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Being The Other Guy
I seem to attract women who are not currently single.
This wouldn't be such a delima if I didn't fall for them when they seduce me, but I seem to do that too.
It's happening again now, for the 3rd time in my life! I know morally I should avoid the situation, but it's too late for that now, I'm in knee deep. What should I do?
age/gender, huh? I'm an adult Male.
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think about this-HYpothetical situation:
You come home from work at the end of the day. You're stressed out of your mind because there have been continuous lay offs at your job including a couple of your close friends. You are just aching for a little TLC from your wife. She was your high school sweet heart. Your Juliette. The missing half of your heart. She completed and sealed each and every single day with a kiss. As you step into the house to get out of the rain trembling out of the sky, the perfume of your favorite barbeque ribs slathered in your own secret sauce that you and your wife created from scratch while camping with Rick, one of your friends who got layed off. You throw your worn out rain coat on the kitchen counter as you stop in front of the dining room.
The old dining room that you SWORE to your wife that you would re-make and peel the sticky wall paper off of, and make beautiful, was truly that. beautiful. The Egyption cotton table cloth evelopes the thick mahogany table laiden with the crystal and the silver, even your great grandmother's china. But Who other was dancing at this grand Ball , laughing with your Great grand mother's china, dining with your Juliette, is a tall slender man, with whisppy salt and pepper hair,with smiling eyes, and had the most magnetic charisma, you were afraid that your watch would be snatched from your wrist and dragged to this skin. The sound of crystal breaking echos through the once magnificent room. Your wife scrambles to pick up the splintering glass as she stammers " H-Hunny?!!?? My, I'm a- so glad...?I thought you were staying late at work??..." the ring on her left hand danced on her finger. It was princess cut...because she was your princess.......+
The end...
do you see?? I know you probably know what you are doing, but this dating married or otherwise attached women must stop. Just ask yourself how would you feel if the story above ever happened to you??
You might want to save this on your computer or some place to remind yourself next time your eye wonders where it shouldn't.
HOPE I HELPED- L.M.*
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If you can't avoid it, and it keeps happening, then pursue it. Talk to the woman that you've attracted, if she's married, well then I see your problem. But technically it wouldn't be fair for either of you if the subject was left unmentioned. If she likes you and you like her, then it's rather obvious. Maybe I'm just being young and naive, but I think you should just talk to her and get to know her too. Who knows? Maybe she will find that she likes you more than her boyfriend/spouse, and become involved with you. Hope I helped, good luck. -Angel
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youre gonna end up gettin youre ass kicked if you dont whatch out you really need to avoide the situation but sense that aint happen you need to leave the gurl or tell her to make a choice you or him
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In the top five questions you should ask someone you like, you should sneak in the are you married question. If they lie to you, then you gotta figure out why you attract so many liars and dishonest women.
It's hard to pull away from someone you really care for. If they are to truly give themselves to you, then they have to be available. You can fool yourself for a while, but it won't be long before this becomes the prevailing issue. If they aren't free now, tell them you are taking a break until they become free. Or find someone else (as truly hard as it is).
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