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Should i be mad?


Question Posted Friday January 14 2005, 12:16 am

i like a guy, lets call him k, who is 2 years older than me. i`m a freshman and he`s a sophmor. he knows that i like him, and he isnt afraid to talk about it, he calls me and talks to me about how he knows i like him. But last night we talked on the phone and through text messages:
me--hey do you think you`ll ever like me cause i dont wanna like you if nothings ever gonna happen
k-- well i dont like you now but i might later..
me-- ok, well i`m not shur i wanna wait around... :-\
k-- i`m not telling you to wait around i just think it could work another time but not now.

then he called me and it was enough for one nite to know he doesnt like me, but then he goes "yeah, i`m 2 years older than you, thats kind of a lot.. and i dont rele see you as a gf to me... your more of a friend.." he says all of this RELE nice and casually tho... i`m rele mad at him, but i dont rele have a reason to be.. it`s just becuase he broke my heart.. should i be mad, should we still be friends, should i try to stop liking him, should i try to get him????? thanx if you could help


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Karen answered Friday January 14 2005, 11:47 am:
Don't stop liking him. Before he told you that he doesn't want you as a girlfriend but only had a friend, he told you that he may like you in the future. Maybe the reason he said that he doesn't want you as a girlfriend was because you always talk about liking him and he is now irritated by that. Keep talking to him but don't talk to him about how you feel. Hope I helped :)
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joolz answered Friday January 14 2005, 7:39 am:
Hiya I say don't try an get wot you can't have, its aways good to take your time. It may hurt you but you shouldn't be too mad about it, it doesn't suond like he wanted to hurt you and I wuold make the most of having him as a friend! :u) Joolz

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday January 14 2005, 12:29 am:
Still be friends with him yes but dont count on the relationship part :( sorry. Just let him be i mean if he thinks he will like you later in the future i think he isnt worth it. No matter how hard it is just drop him. Honestly. He sounds like a confused idiot :) but thats just my opinion. He isnt worth the waiting for you and your right you shouldnt have to wait around. Just try and move on and find someone who'll like you when you like them to-trix

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