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Theres not much! I mean i help alot of my friends with there problems. Even though i have problems of my own doesnt mean i cant help other people. I learn to learn from my mistakes. Also, from alot of my friends in Texas.. I had many friends and they had alot of issues. I have been able to help them through anything. Here in keywest i havent had that many people come up to me and ask me for help because either one.. They hate me or two.. they are scared.. or three... they just dont want to be known. So i thought this would be a good thing to help anyone who needs some to talk too and has an idea who they are talking too and how much i care about everyone. I really think its better to tell your feelings people and help get a re-action back to help you get though your problems. My family has helped me through everything and my friends. Its not that i give bad advice. Because i really dont. I try not too i think hard and long about what i have to say and figure if i was you what would be easier and better for you. I try to be in your shoes. I have been through alot im trying to get over a rape that happend and it really screwed up my life. But im back on track thanks to my friends and family there to listen and help me through. So if u need anyone to talk to im here for you. Ill answer u asap im always here. Leave me a message.


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um well im 14 and my name is alana,im going out with a guy named kyle and well he has made out but his ex and him both say he sucks at making out. i have made out alot and people say im really good but i dont want to have to teach him. wat should i do? thanks

man it wont let me answer, it says im not speakin english?

Well, the only way to get around something like that, You just have tooo!! I mean i know its like omg i dont want to make out with him since he cant kiss. Im like totally digging this guy, he cant kiss. HE doesnt use his tongue enough. But! The only way to make things better is teach him. IF you dont, ur screwed! U would have to live with it or, well break up with him. So its up to you. Some people need a little help a little push, help him on making him a better kisser, because in the future it would be helpful for him. Okay! I Got alot to teach my guy too lol. So its all good, to be able to do things you have to learn by listening or it can be natural for him its apparantly not natural. So take your time and figure out what you want to do, okay! I hope i helped.

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tomorrow is my birthday but im not having a party cuz my parents r strict like that. family is coming over n stuff but see i havent talked to my best friend alice since the day before yesterday. i mean she knows its my b day tomorrow but idk if shes gonna come. should i invite her ne way? but i mean what would we do?

Wow! I wish i got this earlier. Ummm, Well. I would of played games. Yea you should have brought her. I would have asked your parents if you could throw a prty. My parents are pretty stricted too.

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hey mels! you werent on and i needed help and i probably arent gonna be on later so i decided to try this thing out. ok so one of my best friends has totally pissed me off...she told the guidence office that i have "issues" and so i got called down during first block today..well somehow my swim coach got all involved and then chelsea and lindsay got involved (2 of the swimmers on my team) now im not allowed to go to my classes or eat lunch with my friends..i have to stay in this gay ass room with my swim coach until i confess to something i dont even do..i guess my swim coach told my guidence lady that she has been worried about me cuz the day i turned in my sweats i was upset..i mean i guess ppl just cant have bad days anymore..well now anthony has spread rumors across school sayin..im pregnant..i have an std..i tried to kill myself..im insane..and all this other shit..i walked in my 3rd block to get work and everyone started clapping..then laughing..dont get that..i dont know what to do! so im comin to my mels to help me..or at least help me feel better..your pretty good at that.. love yas!

Well Kris! Umm. Thats not very nice of them to do that. One day you should just go up to Anthony and be like " LISTEN UP ASS HOLE! IM NOT LIKE THAT SO STOP LYING OR MY GIRL MELS WILL KICK YOUR ASS" He'll get the point. Wow, that really sucks though hun. Tell them you dont have a problem and that you had a bad day, and that nothing is wrong. Tell them to call me, they have my cell number and tell them you tell me everything. They'll understand. Stand up for yourself. Kris! Im always here for you, need any help im just a phone call or a message away. Your better then those losers. Keep your head high okay kris. I Love you girl, be strong. Stick up for yourself, be loud and be heard. xoxoxox.

// sammy sam //

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All people dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their mind, wake in the morning to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous people, for they dream their dreams with open eyes, and make them come true--T.E. Lawrence.

A phylogenetically older form of thought. The dream is a fact of objective nature and therefore not a disguise. (Sugar in the blood means sugar and nothing else.) It is its own interpretation and is only misunderstood when we don't fathom its symbols.

Wow! Thats sooo true.

