Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME
Anjela answered Monday January 10 2005, 4:20 am: this isnt something ppl can give you advice on....you have to figure out what your 'preference' is...there's always possibilities you might go both ways?i doubt youll be able to decide soon...its not something to rush.
CaitLynnG answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:14 pm: Well, personally. My opinion is that everyone that has turned out homophobic was either born that way. I think you're not gay, You're just trying to experiment. Or maybe I am wrong, Hang out with both girls/guys and see which ones you flirt or hang out with more. [ CaitLynnG's advice column | Ask CaitLynnG A Question ]
JSIMT answered Sunday January 9 2005, 3:24 am: Dont worry about it :) You might just be BI..or if your still in ur teens you could just be going through horomone changes, so dont worry, my best friend is gay, nothing wrong with it!!
Lady_M answered Saturday January 8 2005, 4:41 pm: dont worry. Everyone experiences strange feelings as they grow up. They learn things and feel things that they never knew they could think or feel. If you are gay then there is nothing wrong with that. It may seem scary at first, and you may even find yourself crying at night because you dont know what to do or who to talk to. ( and no, not because you're gay or not, but because its alot to go through) Always remember that you are surrounded byu people that love you, no matter who you like.
Karen answered Saturday January 8 2005, 4:33 pm: I don't you're gay but you are probably just confused or curious of the same sex. Don't worry about it, being gay isn't a bad thing. If you still like this guy after a few weeks, than you may be gay. Why are you afraid of telling anyone? Do you think your friends or going to freak out when they hear that? Just tell them! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
sohojules26 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 4:08 pm: You should sit down and write down questions for yourself and answer them compared to what you "used to like". If you really are gay, theres nothing at all wrong with that,but the best thing you need to do is to tell someone you trust about this. If you decide you aren't gay, then you may be bisexual, you might like girls and guys, which is great too=) ♥ Julia [ sohojules26's advice column | Ask sohojules26 A Question ]
aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:49 pm: You may be gay--but you may also be "curious" as some people say. You could just be curious about the other sex. It's perfectly normal. But if you ARE gay, don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being gay (OR bisexual). Wait a little while and see if you still think the same way. If you do, you're probably gay. There's a couple of guys who are gay or bisexual that I know and that I'm friends with. If your friends are real friends and not ASSes, then you have nothing to worry about. You're born with it--and there's nothing you can do to change it. Eventually you'll have to just accept it. Hope I helped ♥ [ aNgeLxfOrEvEr's advice column | Ask aNgeLxfOrEvEr A Question ]
xokristabelle answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:39 pm: First of all, calm down. Being gay is perfectly fine. Have you ever considered that maybe you're bisexual? (In case you don't know, that means you're attracted to both girls and guys.) Either way, if you're really upset about it you may need counseling or whatever, or call a hotline or something. (Google it) Your parents will eventually have to know but you don't have to tell them right now if you don't want. Just hang in there, if you want just keep it to yourself for a bit. See what happens.
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