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E-mail: sali_oneill@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Occupation: Waitress/Kitchen hand for the time being
Age: 18
Yahoo: red_moon_vixen
MSN: sali_oneill@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 4, 2005
Answers: 13
Last Update: January 11, 2005
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Ok last night while I was laying in bed( iwas awake) I could of swore I heard that kind of music that is in the background of horror movies. I thoght I was dreaming so i sat up, but then when i laid down and I closed my eyes i saw this weird red and white symbol and I heard this vocie talking to me. Sat up real fast because i was so freaked out I have no idea what the voice said to me. Help! I think I am insane or something!!! (link)
You're not insane. When you go to that dreamy sleep mode, if anything crosses your mind, it seems about a hundred times worse than it actually is. And the red and white thing was just your eyes adjusting to the dark.


Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it? (link)
If people weren't supposed to do it, you wouldn't be able to reach it.


O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA

Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP (link)
I think you should switch to the legal school. You'll be able to start new again. This would probarly be a good thing.

And those fiends you call friends aren't really- a good friend would never do anything like that.


im dating this guy...it seems like we are not goin out...i mean he is my ex-boyfriends best friend i think that he has be talking to him and they have been talkin about me saying all this shit about me and making my boyfriend not wanna go out with me why??? (link)
Jealousy?


I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!! (link)
Um... that's an interesting thing... is she really scared, or is she just lusting after your possestions? In which case, is she really your best friend?


I know Valentine's day isn't for a while, but I like to start stuff early so I'm ready. Well I wanted some ideas for what to get or do for my boyfriend of over more than a year! any suggestions? thanks

>>.*. So Inlove .*. (link)
Woah- isn't it still a couple of months? I HOPE so...
Guys are difficult to buy for. Maybe you should drop some hints to what he would like. I'm sure he'd like what ever you get him, though, because it's from you.


should i leave my friend to go to a party with the guy i like or stay with my friend. me and my friend made the plans earlier than the party had come up.... (link)
Stay with your friend. Guys come and go, but friends tend to stick around. And (s)he'll probarly be the one you'll be crying on when (if) you happened to break up with the guy.


Ok you see I like this guy a LOT!! I mean a lot and he is shy and gentle and very sweet. I have the feeling that he likes me too because we flirt a lot during one of the classes I have with him but for some reason he won't ask me out. You see, I have never been on a date before and I really want my first date with him. I don't want to ask him out because when I'm older I want to remember that on my first date a boy I like asked me out instead of me asking him out!!I know it may sound weird but PLEASE, I really do love him and I really do want to go out with him!! Today I saw his face for the first time in almost 4 weeks because of winter breaks and he got sick so had to miss a week and he was absolutely gorgeous!! But I don't love him for his looks I love him by being himself and a lot more other reasons I cannot explain in words!! The problem is how do I get him to ask me out!! OH, NO what if he doesn't like me, I mean I think he likes me because he flirts with me but not with other girls and he always smiles!! By the way I'm 13 years old and a girl. (link)
Just go for it. It's hard, I know- but he's probarly thinking the same thing.
I understand that you might not want to, but if you look at it like this; if you pass this opportunity up, you might never get another chance.
Good luck.


If you get your nose pierced, and you decide later in life you don't want it, will it eventually grow over and not make a scar, or will it scar you for life. Thanks! (link)
I guess if it does scar, it could be covered with makeup. But I suppose it would eventually go away...


ok.. i have like.. the worlds worst father.. he has no pics of me or my 2 siblings in his house.. he gave my PS2 to my step brother.. he bought me a 50$ present for chrissy and thats it.. he didnt want me to get my car lisence, and he said the job that took me half a year to get is unsecure and crap (22$ and hour -making all things plastic in cars(holdens for you in aus)) what should i do about this? atm i see him about once every six months... (link)
Um... a $50 present isn't bad you know. Maybe it's nothing compared to the PS2, and I don't know your financial situation. But- that is good for a present.
However, I understand just what it's like to have an awful father. I had an argument with mine, and I didn't talk to him for nearly three years.
If you choose to look at it like this, though. As you get older, it will become better- even if slightly. You're just going to have to stick it out til then.
Oh, and btw- congratulations on getting your job. $22/hour is great- I work in a kitchen and get $11/hour.


the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out? (link)
I guess it was french kissing.

but... *raises an eyebrow* why does it matter?


I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks and I really like him. My only problem is that I'm afraid to trust him because I don't want to get hurt emotionally. I've heard that he cheats on his girlfriends, and he lies, and he's dirty, and he's just using me, but when I'm with him, he tells me and shows me that he's not like that at all. I really want to be able to love him, but will I regret it? Should I let down my guard? He's 3 years older than me if it helps. Thanks in advance. (link)
I'm not entirely sure how old you are, but... if he just wants you for sex, then don't let your guard down straight away. As someone said before, you don't really know him that well, nor who his previous sexual partners would have been.
However, if you are just going into a closer friendship kinda relationship, the whole kiss&hold hands thing, then maybe you should give it a go...


wow this is incredibly embrassing but... ok so i started shaving my armpits like normally people do years ago but for the past maybe... year? when ever i shave i still have this little bit of hair left! so i had a venus and figured the blade was just dull so my mom got me an offbrand bag of razors but that didnt help either! ive never told anyone though.. but does anyone have any idea how to get rid of this? thanks! (link)
Maybe it has something to do with the hair itself. If it's really coarse, it will still look like theres some left. Maybe you should try waxing instead? It'll get rid of it all, and will also stop it from being so coarse.
It will hurt though. Sorry.




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