Helloo world, my name is Joolz and I'm 17 years old going on 18 which I'm rather scared of and I don't want to grow up!(I've watched too much Peter Pan as a kid!)I love my dog who is called Berta Bagel. In would love to go to Italy, Russia and Australia and China and all those far off places. I hate doing essays and learning stuff that is really quite useless in every day life!
I'm single and bored of being alone,...I'm all alone no one here beside me... la la la so on and so forth!
Gender: Female
Location: I'm from London.
Member Since: January 11, 2005
Answers: 22
Last Update: March 17, 2005
Visitors: 4905
Main Categories:
Friendship
Love Life
Pets
View All
Favorite Columnists
K3587
|
| |
i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! ) (link)
| |
How about zena or minka
|
|
I need to get in shape for this summer-like so bad..I've tried almost everything..Dieting and crunches didn't help..eating less and less didn't help..Not eating for almost a whole day didn't help..and I couldn't really keep up with the eating healthy thing..I just want to look greeaattt in a bikini for this summer..Does anyone know any ways to get in shape? Thanks (link)
| |
I've found a great way to look greeeatt as you put it is keep a food diary it helps you know how much and what your eating habits are! Really thuogh STARVING YOURSELF WILL NOT HELP! Just keep active, take the stairs, go for a jog sit ups whilst watching tv or stretches, stretching helps. Just remember to eat healthy like snack on fruit nuts ect eat like a squirrel and you'll be fine!! Sure you'll look great!!! Luv Joolz
|
|
okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!! (link)
| |
I seriously have to say that, that is not a friendship! That is really not a nice thing to do . i suggest that you go an find some real freinds hun.That is just mean, to get mad at you when their the ones lying, all the best for the future Joolz
|
|
okay here's the deal : i'm from a girls sch , about 50 of us have been selected for this programme where we will combine with this all guys school and learn together and stuff . We will be going over to their school . the thing is , there are about 150 students in that boys school under this programme at my level .Even though we won't be going there until next year , this thought still freaks me out cos it's like there are going to be so many guys there , and they're all going to think i'm weird and stuff cos i wear glasses and am going to get braces soon . i heard these guys are pretty mean and they tease girls who aren't gorgeous and make fun of them. I am not that bad looking despite my glasses and stuff and am slim and long-legged .okay so the question is : how to fit in ? how to look better with glasses and braces ? just don't tell me something about being myself and not caring what others think cos everyone knows that thats pure bullshit . (link)
| |
Hey i used to go to an all girls school and i know exactly what you mean. I used to think boys were all just real scary but then i moved to a mixed school and really their not that bad (some of course have to just be mean) as for glasses and braces as long as you wear some clothes that you feel good in(if non-uniform) or a real nice hair do or something,if you feel good about yourself it will show through in your body language!! GOOD LUCK I'm sure you'll be fine, Joolz
|
|
can you give me any normal dancing moves? i don't actually know how to dance in like school dances and how they move to the beat can any of you tell me stuff i can do? i also think the move ciara does in her 1,2 step video is kool how do you do that? (link)
| |
I'm studing dance at the mo right, and can i tell you now that you don't just learn dance moves right hun but you just need to listen to your music and find a stlye that you feel comefortable with and MAKE YOUR OWN MOVES!
|
|
I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?! (link)
|
I suggest that if your not comfortable with it just say to her look i don't know if i'm up for that!She should respect the fact that you don't want to go all the way.
Hope i helped luv Joolz
|
|
Okay, I'm 16 and I've been a size 13 in jeans, ever since last year (and awhile before that...). And everytime I put them on they're fine, but then like an hour later, they're really big on me--in the butt and the thigh area, and sometimes the waist. So recently I've switched to an 11 (I've lost 3-5 lbs, but is that enough to drop a pant size?)...they were fine at first, but lately I've been having the same problem--they get baggy...but the waist is fine. I don't like how my pants get all baggy on me, whats going on?? (link)
|
Hey personally i dont wear jeans,but my mates do all the time so what it is most likely to be the problem is that they are stretching slightly from wearing on a regular basis, unless you don't like the baggy trouser look sorry can't really help there!
