Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do?
Sk8terbabe019 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 8:34 pm: go up to him in person and tell him that its not true. that he should be able to believe you. if not then maybe you werent as close as you thought you were with him. hope i helped
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i_LOVE_badboys answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 7:39 pm: hi im srry but you could always tell him that its not true and dont give up untill he belives you and you should bring up the point about you hearing bad stuff about him and him convincing you not to belive it and its not true and why should it be the other way around with you and do somthing sweet for him to make him feel loved mabey he will forgive you then i hope i helped please rate [ i_LOVE_badboys's advice column | Ask i_LOVE_badboys A Question ]
jerkoperko answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 7:02 pm: Well oviosly if he won't abelive you then i don't think you should just forget about him especially because hes your ex i mean wut if he hurts u again and if it were ment to be then he would belive you and trust. i am sorry but i think you should move on. [ jerkoperko's advice column | Ask jerkoperko A Question ]
lilcliffordgurl answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:46 pm: hey im kayla!! i have the same problems with my ex!! people tell him that he shouldnt go out with me though!!call him and say"look im telling you the truth nomatter what those people say! "its your lose if you dont beleive me because your losing a lover and friend!!! say your sick of him always convincing you and you believe him and he dont beleive you!! tell him your sorry you didnt sayit!!! tell him if you still THINKS u said it sorry also!! just keep teling him that and things are sure to work out!!!!!GOOD LUCK [ lilcliffordgurl's advice column | Ask lilcliffordgurl A Question ]
xHockey08x answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:37 pm: hey. i think, and this is just me, that you should play his game. when you said that he 'convinces you that its not true', convince him. tell him what he tells you when he 'convinces' you. and if that doesnt work, just give him the cold sholder. i no that it sounds mean, but it could work. when you pass him in the hall, look at him so you catch his eye, and then look down. seems to work for me. after awhile, he'll get the message, and hopefully start talking to you. *Katie [ xHockey08x's advice column | Ask xHockey08x A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 6:30 pm: Try writing him a note about how you feel, and have one of your friends give it to him. Tell him that you DIDN'T say that about him, and repeat it 10 times if you have to. And ask him why he can't believe you when he's heard things about you, too? If it doesn't work out, I would just forget about it, because it wasn't meant to be. Just go looking for other guys, and it'll keep your mind off your ex. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
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