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Is it so wrong to like your best friend?


Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 3:08 am

I have a best friend.. let's call him.. Bob.. Bob has been my best friend since even.. kindergarden. We haven't every been really close though because he's always wanted to fit in with the "in" crowd. He's changed himself from how I used to know him.. and it kills me inside knowing that he wouldn't even think about going out with me. It's funny though.. because he's always hanging around with me, and he acts really cool, and like himself when no one else is around, like if we're talking on AIm. Then when we get into class.. he's this rude, abnoxious, wannabe.. do I just forget him? *sigh* I rate answers.

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joolz answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:10 am:
Hi i think i know how your feeling, it must be hard seeing him tring to be some one else when you know what he is really like! I suggest that when you are alone together just ask him casually why do you be with people who don't except you for who you are? If you've known him for so long i wouldn't give up on him...
Good Luck!! *Joolz*

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Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:29 pm:
It's normal to like your best friend but you need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to change how he acts around different people because he shouldn't do that. You have to tell him how you feel about him because he may like you back. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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xSammieXlubsXux answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:06 pm:
First of all, it is absolutely ok for you to like your best friend..
Second, you should talk to him and tell him to cut the little act that he is putting on in front of people.
He's your best friend and I kno that you really care for him..so...talk to him. otay ^_^

sam

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Lady_M answered Sunday January 9 2005, 10:53 am:
Talk to him!! Go up to him in class and tell him EXACTLY how you are feeling! You dont have to tell him that you like him, but you should be FIRM, but dont be overpowering. He should listen to you and respect you since you have known eachother for so long. The only way anything is going to change is if you talk to him.

GOOD LUCK!-L.M.*

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squirrell answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:54 am:
No don't forget him.(not yet) Tell him how you feel first talk to him. You have been close for a long time and it sounds like you would be there for him when and if his new friends drop him so talk to him. Or you could support his new lifestyle it's really up to you. PS please send feedback.

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