Soz Joolz
|
|
16/f/California. When I'm at the beach, or when I'm out in the sun for long periods of time, I never wear sunblock (if anything, I use like, a tanning lotion or something)...and I tan easily (I have mostly Dominican in me, and we're able to tan easily), I rarely burn. But lately the whole "skin cancer" thing is freaking me out. I like being tan, and the fact that I tan easily. If I wore sunblock, can I still get a tan? I heard that you can, it just blocks the bad sun rays...is this true? Or does sunblock completely block the sun?? (link)
| |
Hey hun it's always good to use sun block i'm another person who tans easily and i still wear sunblock it wont make a difference so don't worry about it!! luv Joolz
|
|
Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly? (link)
| |
No it's not silly AT ALL actually it shows that you have feelings especially if you've known her since you were young!! Please if anything it shows how cold hearted some people can be if they call you silly. I cried when i lost my dog perfectly normal hun...luv Joolz
|
|
Ok..I use liquid foundation by maybelline but every time I put it on it like gets "crusty?" and its like gross and it makes my face look weird. Its like it separates into little pieces..my mom says its just "dry skin?" but like i try scrubbing it off with those stridex pads but it takes the makeup off but not the skin stuff. i also used to use noxema but that didnt do anything with it either. i have found out that apricot scrub stuff kind of works. but it seems like it will just come back after my face dries. i have also tried using other kinds of foundation..for instance that new dream matte mousse stuff and also powder kinds. ugh this really makes me mad to see my face all like this. should i put lotion on it?? what kinds?? i have tried some but grrr! also..i dont have bad acne all over but i have kind of a lot on my chin and like one teeny one on my forehead..but is there any good products out there?? sorry for this being so long. Please help! :'( Thanx!! (link)
|
Hiya what i suggest is stop wearing ANY foundation and find a good mud mask that you can use on a regular basis and a moisteriser i'm afraid i can't say what it could be but if you wear foundation continually it may be irritating the skin really you should listen to your body right. Ye i bet you don't even need foundation gal!!Also drink lots of water and cleans on a regular basis, you should feel great after a week.
All The Best JOOLz
|
ok this might start off sounding bad... but I dont mean it to at all! Ok well last year I didnt have very many friends... it was my frosh year and I was kinda-sorta friends with a lot of people i didnt really like, but i hung out with them because i had no one else ya know (it was my frosh year at a new HS). Ok well this year Ive really been able to have fun with the "popular" group of people. I like them a lot and we seem to get along better. Well we arent as tight as i wish we were and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions. Also: people think i just want to become popular and thats why ive just started hanging out them. But really it isnt true. But sometimes i feel like i'm INTRUDING on the "popular" group because we havent been friends as long as all of them have. PLEASE DONT SAY "dont care about what they think" because I cant help it.. i try not to but it still bothers me!
*please help! I'll rate good!*
UOcheerbabe (link)
| |
You know if you feel happy around them fine why don't you suggest to who ever you get on best with that you have a girly sleepover night in or something thats all ways a laugh!! But remember if hey have known each other for a long time which is normally the case hun it might just take time, and i'm afraid to say you really shouldn't think about what they'll be thinking of you coz to be honest people are scared of any one with a bit of individuality.(you might want to look at their clothes you'll be suprised at how similar they look, there is normally one person that they all copy!) All the best JOOLz
|
|
I have a MAJOR delema here! I know I'm not the prettiest girl, skinniest girl, most in-shape girl, smartest girl, preppiest girl, fashionable girl, etc on earth! But I also know that I'm a pretty girl! About 5'3 with long brown hair and eyes, 115lbs... well my problem is that I havent had a bf for more than a year!! And that didnt even count! we went out for like 2 weeks then I found out he was cheating... well lets just say i dont talk to him anymore!! Anyways I feel so not wanted (if that makes sense?), like all the guys dont want to be with me unless its to HOOK UP!! And i absolutely hate that! I'm not a skank at all! I know what yall are gonna say tho: "ohh dont worry your beautiful inside and out and any boy would be lucky to have you" but thats not the advice I need! I just dont know what to do!!! I'm going crazy! I want a boy soo bad but I want a REAL relationship that lasts more than A WEEK!! HELP (link)
|
I don't know if this will help you or not but i'll let you know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! I'm feeling just like you, quite scary actually coz i've had same experiance with like a week two thing, hun it's painful i know really the best thing to do is work on the friendships that you've got and keep your eyes open for a chance!!
Hey who knows you'll probably have more luck than me coz i'm like really shy...Good Luck gal you'll find the right guy in due time!!
luv Demi*
|
in two weeks im going to florida and we'll be gone for 17 days. I have a cat and i was thinking about asking a friend to come by and take care of him. (for money of course) I was wondering would the cat get too lonely being that we wont be around for so long and my friend will only be in the house for five minutes to feed him and change his litter box? Another option is the kennel..but i hear they are very expensive. Do you know about how expensive they are? Should i have my friend come by or take my cat to a kennel? Thanks and i'll rate you guys because i appreciate your time and advice..i too am a columnist. Thanks again..
