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The Doctor is out....forever yo...till tommorow-L.M.*
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I have a best friend.. let's call him.. Bob.. Bob has been my best friend since even.. kindergarden. We haven't every been really close though because he's always wanted to fit in with the "in" crowd. He's changed himself from how I used to know him.. and it kills me inside knowing that he wouldn't even think about going out with me. It's funny though.. because he's always hanging around with me, and he acts really cool, and like himself when no one else is around, like if we're talking on AIm. Then when we get into class.. he's this rude, abnoxious, wannabe.. do I just forget him? *sigh* I rate answers.
Talk to him!! Go up to him in class and tell him EXACTLY how you are feeling! You dont have to tell him that you like him, but you should be FIRM, but dont be overpowering. He should listen to you and respect you since you have known eachother for so long. The only way anything is going to change is if you talk to him.
GOOD LUCK!-L.M.*
hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this
first of all. A baby CAN'T develope so fully that you can feel it after 4 weeks. You should definatley talk to your parents. No matter how against they are about you having sex, or if they know already, you need to talk to them!
Having sex without protection and with out birth control pills is extremely dangerous. ANd if you are in school then you wont be able to have a normal life if you're pregnant and the baby is born. Talking to a trusted adult can elp alot. You can talk to a doctor also.
I'd also advise taking a pregnancey test like EPT so be 100% sure if you are or are not.
HOPE I HELPED-L.M.*
I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."
If you are a girl, Summerland on the WB and The O.C. is totally groovy. I myself swore I would never ever never like it, but now I LOVE it! Everyone on both shows are so hot...uh!
If you are a guy then Smallvill. Yehah it my be based on the comic book, but has the most thrilling and exciting story line, and has an amazing history...not to mention an UBER HOTT cast.
HAVE FUN!-L.M.*
Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME
dont worry. Everyone experiences strange feelings as they grow up. They learn things and feel things that they never knew they could think or feel. If you are gay then there is nothing wrong with that. It may seem scary at first, and you may even find yourself crying at night because you dont know what to do or who to talk to. ( and no, not because you're gay or not, but because its alot to go through) Always remember that you are surrounded byu people that love you, no matter who you like.
Hope I helped-L.M.*
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there r 3 girls i like at my school, but they all have bfs already with no sign of breaking up, ive been really good friends with them for a while and have gone out with them in the past, i just really miss having a gf and im lookin for advice
ps-dont say look for other girls cuz every1 else at my school is too preppy and green
Hmmmmmmmmmm...green aye?? hahaha!! dude I'm a girl and I have them same problem...well, you know...with GUYS I mean....heh! Well, it depends on how you act around them. If you just act like the "The-best-guy-friend-but-nothing-else-guy" then they might not think you are interrested in them that way. I know it may same akward, and hard/weird to act a little more... like you like them without being obvious ( and if you have mastered this already God has done you good son!) but If my guy friends did the same thing (or vice verca how ever you spell it) I think we would have a better chance of getting together. Just like you and your friends/ex GF's.
maybe you should talk to them when the time is right. Thing s will trun out right for you. dont worry
hope I helped!!_L.M.*...sorry for the longness!
well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!
Both!! You should walk..if you can...up to him standing straight and tall w/ confidence and tell him how you still like him and how you feel a little uncomfortable w/ him having a gf and flirting.
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
i have sorta olive/ tan skin... what casual nailpolish colors look good with that?
i rate high
I have the same kind of skin as you! and Every thing looks good. Olive skined peeps can use almost all the colors. darks, lights, sparklies,but I'd stay away from light yellows and beiges though. Strong, bold colors are groovey!!
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help.
PILLS/PATCHES: you stick the patch on your butt or hip, but I wuold fear that it would fall off. You take the pill like any other pill, just ask the pharmisist at a drug store.
