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My Friend Is Wierd... Help
I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!!
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If you have to pay her to hang out or spend the noght at your house then i dont think she is really your friend.She probably just wants you money!
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To be totally honest with you i dont think this girl is a friend to you at all if you have to bribe her to spend the night with you, she doesnt deserve to have you as a friend if she said you have to pay her or give her something that means alot to you...thats wrong...shes not a friend of yours shes just useing you...because if she were a friend then she would want to go to your house...and if i were you i wouldnt worry about it...even if you did get her over at your house she would prob steal from you, dont trust this girl...if i were you i would tell her off...tell her shes not a friend at all to have to have you pay her to stay the night with you and bring a friend with her...thats not right...i hope you do something about this like find new friends who aint like her, shes not worth your time...i hope this helps..-Nikki p.s. Please send Feedback.
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i would just plain out ask her why she wont....i had a friend once who would never stay at my house with my sister cus she snored alot!!!!! but i asked her one night to stay at my house with my sister because we really like each other an that was an excuse to sleep together(nothing happened) an she just said "i snore" and was red like a mofo LOL.. maybe your friend has something she is hiding like a bed wetting problem. but i would just ask her
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wise man once say: a good friend will ask for your time but never you money.
Do not pay people to spend time with you. Period.
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You my friend, are being used. Tell her that you aren't going to give her your things and that you want to talk to her so come alone. Hope I helped! * Feedback is greatly appreciated! * Love Always, Ali
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um, it sounds like she is trying to take advantage of you. don't let her do this to you. if she really is taking such advantage of you, well then i'm afraid to tell you, she really isn't your friend at all.
good luck.
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I think that maybe you should talk to her and say"why?" because if your best friends u need to ask her why. if she has a problem with staying then ask her what is it? You should talk to her or maybe ask some of her other friends. Hope that you find out. And best friends should always tell u everything!!
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Um... that's an interesting thing... is she really scared, or is she just lusting after your possestions? In which case, is she really your best friend?
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It doesn't really sound like she would be considered a "best friend"...I would never have to pay my friends to spend the night..most ask to. You need to talk to her about it...and if she still does the samething than it's really not worth giving her your valuables...sounds like she's just using you.
~Anjela
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Why are you paying her??? Seems to me like there is more going on here than meets the eye. If she does not want to come over your house than oh well. If she is asking, what are you will to give? than screw her shes not your friend. You can do better.
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I have to agree with the other answers, your friend isn't as great as you think she is. No friend should ever have to be paid to do anything. The term Rent-A-Friend comes to mind. Ditch this girl and go hang out with the other friends you have.
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wow, is she really that great of a friend? friends shouldn't use ppl like that. if she's really uncomfortable at your house, ask her if its YOU or if its your parents/ house. ask some of her other friends if she does the same things to them. see if its just an emotional problem for her or she's using ppl. please rate thanks
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im sorry to say this but you may not whant to have her over if she dosent whant to come over willingly then shes just trying to get something from u and shes also being a b!@&^ by bring people over that your hate
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When you were young, were you ever afraid of the dark? Or maybe clowns or sharks? We all have our fears that are hard to tame. For instance, when I was little, I saw a show on TV that scared me. After I saw that, I grew very afraid of television in general. Whenever someone would turn on the TV that was near me, I would freak out and have to leave the room. It's kind of like a weird phobia. That's how your friend is feeling about spending the night. Though I can't explain why she would need someone else to come with her (as for the money, everybody loves money =P), maybe you should just hang tight a while and let her grow out of it. Like alot of things, it's probobly a phase that she is approaching late in life. Does she sleep over at other people's houses or is she afraid of going away in general? Maybe you should talk about her in depth about her fears and perhaps you (being her best friend and all) could comfort her and make her feel better. If you ever need any more advice, feel free to ask me a question directly. Good luck! <3 *iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG* <3
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