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Befriending Friend
O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA
Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP
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well. the fact that you are breaking the law to go to this school where.. no body likes you seems kinda stupid. its obvious that you should go to the legal school and make a clean start.. who knows.. you may end up as the most popular girl in school.. goodluck!
hope this help :)
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I think you should switch to the legal school. You'll be able to start new again. This would probarly be a good thing.
And those fiends you call friends aren't really- a good friend would never do anything like that.
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DITCH YOUR CURRENT ILLEGAL SCHOOL!! I'm serious. Oh, and your so called "friends", aren't your friends or they would have taken up for you. ~Steph~
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that is a tough one, i have been through just what you are going through. i always try to ask myself if i over reacted or not. if you did then they have a reason to stick up for your other friend. you have the right to get mad at your friend though...especially for lying to you. you could try talking to your friends about it. tell them that your sorry for getting mad and that she shouldn't have lied to you. also tell her that you will forgive her and ask for her forgivness also. hope i helped!
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I'm sorry this is going on hun. I understand that life can be unfair and it feels like "why me?" and you just want to dash under the covers and stay there until things clear up. Lucky for you, you have an option so it's up to you what you do with it. Since you can switch over to your "legal" school, I recommend confronting your friends about this. Tell them why you were mad and ask them why they were mad. If they aren't being true friends, giving bad answers, or you feel like you just can't handle the stress, my next advice is to talk to an advice. I know it seems like it would be the end of the world to talk to a parent or guardian but it really is good. Believe it or not, your parent or guardian will probobly be able to tell you whether they honestly think you should switch. However, if you know in your heart that you should get away then follow what you believe in, just make sure you are not running from your problems. Best of luck babe =]
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I'm not sure whether you should go to the legal or illegal schooool. But If you go to the one where every one supposedly "hates" you then go back looking and feeling great! Go back CONFIDENT dont be afraid to sit down at a luch table where all the whorres sit...even though i strongly dont advise to do that...even though they could give you a few good tips...no just kidding!!...but dont be afraid to stand out and be daring. people will LOVE you (boys in a good way- girls in a friend way!! dont be grossed out)for being yourself!! You have the right to feel FREE to say and think and act any way you WANT!Dont care if people say something behind your back, they obviously dont have the brains or heart to be a good person, so dont feel pressured to be some body you AREN'T, you will find a bunch of friends who think you are Insane!!!...in a good way of course!!
just remember to be yourself, and dont hold any long term grudges against people who say bad things...they might become a friend.
hope I've been of some help!
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Hey Kayla! My family lives up in Laporte! They are the Jesch's if you know them lol! ok y is it illegal for you to be going to this school? Humm if its illegal you shouldnt do it but the Deer Park is were you get threatened {expessialy by ur friends} then maybe you should see what your other options are! Dont go somewere u hate but dont go somewere you will regrtet in the future!
gL!
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i say...go back to your legal school....if ur friends at the illegl school dont like you..then why be friends with them? hope that helped!
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don't worry. im in middle school to. you can't switch schools. its better to face your fears instead of ignore them and let them be there for ever. tell your friends your sorry. and to answer the rest about people hating you, u can't change yourself just for people. be yourself. who cares what others think.
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well you basically just gave urself the answer.. going to a school where everyone hates you doesn't seem logical, you know? i think you should switch schools. i'm sure tht you're gonna meet better people there anyway. plus, you won't be breakin' the law! good luck! hope that helps!
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I would go to the legal school. I dont understand how you are going to a illegal school or whatever. But if you think everyone hates you and someone wants to kick your butt.. then i would get out of that asap. And go to the other school where everything is safe! Hope everything works out!-trix
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Well you shouldn't switch to your legal school, but then she'll think you're scared of her, and besides, you have the right to be mad. One. She prank called you. Two. She lied about it. Who does that??? Wow. Bad friend. And besides, having a fist fight about this whole little thing is soo rediculous. Don't stress. But you should be going to a legal school, because when the illegal school finds out, they'll kick you out, and you'll have no choice.
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Tina
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if it where me.. which im one of those people who hate being alone... i would try my very best to fix things... which i would talk to them but i would make sure that i said how i felt and then say im sorry for ... then w/e u did wrong whether it was not talking about it and just getting mad or over reacting or w/e and if i did everything i could and still i had no friends i would switch. but i wont leave if i still had some friends! hope i help!
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