CONDOM: may get you pregnant but you MUST MUST MUST now matter WHAT!!! to protect you from HIV ( HIV leads/causes AIDS)
Syphilis- blisters heart and brain damage and even DEATH. you can even pass it you your child during birth including your partner
Herpes- sores, blisters There is no cure for it and if it goes away, it WILL come back. You pass it on to your children and partner
Gential warts-LARGE flat/ cauliflowers shaped warts on you know where that burns and itches. You can get it removed but it WILL come back. It is passed on and it causes cancer
Gornorrhea- PAINNN!! YOu become steril so you cant have kids-but if you DO have kids, it can be passed on, and skin disease
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?
you should talk to her about it... or HINT to her subtley. Ask her how far apart she and your dad (if you have one-if not I am SO sorry) -that always seems to get my mom! I know tons of kids who do the same thing- you guys are only 3/4 years apart.You should be able to choose..but you wouldn;t want to get in trouble and mess things up with your mom.
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx
I think the only way anything is going to change is if you talk to eachother. You guys sound tight, you should feel comfortable (somewhat) talking to eachother.
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
i have hair (not a lot but it's noticable it you look closley) on my stomach, arms (on my arms i have a lot and it's brown), knuckles, and back. I'm a girl, is this normal?
dude!!! OMG!! I have the SAME probelem!!! YOu can try hair bleach cream, but I dont really recomend that because I tried it and it TEMPORRILY bleached my skin!! EWWWWWWWW!! You can try to wax it off- painful yes but it totally works and the hair doesn't grow back for at least a month. Its just hormones from puberty. It should get thinner as you get older...not like WRINKLEY old, but mature old.
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life??
NO dude...not at all. I mean it SOUNDS kinda weird that you saw them in that shower, but that doesn;t mean youre a fairy or anything. Sometimes males get their erections at the age of 10 or even 9. Others get it at 18. Every bodys different mon. SO dont cha worry mon!!!
ALOHA!!-L.M.*
I seem to attract women who are not currently single.
This wouldn't be such a delima if I didn't fall for them when they seduce me, but I seem to do that too.
It's happening again now, for the 3rd time in my life! I know morally I should avoid the situation, but it's too late for that now, I'm in knee deep. What should I do?
age/gender, huh? I'm an adult Male.
think about this-HYpothetical situation:
You come home from work at the end of the day. You're stressed out of your mind because there have been continuous lay offs at your job including a couple of your close friends. You are just aching for a little TLC from your wife. She was your high school sweet heart. Your Juliette. The missing half of your heart. She completed and sealed each and every single day with a kiss. As you step into the house to get out of the rain trembling out of the sky, the perfume of your favorite barbeque ribs slathered in your own secret sauce that you and your wife created from scratch while camping with Rick, one of your friends who got layed off. You throw your worn out rain coat on the kitchen counter as you stop in front of the dining room.
The old dining room that you SWORE to your wife that you would re-make and peel the sticky wall paper off of, and make beautiful, was truly that. beautiful. The Egyption cotton table cloth evelopes the thick mahogany table laiden with the crystal and the silver, even your great grandmother's china. But Who other was dancing at this grand Ball , laughing with your Great grand mother's china, dining with your Juliette, is a tall slender man, with whisppy salt and pepper hair,with smiling eyes, and had the most magnetic charisma, you were afraid that your watch would be snatched from your wrist and dragged to this skin. The sound of crystal breaking echos through the once magnificent room. Your wife scrambles to pick up the splintering glass as she stammers " H-Hunny?!!?? My, I'm a- so glad...?I thought you were staying late at work??..." the ring on her left hand danced on her finger. It was princess cut...because she was your princess.......+
The end...
do you see?? I know you probably know what you are doing, but this dating married or otherwise attached women must stop. Just ask yourself how would you feel if the story above ever happened to you??
You might want to save this on your computer or some place to remind yourself next time your eye wonders where it shouldn't.
