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me and my ex bf have broken up 11 months ago and i have been with my current bf 10 months. i went out with my ex for 2 years and a month... i love my curent boyfriend alot..... but i cant help but think abt my ex from time to time.... he broke up with me saying he didnt love me but the next day he called me to tell me he just wanted to see other people and he wanted me to wait for him.... and that he still loved me.... should i have waited is that why i still think abt him till this day..... is that normal after all this time i still think abt him....can it be that i do love my boyfriend i have right now but im still wondering abt the ex? this is tearing me up please help
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Hey hun... ok my best friend is goin threw the same thing... it takes half the time you went out with a guy to get over it... but if you were in love with him you are always gonna feel sumthing for him... all you can do is love your new boyfriend as much as you can... and try really hard to not think of the other guy... i mean you have lasted 10 months with the other guy so you really do like him alot so you cant let your ex boyfriend get in the way just because you still have some feeling for him... i hope i helped... if not you can always ask my friend bout it... you can im her at xomegzmichellexo or advice site is [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) hope one of us can help you...
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well m'dear you didn't really give yourself time to have closure. you were angry with the last boyfriend and yet you jumped into a relationship with the new guy. sit down and talk to the old boyfriend, but obviously tell the current one what you're doing. jsut talk. see where the conversation goes. it may help, i mean closure does wonders. it might help you realize if the current guy is a rebound or if he's right. talk to the old boyfriend, and go in with an open mind. let the conversation take it's course and let all the feelings out. trust me, i know from experience, even if you spend the whole time being angry-- you do feel better. .:.curbside prophet.:.
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Well I deffinatly think that you should not have waited... because it sounds like he broke up with you to ask another girl out then the girl turned him down and so he wanted you as someone to come back to in case they didn't work.... it sounds like your happy now ... its pretty common to think about your ex especially if you went out for THAT long... good luck!! hope i helped!-am4ric4ndr34mgrl
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Well, first of all, it sounds like he broke up with you to ask another girl out, which tells me he isn't really into you at all. Then the other girl turned him down so he came back to you. Nah, I would stay with the guy you have, not some looser that ditched you for someone else. It's very common to keep thinking about your ex for a while after the relationship has ended, especially if he wants you back. But that doesn't mean you have to give into him.
Hope this has helped, but wait for at least another opinion before you make your decision. Redlion
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