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Like a GUY!!
Ok you see I like this guy a LOT!! I mean a lot and he is shy and gentle and very sweet. I have the feeling that he likes me too because we flirt a lot during one of the classes I have with him but for some reason he won't ask me out. You see, I have never been on a date before and I really want my first date with him. I don't want to ask him out because when I'm older I want to remember that on my first date a boy I like asked me out instead of me asking him out!!I know it may sound weird but PLEASE, I really do love him and I really do want to go out with him!! Today I saw his face for the first time in almost 4 weeks because of winter breaks and he got sick so had to miss a week and he was absolutely gorgeous!! But I don't love him for his looks I love him by being himself and a lot more other reasons I cannot explain in words!! The problem is how do I get him to ask me out!! OH, NO what if he doesn't like me, I mean I think he likes me because he flirts with me but not with other girls and he always smiles!! By the way I'm 13 years old and a girl.
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i think you should just go forth and ask him out.. if he is too shy who cares.. that means he probably wont ask you out.. so the best way to be sure is just to ask.. coz you wont lose anything you had before if he says no.. and remember my quote
If you dont risk anything.. you risk even more!!
hope this helps :)
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Just go for it. It's hard, I know- but he's probarly thinking the same thing.
I understand that you might not want to, but if you look at it like this; if you pass this opportunity up, you might never get another chance.
Good luck.
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I love it that you don't want to ask a guy out. Doing that kinda ruins it and it makes the guy think things. Ok, you said that "...he is shy and gentle and very sweet..." ok, I don't doubt that he's shy and gently and very sweet. That's probably why he hasn't asked you out! He's probably too shy. It's probably in his head, but he thinks, "What if she says no? What if she doesn't like me? What if..." and it goes on and on. He probably likes you, but is just to shy to show it. I wouldn't ask him if he likes you, or even get a friend to ask. He might withdraw and get even quieter and more shy around you knowing that you like him. He probably has an aim s-n or an e-mail address or both. So why don't you ask for those, and talk to him online? That's a great way to build relationships, and you can talk to him and subtly let him know how you feel. I am very pleased to hear that I'm not the only one here who doens't like the thought of asking a guy out. ***** (five stars lol) very good! Smile alot. A smile will go a long way. Talk to him, ask him questions about him and stuff... find common intrests (a band, a hobby, a sport... etc.) And then hit the ground and run with it. I think that it's good that he's shy and nice and stuff 'cause that is a better chance of having a more serious relationship with him and not having to worry about him cheating on you. I think that it sounds like he has a "thing" for you! Just hang out with him, talk to him online and stuff.. talk to him at school. Maybe sit with him at lunch or whatever... good luck!!
-FunnyCide
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he might not wanna ask you out because he if afraid that you don't like him either... so just try telling him how you feel and maybe you will get to talking about going out and he will ask you. What I usually do is I write a note to the guy in word telling him how I feel and save it and then online or something a few days later copy and paste it without reading it again because you will get second thoughts about it... so just do it! I know IM is kind of a lame way to do it... but I'm too shy with feelings to do it any other way. So if it seems like a do-able things for you then go for it! I'm the shyest person ever when it comes to telling someone I like them... and this has always worked for me.
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