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Help Me Please
I dont know what the category of this is but.. Ok, heres the story this may be long but i'm not sure so if it is i'm sorry but I need all the help i can get with this question. Ok I recently spent the night with a friend of mine and while I was there her dad tried hitting on me asked me if I would have sex with him and asked me if he could kiss me and I said no, and I dont know what to do, her dad even pulled out his thing in front of me which is nasty and after all this happened I didnt go to sleep that night, I stayed up all night watching movies confused on what I should do, I mean should I get a lawer and get him sent to jail or what I am so confused and I dont know what to do, please if anyone can answer this for me I will rate high, and please who ever reads this and gives me an answer dont make jokes about it because this is very serious, thanks to everyone who answers, by the way I will rate high...Thanks advicenators!
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I think that you should tell your parents what happened and talk to them about it because parents always seem to know the right things. Don't go back over to her house any time soon because you don't know what he will try and pull. I wouldn't worry about risking your friendship with the girl because this is much more important and maybe he is doing the same thing to her and you could possibly help her. good luck.
♥ Katie
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Maybe your friend didn't realize that this was happening. First, tell your friend. THen, tell your parents. If no one believes you, tell a ranking person. (lawyer, police, etc.) An adult doing this to you is against the law. YOu need to take action! FAST! Hope I helped!
~K~
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talk to your friend about it first then go from there. she might freak and hate you if you get her dad thrown in jail. still he might be doing it to her other friends or even to her. you should go to your parents too
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Dear Confused,
Girl you have got to tell your parents! And like someone else told you... tell his wife. So that way if your friend has other ppl over she will keep an eye on him. I'm sure your parents will press charges...you might nothave much of a friendship with your friend anymore but if this sick guy tried that with you...he could possibly be raping and/or molesting his daughter too! If this is the case you can get her out of it too. This man is sickening! YOU MUST TELL YOUR PARENTS! Dont be scared of the outcome! I fully support your decision.
Much Love and good luck,
cHeMiCaL rOmAnCe
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Call a police man or your mom or talk to someone in your school they can halpe you. okay
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you have to tell your parents and his wife most importantly because it is against the law if you're under the age of 17 and he want to have sex with you and if you want you can press charges on him, but i have to remind you that you may not be friends with his daughter/son anymore....but if you really want to do this then i support you to because that guy is just plain wrong, sick and nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH..... YOU MUST TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!
Sit down and tell then exactly what you have written on here.
Your parents will be there to help and support you, I'm not sure what the process is for things like this being dealt with in your country but your parents will be able to get in touch with all the right people and from there you can decide WITH your parents what you want to happen to this man.
You must tell them because as awful as it sounds this man could pick on a person younger than you who hasn't got the strength or courage to say no.
Please let me know what happens and take care!
Mel xxx
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Hey there like what others have said it is important to tell another adult that you know and trust about this, I really feel for you that is not something any one would like to go thruogh! You've done a good thing in saying no though as some people might feel pressured into saying yes. Be strong, I'm sure your parents will help you through it. Lul Joolz**
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The first thing I would do is tell your parents. They can help you decide the best thing to do and support you through the process.
You should tell to protect yourself, and also to protect any other females this guy might behave like to this in the future. He needs to know it is not okay.
Regardless of how you and your parents choose to solve this situation, there are some things you can do in future.
An adult acting like this towards you is never your fault. You have every right to firmly tell them 'No,' that you do not appreciate their advances, and that you want them to stop. You have every right to call your family and have them pick you up - you do not need to stay in a house with someone that behaves this way.
Be strong, talk to your parents, and be open about your feelings. Good luck.
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YES tell your mom or dad or whoever, you were just caught off guard by your friends dad being a perv. You shouldnt feel embarrssed or anything none of this is your fault. The longer you wait to tell someone the easier it will be for him to get away with it. So let someone know as soon as you can.
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WoW! Hunnie im really sorry! that most be.. traumatizing! I would tell your friend and your mom. Your mom will know what is best to do. You didnt do anything wrong you just sat there and said no which is the perfect answer. Just tell someone and see what happans your mom will be there and will guide you thru. You have to let your friend know because he could be a rapist.. even to his own daughter some people are just sick like that.-trix
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