-melissa- (link)
| |
Hiya i'll tell you now that kennels can be veru expensive! Your cat should be fine alone as they are naturally solitary creatures this is from experiance from the cats that i've known any way but of course you know your pet better than I do, but you could ask your friend to maybe spend some time with your little feline friend rather than just running in and out or would it be possible for her to take the cat to hers?! Just some sugesstions love joolz
|
|
Well...I have over wait legs, they make me look like I have 2 hips cuz there fat. Is there any way I can loose weight off of my legs fast? I am already in swimming but still my legs are fat. (link)
| |
Hi you might not like this idea but seriously it works Ballet girl that does the trick, you don't have to go to classes were there are loads of skinny bitches(to be frank) simple excercises at home or a home video keep it up on a regular basis and beleive me it's a miracule!! I've always had fat thighs (chicken thighs!) until I started dance. Keep going gal Lul Joolz**
|
|
I dont know what the category of this is but.. Ok, heres the story this may be long but i'm not sure so if it is i'm sorry but I need all the help i can get with this question. Ok I recently spent the night with a friend of mine and while I was there her dad tried hitting on me asked me if I would have sex with him and asked me if he could kiss me and I said no, and I dont know what to do, her dad even pulled out his thing in front of me which is nasty and after all this happened I didnt go to sleep that night, I stayed up all night watching movies confused on what I should do, I mean should I get a lawer and get him sent to jail or what I am so confused and I dont know what to do, please if anyone can answer this for me I will rate high, and please who ever reads this and gives me an answer dont make jokes about it because this is very serious, thanks to everyone who answers, by the way I will rate high...Thanks advicenators! (link)
| |
Hey there like what others have said it is important to tell another adult that you know and trust about this, I really feel for you that is not something any one would like to go thruogh! You've done a good thing in saying no though as some people might feel pressured into saying yes. Be strong, I'm sure your parents will help you through it. Lul Joolz**
|
|
i am sort of stuck in the middle. my mom lives in michigan and i live with my dad in california and now that its getting time to go to college i choose 2 really good schools from both states and applied to them and surprizing enough i got into all four ... no problem right wrong i have friends in both states each wanting me to go to the college in their state and i dont want to make anyone feel bad and say NO im not going but im still a little unsure about what i should say to them beccause i dont want to hurt their feelings ??? (link)
| |
Well hun I really think you should listen tohow you feel, where do you feel most happeist you can always keep intouch with your other friends! But you shouldn't worry too much about hurting poeples feelings at this stage i think you need to think about what you want, just explain to your friends and I'm sure the'll understand!! Good Luck, *Joolz*
|
|
i dont get it y do we all have 2 deal with crap from our exes some1 help im me i cant take it he treats me like shit!!help me please i dont know what to do anymore because it gets on my nerves and then hes going out with my best friend or ex best friend and its pissing me off and i have tried talking to both of them but it doesnt help at all and i think she knows she is pissing me off real bad!!!and it hurts though ya know?someone help i rate fives and fours at the least!! (link)
| |
All I can suggest is take chill pill gal! It's gonna hurt and if you've tried talking to them then thats the best you can do, if you know that this other gal is purposefully pissing you off no reaction i know its hard but when there is noreaction then they may just give up.!! Hope be some help! luv Joolz*
|
i like a guy, lets call him k, who is 2 years older than me. i`m a freshman and he`s a sophmor. he knows that i like him, and he isnt afraid to talk about it, he calls me and talks to me about how he knows i like him. But last night we talked on the phone and through text messages:
me--hey do you think you`ll ever like me cause i dont wanna like you if nothings ever gonna happen
k-- well i dont like you now but i might later..
me-- ok, well i`m not shur i wanna wait around... :-\
k-- i`m not telling you to wait around i just think it could work another time but not now.
then he called me and it was enough for one nite to know he doesnt like me, but then he goes "yeah, i`m 2 years older than you, thats kind of a lot.. and i dont rele see you as a gf to me... your more of a friend.." he says all of this RELE nice and casually tho... i`m rele mad at him, but i dont rele have a reason to be.. it`s just becuase he broke my heart.. should i be mad, should we still be friends, should i try to stop liking him, should i try to get him????? thanx if you could help (link)
|
Hiya I say don't try an get wot you can't have, its aways good to take your time. It may hurt you but you shouldn't be too mad about it, it doesn't suond like he wanted to hurt you and I wuold make the most of having him as a friend! :u) Joolz
|
|
i just lost one of my friends we havent been close recently but for 3 years we were and we drifted the past year, i just found out he passed away and i cant belive it, it hurts so much i alwayts pass by his house thinking hes going to be there, i always want to call his cell phone thinking hes going to pick up, i cant handle this no1 can, i dont no wat to do i miss him teribly i just wish i can bring him back and tell him that even tho we drifted that i still love him when i saw him laying in the casket i just wanted to wake him up, what should i do :'( (link)
|
It's hard i've lost both my grandparents and i still miss them terriblly, all i can say is that its a matter of time. Always good to talk about it with those who are also missing him, remember the good times lul!
Luv Joolz
|
|
Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on? (link)
| |
Move on gal think about the amount of time us females sit about waiting for these men to pick us up and wheel us away in to the sunset. Actually i think i need this advice myself, i'm doing exactly what ur doing gal!I shall thank you!
|
|