I have this friend (Miranda) and I alwasy try to invite her to spend the night at my house (I'm 13 years old) and she won't spend the night unless she has another friend with her. What should I do to get her to spend the night by herself. I rate.
~~~Brittany~~~
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? icy answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 12:07 am: Do you remember when you were little and you were afraid of things like sharks, the dark and clowns? Maybe not those 3 things in particular but we've all had our little fears that we have battled over the years. As astounding as this may sound, that's how your friend Miranda feels about sleeping over. Even though I can't imagine what bringing another friend over would do, she obviously isn't comfortable with the feeling of leaving home overnight yet. Perhaps you should sit her down and talk to her about it. Ask her what is scaring her and what you can do to help. As much as you probobly want to, you can't push your friend beyond her control. Some people don't feel safe doing certain things even though they are totally fine. Communication can get important facts out in the open that will make the problems better and probobly even reveal a solution. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me for advice directly. <3 *iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG* <3 [ icy's advice column | Ask icy A Question ]
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