HOPE I HELPED- L.M.*
Me and my bofriend, Rob, have been going out about a month. We dated for about 2 months b4 I asked him out. It seems whenever we hang out its boring. He's already told me he loves me and wants to marry me. We're 16 and 17 btw. I recently met this guy named Ed. He seems cool and everything. Before Ed, everything with Rob was fine but since I met Ed the stuff between me and Rob seems boring and predictable. So my question is should I dump Rob and persue Ed or should I stay with Rob and see what happens?
you should defenitly think. Is rob all that bad?? DO you find youself trapped in akward pauses?? or do you just find him less interesting and think "OO! what would ed do?" or " what would Ed would do ?" because if rob just has puppy love and YOU really dont like him any more or see him as a material object- then dump him. Try taking a break. see what this Ed is all about. if it doesnt work out, then go back to Rob.
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
ever since i was a baby ive had really blue eyes, and now i want to emphasize them. everyone thinks theyre really pretty, will wearing like, teal colored clothes emphasize them?
NO. that wont help at all... teals and blues and are best for brown eyes. For blue eyes, use black or gray/ash colored liners, mascaras, and shadows are perfect for that seducing 'POP'!!!
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
hey my name is kayla and i really am in luv with this boy nick. we went out like 15 times and out of 15 he broke up with me once. he says he loves me when we get off the phone and i say it back,but when i ask him out he always says idk!! should i keep askin him out!! i keep tryin to convince him that i wont hurt him again! i beleive he is still in luv with me and i know i luv him! he hasnt went out with anyone since the day we broke up like 5 monthes ago!! i really luv him and i want him back!!ill pay some one 4 this!!
when i tell my best friend cortnie she says o!! and thats all!! and cortnie and him go to the same school(affton)i cry all the time!!!!pleaze help me im dying to get him back!! IM me at lilcliffordgrl11 and ill talk to you more!!! HELP im begging you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **kayla**
I think you should just live and let die...or what ever way that saying goes... move on...even if you still love Nick, you will find others who will find their time to be with you.
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
Hi my name is shannon bell and am 13 years old i had surgery on my back at12 and my family andn friinds say that i could never be a model with i scar in my back.I think that i can becuase i am fabulous.but when i seen americas next top model i new i would be good for runway but i did mot know if any modeling agency would won't me with a big scar on back.What should I do go on with dream or just forget.I need your help please.
NEVER FORGET!! never!! dont give up your heart's desire just because others say so!! I have joint problems which makes it KILL to run, but that doesn't stop me from being the ONLY girl on the guys football team, and kicking the other teams ass!! go out there and strut yo stuff!! hahaha!! you can make it!! You can use a scar remover like MEDERMA which I use on my numerous scars!!
dude- dont listen to them!!
GOOD lUCK!!-L.M.*
i straighten my hair everyday. after im done, it doesnt smell good, like my shampoo and conditioner anymore. how can i keep the pretty smell in my hair?
after straightening spritz alittle fruity flowery perfume in the air and walk through it a couple times...mmmm fruity!!
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
im 13 an di have a lot of older guy friends who work at local mall ....one of the guys just happens to be the guy who sold me my cell and he has a wife and a daughter.....another one of my firends is gay.....i just told my mom that everytime i got to the mall i give the cell phone guy a hug....and she got pissed.....this always happens...i swear everybody i kno she thinks iis gonna rape me.....then she told me how she was taken advantage of when she was a year olda than me.....i dont wanna stop givin hugs to the cell phone guy but she getts pissed
what do i do.....i try to assure her that ill be fine but she said if i keep talkin to ppl at the mall she wont let me ever go bakk
Maybe you should talk to cell phone dude and say that you really cant hug him anymore. Tell him that your mom feels uncomfortable about it and that you want to respect her wishes ( You wouldn;t wont to mess your relationship up with your mom with CEllphone DUde!)...he will TOTALLY understand and respect you for making such a MATURE decision!! besides...he has a wife and kids!!!...ewww no fence...hahaha
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
I'm a dancer and in one of my dances I have to do a high kick and mine isnt that high and I want to improve it. Is there anything I can do to make it go higher?
do some light stretching a few times every SINGLE DAY!! ok??hahaha
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*