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hey. i guess i need some help. i have this friend..that ive known for a while now. we were best friends for a long time then we grew distant. now it seems that she doesnt really wanna talk to me. i mean she says hi and everything but no real effort to talk to me..an when she does she just seems annoyed. she says we still best friends but i think she is lieing. i really dont wanna lose my best friend but it seems nothing is gonna get us to the way we used to be. i miss hangin out and i just was wonderin if you had any idea as to if she was really my friend or if she was lieing

Well ask your friend if your still best friends.. If she says yes be like are you sure? Then let let her know your feeling like that. She will explain why she has acting like that. Most people do. Then let her know you want to be best friends. You want to hang out with her and that your feelings are strong for yalls friendship. Ask her how you can get her to talk too you and that you wouldnt be annoying. Well If you have anymore questions let me know. Everything has a reason you just have to ask to get your answer. I hope i helped. Sammy Sam.

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This is xxpinkeyeliner and I just wanted to say YOU RAWK! You've given me advice before and its been the greatest!!! xOx Emmz

Awww. Thanks!!!! :) Your so sweet. Thanks for the compliment. Your awesome too. Remember if you need me im here for you :)

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Okay hey gurl this is Ciara and I am the one who you volunteered to help out when i got jumped. Yeah i wanted to know where you live at? I think we should keep in touch because we could get along great and you could help me out with the people who get in my way. Dont you think? Yeah so my e-mail is ciaradawn@sbcglobal.net so shout out to me and tell me a little aboiut you and i dont have an older sister or anything so im sorry if i freak you out with this but im just not used to having someone older than me stick up for me so thanx for caring gurl!!!!!!

Nooo! I aint freaked out!!! Whoa, gurl im your BIG SISTER 4 LYFE~>yea.. Well girl im here for you. I well beat the crap outta those kids. My Email is MsSammerz89@yahoo.com you can email me... I hope they dont mess with you. I Live in FLORIDA! I mean im far away probably from you. Trust me i have my ways to get to places. I hope you feel safe. I will kick some booty. Your my little sis now. Okay!! Im Sam im cool as hell. Ill help you out. N/p! Girl you need a big sis right now to watch your back. Help you out. 13 years old and ur already getting jumped? Thats SICK! So i got ya back hun. If you need me im here for you... Watch your back girl because there are alot of 'PHYSCO BITCHES' and that girl and her 'WANNABE' possy are just a few of them. Ill help ya. Need anyone to talk to im here. :) I hope your okay..

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Hey sam its buck i just wanted to type youa a message saying i love you!!I cant wait to see you!! I love you so much and would do any thing for you you are the first girl i have ever really had feelings for! Love you

awwwww!!! babe thats so sweet. Your going to make me CRY! I Love you too :) xoxoxoxo i cant wait to see you too. I LOVE YOU THOMAS E. BREEN :)

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Everytime i eat something, i end up feeling really guilty, and wish i hadn't. im really not sure how to find the balance between eating healthy but letting myself have treats without feeling like i did something wrong. its been happening more lately, and i don't know how to convince myself that its ok, but yet still keep eating healthy...please help : /

Well eating healthy... is good.

My boifriend said: " think of it as this cheating on your boifriend, even though you cheat on him and feel bad.. You still wanna be with him and love him. Think as your boifriend as the food. the cheating part is the junk"

I agree... You think its bad but you love to eat food thats junk but you feel bad. DONT Feel bad. Its junk. If you eat healthy food you should be fine! Just dont feel guilty. Just be like well im good i eat healthy i do need some sugars and oils. Those r the foods that taste good you need those once in a while. But eating healthy is good too. I'd eat junk every other day and eat healthy everyday.

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k me and my boyfriend go to diff skools and live bout 7 mins away from eachother....every wednesday i go to church with him but i go to his house for about an hour furst...and my mom knows this...shes met him, his parents n everything....and still sometimes she gets like annoyed with dropping me off at his house...she likes my bf too she says hes eally nice n stuff...but wat can i tell her to assure her that its safe over his house n stuff..

tell her! that if something was wrong u would tell her. N that your not doing anything bad, and for her to relax. Be like whats your problem? and let her explain and try n work around that.

