I have a MAJOR delema here! I know I'm not the prettiest girl, skinniest girl, most in-shape girl, smartest girl, preppiest girl, fashionable girl, etc on earth! But I also know that I'm a pretty girl! About 5'3 with long brown hair and eyes, 115lbs... well my problem is that I havent had a bf for more than a year!! And that didnt even count! we went out for like 2 weeks then I found out he was cheating... well lets just say i dont talk to him anymore!! Anyways I feel so not wanted (if that makes sense?), like all the guys dont want to be with me unless its to HOOK UP!! And i absolutely hate that! I'm not a skank at all! I know what yall are gonna say tho: "ohh dont worry your beautiful inside and out and any boy would be lucky to have you" but thats not the advice I need! I just dont know what to do!!! I'm going crazy! I want a boy soo bad but I want a REAL relationship that lasts more than A WEEK!! HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MissAnnabella answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 12:56 pm: Its ok i get what your going through.
Look im 14 (15 in 5 days)and ive been offered modelling contracts and people say im beautiful. But i've never had a boyfriend never hooked up and never had sex. And yes i want a bf too. But you must realise that there is a sterotype in films that its a great thing to have a bf but its hard work. And your time will come my suggestion is to act confident be yourself smile to random people.And maybe it will work because in the end you will find the prince charming of your dreams.
ToddnDesBffeNe answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 9:56 am: well just take your time eventually when the time is right you will meet somebody that reallie likes you and you will really like him. last year i was having this same problem and well now i am with one of my best friends. sooooo just take it slow and dont get caught up with wanting a boifriend so much. everything will be ok.
XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 7:01 am: So dont go for one of the guys that wants to hook up with you go for someone different. I'm guessing your a teenager and your probably not going to marry a guy that date in highschool. So just kick back and relax you'll find that speacial someone.
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joolz answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 4:42 am: I don't know if this will help you or not but i'll let you know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! I'm feeling just like you, quite scary actually coz i've had same experiance with like a week two thing, hun it's painful i know really the best thing to do is work on the friendships that you've got and keep your eyes open for a chance!!
Hey who knows you'll probably have more luck than me coz i'm like really shy...Good Luck gal you'll find the right guy in due time!!
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