well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!
jAyMiLyNnE answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:35 pm: Just tell him that you like him... if he has a girlfriend but is still always flirting with you i dont think he really likes her so maybe he doesnt know you realy like him that much.
hope i helped
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vollballgirl answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 9:26 pm: i think you should tell him how you feel. respect is feelings and his relationship with his girlfriend, but if he likes you and you like him then you should go for it!! hope i helped!
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angel411 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 8:42 pm: Aww. I'm sorry. Ask the guy if he really does have a girlfriend. If he says yes then tell him that you thought you two had a little thing for one another. If he says no, then maybe you were mistaken. If he says yes, then the two of you can talk it out. You should tell him that you really like him and maybe he will break up w/ her if he doesn't really like her. If not then at least you know the truth, and you can try to move on. I'm sure he didn't try to intentionally hurt you. Keep your head up! There's plenty of fish in the sea. ♥ [ angel411's advice column | Ask angel411 A Question ]
i_LOVE_badboys answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 7:36 pm: hey dont spill out your feelings just yet when you like a guy but he has a g/f it can be a little dangerous i would wait it out but keep flirting with him just to make sure that he still has intrest and to know that you havent lost your so keep flirting and wait untill they break up then make your move hope i helped please rate me [ i_LOVE_badboys's advice column | Ask i_LOVE_badboys A Question ]
Lady_M answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:36 pm: Both!! You should walk..if you can...up to him standing straight and tall w/ confidence and tell him how you still like him and how you feel a little uncomfortable w/ him having a gf and flirting.
Shortie8959 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:23 pm: That's a hard situation to be in. I would definitely tell him how you feel. I think he really likes you. And it's not uncommon for a guy to like 2 girls. If you're too shy to talk to him about it, I would just be really great friends with him right now. If he breaks up with her, he'll go to you. Just remember to be there for him if that happens. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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Fallenhere answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:15 pm: i think you should show him you really love him, it looks like he REALLY likes you so i think he will like you too! and its ok that you wrote a lot! it helps! I HoPe I heLped :) [ Fallenhere's advice column | Ask Fallenhere A Question ]
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