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Ok so ive been talkin to this guy that i meet a couple of weeks ago on the phone. We havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend but i really want to be. Actually i dont know what we are right now, friends i guess. I dont know if i should bring up that i really like him more than friends cause we dont really know each other that well. So what should i say about being boyfriend and girlfriend, should i ask him to the movies, and if i do then how do i make it sound like a date?

Well ask him to go to the movies just you and him *ALONE* Then its pretty much a date. Then afterwards be like 'was that a date?' and he'd be like yea! (well most likely) so there ya go :)

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Ok guys I am getting a bit nervous. I have been on my pill for a few months now. I take it the same time everyday, I dont forget to take them. I have 3 days left till I start a new pack and I havent gotten my period yet. When your on the pill should your period start before you start your new pack. If I dont get it by mid week next week I will take a test. But i am wondering if its normal to have not gotten my period yet. The last few months I had it already. Thanks for all your help guys.

Well periods can be a little off track when taking the pill but usually that happens once. I would go to the doctor. It could have something to do with your MENSTURAL CYCLE or you may be pregnant. If you have been having sex.. then most likely you r pregnant. Take a test.

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ok theres this boy thats on my cross country team and we talked a little and out last meet he was with me that wwhole entire time then after that we stopped talking sorta then we started a couple of days ago adn today he had me walk with him to class and he walked me to class does that mean he likes me or just being friends

HE LIKES YOU! Lol totally. no guy just walks with a girl unless they like em :)


-- I THINK HE LIKES U ->

If hes flirting deff.

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ok what is stetson? its like a spray thing i kno that. but i was watching this tv show and they took a porno magazine and had lube by it and stuff and started spraying stetson everywhere. can someone tell me what it is?

OMG! Are you serious??? wtf! I never heard about it... :-/ hmm sorri cant help you on that one. When u get the answer please let me know!

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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

It wont hurt her. If i had b/o i would want my friend to tell me. Instead of letting me being EMBARASSED her whole life. Thats just mean. TELL HER! She prolly would most likely want to know. If you had b/o wouldnt u want ur friend to tell you. I would think so. Help her on how to smell clean before the party make her take a shower with smelly good stuff and buy her deoderant if she cant afford it and spray perfume. She should smell good. Hey its that or ruin the party. Most likely she will thank you.

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I am Vietnamese to and I'm scared to ask my parents bout this cuz it could mean something bad...I know I should know my language pretty well but I don't I do wanna learn...I am full-american born and raise...I know how to say some words in vietnamese...but this is giving me the weirds...It's from a guy I like but he won't tell me what it means...I know this is long and I may sound stupid for not knowing my language but I do this is just giving me mixed feelings...What dies this mean
anh chi muon em toi em von cong yeu anh khong?
I know anh means...boy also your older brother
and chi means...big sis...
Em...also means...little...girl or boy
muon is want...
toi...is to
yeu...means like
khong means...would or could
I sound dumb don't I...but I'm just asking

Vietnamese - Anh yeˆu em (to girl)
Vietnamese - Em yeˆu anh (to boy)

Thats all i got its Mean i love you? in ways to boi or too girl...

anh chi muon em toi em von cong yeu anh khong?
*I dunno u do the math plez*

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sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent)

USE Umm.. whats that deoderant called. Teen Spirit! It works or men's AXE Spray!! or any men's deoderant its strong and effective. It'll help :)

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i have a knee problem - osgood schlatters. does anyone know anything that i could do to help it not hurt [as much]? i'm a runner and i have a knee brace and i ice it if it hurts a bunch but are there any stretches that i could do that might help? thanx :D

Stretches. Just do knee stretches like touch your toes standing. Umm sit down pull ur legs out touch ur toes. Then massage ur knee.Take alot of advil. Umm lots of water. :)

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i have to write a 2 page essay, and it has to be double spaced. i have Microsoft Works Word Processor, and i cant figure out how to make it double spaced! (and i cant just press enter after every line because it will get screwed up when i print it) so if anyone knows how to do it tell me, thanks!

Ummm press TAB :)

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What do i do when me & my bff have a crush on the same guy?

Ummm tell each other to choose. Which one of u deserve him. Or ask the guy who he likes more. If he ways both then just be his friend. He's an ass. :) u cant get a better guy! :):):):):)

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