friends with him! x0Lallyp0p
Karyn hey i need help i have a alot of guy friends im close around them like not uncomferble but like sometimes when the guys r with me and some other girls i feel like im some fucking ugly ass i feel so bad about my self like noone would want me to be there i have no idea what i should do please help me!!
why do you feel so ugly when your with girls and guys? thats what I dont get! And you shouldn't feel uncomfortable when your with people! Your all equal! Just get involved with them! Make them your really good friends! This way you never feel uncomfortable or left out! If you become really good friends with them then you may never feel left out again! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
okay well theres this guy and me n him were really good friends and we liked each other but i never addmited it and he asked me out a couple times and i said no because i didnt want a boyfriend at the time... now im pretty sure he got over me and he likes this other girl named jessica and a couple weeks ago i just told him i always liked him i know i said it to late though n he likes jessica so how do i get him back ? what should i do HELP!
Wow! This happened to me,except it was reversed.Me and this boy liked each other, but he didn't want a girlfriend. He liked me a lot but he also didn't want to go out with me cuz he liked a few other girls too. So I got over him because I felt like I was wasting my time. So, he got mad when he found out that I was completely over him and that now I like someone else. Now for him he blew his chance. So I don't know if he would give you a chance because he waited for you,and you didn't say yes..but I think you should defitiely talk to him. Explain to him that you've liked him the whole time but just were'nt ready for a boyfriend. If he doesn't want you as a girlfriend..than don't be sad..because friendship is so much more important than a relationship. Besides there are a lot of guys out there! Just take a l0ok! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
there is this girl i like and i dunno if she still likes me but wut can i do to make u still like me
theres nothing you can do to make a girl still like you..a girl will like you for you..i would talk to her about it..ask her who she likes!maybe she just wants to be friends.. g0od Luck! x0Lallyp0p* Hope I helped!
Okay this is really bad...i think im startin to have a crush on my best friend. He is just so nice and perfect..what should i do?
its okay to like your best friend..but just remember if you guys did ever go out when you break up..your friendship will most likly not be the same..you will hav to spend so much time rebuilding it..then having fun with it..ask him if he's ever thought of you as a girlfriend or if he ever will..see what happens from there..!! x0Lallyp0p* hope I helped!