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boyz r so0o0o confusing
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last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ
SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY
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just be best freinds with EVERY bODy!!!!!!!!!!! thats HOW i AM
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Wow, okay. I would suggest talking to more guys. They obviously don't know you or they wouldn't be afraid of you (unless of course they're really shy, lol). Once they get to know you, they may become more comfortable with the idea of asking you out. Try not to be jealous of your friend. I know it's hard, but jealously can screw a relationship over like nothing else...believe me. Good luck!
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Honestly there really isnt anything you can do, but sit back and wait for the guys to get over ur friend and move to someone else. Not all guys like the same girl so there has to be someone that likes you still. If you did regect all of them then why does it matter to you if they like you or not? Dont act like ur to good for them, just try to be there friend and they will respect you again. Hope this helps
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dear i dont wanna be scary,
guys r weired like tht and for them to do tht they dont deserve u anyways!
but i know how u feel i like the way tht all these guys at my school like me its actually really kool i dont thnk i would ever go out with them but at least i no they have my back.
and i am sure if your new best friend was a real best friend she wouldnt do tht to u. or at least let u go through tht
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some guys are complete asses ! they dont kno wut they are talkin about and when there all like o im scared of being regected . you should be glad you didnt go out with them cuz if you did they would all be like oo your a slut and a hoe . ( i dont kno u so i dont think you are but thats probably wut they would say ) so be glad and if their all goin to be like oo we like you and then the next year all like o we like your best friend and not you now . thats sickening ! so be proud that you rejected them .
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Wut u dont see, is that alot of the times friends won't tell u when a guy likes you, and just the plain fact that more guys liking you doesn't mean anything. Instead of either rejecting every guy, or accepting all of them, find a guy you really like (and who is single) and just strive after him. It's not quantity of guys, but quality. And don't wait for him to ask you out, if you really like him, just go for it yourself! It's about confidence. I hope I helped you. -Greg
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WELL THEY ARE TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS.I THINK I CANT BE SURE BUT I AM IN THE SAME SITUATION. I HAVE BEEN GETTING ALOT OF ATTENTION AND MY( NOW EX-BEST FRIEND) IS NOT GETTING ANY AT ALL AND SHE IS MAD. SHE REJECTS ALOT OF CUTE NICE GUYS AND THEN THEY START TALKING TO ME AFTER A WHILE. THEY REALLY DO LIKE ME THOUGH AND THEY SAY HOW CAN I BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE LIKE HER. EVERYONE CALLS HER A HOE BECAUSE SHE CANT STAY WITH THE SAME GUY FOR MORE THAN A FEW DAYS. THEN SOMETIMES ON THE SAME DAY SHE STARTS GOING OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY SO SHE MOVES AROUND FORM GUY TO GUY ALL THE TIME AND I DO THE EXACT OPPOSITE SO THATS Y GUYS LIKE ME BETTER!!!!BUT AS FAR AS U GO THEN(IM SORRY) BUT U ARE JUST GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT AND SHOW THEM YOU CAN BE NICER BUT DONT BE DESPERATE!!OKAY HOPE U FEEL BETTER!!!BYE!!
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The same thing happened to me. All the guys used to like me, and I love that feeling even if I do not like the people. Then came middle school, my best friend changed her looks, and the boys were drooling over her. I thought about it, and realized if she can change so can I. I tried really hard. Still didn't work, but that's ok. Nobody is judging you. You make the first move. Ask the guy out don't wait for him to ask you out. I've made that mistake tons of times. Find a guy that you might like and go out on a date. If you don't like it dump him.
Remember:
If he breaks my heart, I break his jaw. Hehe!
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haha! you are NOT scary. Those boys are just idiots. If I were you i wouldnt sit around worrying about how many guys may like you. You should be worrying about what guy you like. no one is saying that you should say yes, to every guy who asks you out, cuz youre right, that would look bad. But there is nothing wrong saying you can see just one guy. If you dont say yes to one of them, youre never gonna have a guy of your own. so who ever that guy is that you might be crushing on, you should start paying more attention to. he may be scared of you right now, but once he sees you are intrested and knows that he has a chance he wont be scared anymore. and maybe once you are with someone you will only focus on him and forget about what those other boys think.
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Sweetheart, it's not that you're scary. It's that boys that age are insecure. The only way they wouldn't be frightened of a super good looking girl is if she's dumb as dirt or a total slut. Don't lower yourself to that. Be who you are and one with enough guts to be worthy of you will come along. Until then, sorry, it will be a bit lonely. You'll be glad of it in the long run. Luck and Hugs. It will get better.
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ok im use to that too a bunch of guys liking me and then they all ask me out when im single. its really messed up. u cant really do anything to make them like u. but if ur a good friend u would tell her who u aprove of and who u dont. ask her to set u up with one if u want
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