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O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA
Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP
don't worry. im in middle school to. you can't switch schools. its better to face your fears instead of ignore them and let them be there for ever. tell your friends your sorry. and to answer the rest about people hating you, u can't change yourself just for people. be yourself. who cares what others think.
i need help ok i like this girl but im to shy to talk to her I want to ask her out but y would she like me if i dont talk to her at all
phil
well, you could ask her in a easier way by like writing a letter or, sending her an e-mail. you should do that b/c its eaiser telling her in that kind of way instead of telling her face to face. just start talking to her a little. let her get to no you. (is it coleen?) jw
c if it works
Kate*
how do i get rid of weeds in the patch on front of my house and stop them from growing back through decorative stones?
go to a flower store and see if they have any special soil to stop the weeds from growing.
Okay so Im planning my Sweet Sixteen and I dont know what theme to make it, my mom wants roses and flowers, I like the idea but I want something more me, but can u help me??? please
What theme should it be????
well make the theme something that u enjoy a lot!
Me and my girl freind have been going out for a while now i love her to death but i dont know what i should get her for christmas what would be somthing good?
get something that she likes and that u no she will appreaciate. it always works.
ok my dad has a girlfriend... thats ok with me....but like everyone hates her me , my bro, everyone except my dad... i have told him about it so many times but he doesnt listen and he wont break up with her....am i supposed to hurt my dads feelings and lik not hang around her... the only problem is that my dad is lik never home, so i only get to c him wen i c her...i really dont think its fair....i need help this is ruining my life!
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i need serious help
i no exactly wut u mean. i have a lot a friends that don't like their parents dating other people. you should really try to either catch him when he is alone or just take him away for a second. he is ur dad. you have the right to borow him for at least a few minutes. if he loves you, he'll understand.
I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?
i don't think you should. if u don't like him then you don't have to be with him. do wut u think is right.
I'm 17 and my parents are divorced. I live with my mom. I've accepted the fact that I have to spend time with my dad and most of the time its not too bad. Lately things have seemed a little off. I don't want to spend time with him. I'm so stressed out when he's around. I love my brother to pieces but its worse when him and dad are together. They fight like kids and I have to seperate them. I hate being the adult. I'm the daughter and the sister not the wife or the mother. Personally I think when I leave I just won't tell him where I'm going and that'll be the end of it... but I know that would hurt him.
it sure is nice to see that you care about ur dad and brother. just tell your dad where u will be. i dont want u and him to be one of the father/daughters that figh a lot. talk to him every once in a while.
Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.
well maybe they are wondering why you did it. just ignore them if they ignore you. u dont have to care wut they think if u no u were mad about something. they dont no that unless u tell them.
ok, well, i wanna do sumthin rele big for 13th birthday......wut should i do. I need sumthin rele fun, interesting, and different. It's gonna be of course, a boy/girl party too, so it has to be sumthi for everyone. Please help....thnx a bunch xoxoxox
ask your friends on wut they like to do. i cant really tell you wut to do b/c its ur party, and ur decisions.
Okay, picture this.. if you look at your teeth not the two front, not the next ones. but the next ones.. i haven't lost yet, their the only ones i haven't lost and i have an extra tooth growing out of my gums and its like way up there, and you can kind of see it when i smile but i think its grown to its fullest. but i dont wanna get my two teeth removed because i am 14, and I'll get picked on really bad, would u get them pulled?? or would u just wait for them to fall out?? please help
take this from someone who knows! i got 7 teeth pulled at once! u do no that they grow back. if u don't want to look wierd in front of everyone i would get them pulled. if it makes u feel better, u could get them pulled at different times.
My friend has a dog that won't stop eating like when she takes the food away he growls at her a bites her .all he does is lay around by his food and if anyone walks by he bites them
what to do
i don't mean to say this wrong but take this from someone who knows. when a dog starts to do stuff like that, that usually mean that the dog is getting old and tired. maybe your friend shouls stop feeding the dog as much. im not saying to put the dog on a starvation diet but to gove the dog a little less food.
I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person?
you should find her a good friend that she approves of. find her someone kind of like you. or u can find a way to convince her that u rn't cool, (im not saying that u really r not cool) and hopefully she will leave you alone. your choice.
my bf and i r in a huge fight ...but its kas he made me upset..i really wanna talk to him about it..but he needs to appologise to me 1st.. should i wait 4 him or should i say sumtin...im 15/f/ if it helps
talk to him first. get it over with. who knows, guys might takes 10 years to appologise. (lol)
well first i lie with my step gradpa and stepgrandma. bc my mom and my stephdad don't wnat me.. anymore. and my g-parents have 6 cats and 4 dogs.. well one day my g-pa was playing with Pimpsey.. which is one of the dogs. and my g-pa trough the ball in the street.. (on accsitdent)!
and.. pimpsey ran after the ball.. =( then the un thinkable happend.. i think you can guess! a yellow car came by and hit pimpsey. and we saw all of her guts fly everywhere! please help me get over this tragity! signed!
NEEDS HELP FROM YOU! BC .. I MISS PIMPSEY
don't make fun of his name please my g-ma named him from her , old parrot that she had when she was a young girl so don't think that its like a pimp thing bc really it ist't.. so anyway. PLEASE HELP ME!
well wut i usually do is think of something happy. think of the good times u had with pimpsey. talk to your g-parents about it. they are going throught the same thing.
if u made a prmise with someone and they said that it was ok for u to break it cuz they did, does that mean that everyother promise u made with them could break just as easily?
no! the're your friends and they expect u to keep promises that they tell you. don't break a promise b/c even though it might not hurt you, it might hurt your friend.
ok, i like this boy, and he doesn't no that i like him. how can i tell him?
just send him an e-mail or IM. if u like him that much than u gotta tell him.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
just talk to him and tell him u like him a lot. he'll understand. tell him ur feelings.
i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.
you're probably just stressed out about somethin. do u have an upcoming test ur scared about? is someone or something bothering u that you can't tell anyone?
My daugthers room is very very small is has hardwood floors and walls so its not very attractive for her 15th birthday we're redoing it we ordered her a loft bed but we'd like some ideas on how to redecorate and we'd like to know if its okay to paint on the wood walls. We want a color that will open it up thanks for your help!
well if your painting this permanently, then i say its ok to paint the walls. paint the walls your daughters favorite color, maybe if its not to hard you could try to go out and buy cool things that your daughter would like, and maybe u could buy small shelves to put on the walls and put some cool colectors iteams that she likes on them.