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I don't understand


Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 3:49 am

Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on?

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Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Thursday January 13 2005, 9:08 am:
When you like sum1 you cant force yourself to move on your mind may let you but your heart never will. Just try and focus on other things besides him. Just give it time because if he likes you then he will ask you out. But never rush a guy because that can push them away. Good Luck! Rate me!

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kevin1986 answered Thursday January 13 2005, 1:25 am:
If you truly cannot move on,it's time to think about suicide. Wait a lil while before you do it.

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uacctk14 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:17 pm:
don't force yourself just move on slowly or you can ask him out if you like him that much

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jAyMiLyNnE answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:33 pm:
hey hun been there before just try to move on but at the same time like him... if you meet a different guy go for it theres no point on wasting time on him if hes not gonna give you a try... and you dont want some one who is that much of a flirt.

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darkruler31 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:35 pm:
ASK HIM OUT!!!!!!!! if u like him and you think he likes you then ask him out
hope i helped
good luck
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superGiRL21 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:12 am:
I don't know if what I'm going to tell you is what you want to hear but it's what you need to do. You don't deserve to be led on and strung on. Chances are if he hasn't asked you out yet he's not going to anytime soon. You need to move on and let someone find you who deserves you. I've experienced exactly what you're going through and the truth is you aren't gonna be able to move on if you don't want to move on with your whole heart-letting go takes a lot of strength, some people don't have that and they are just stuck on this one person until someone better comes along. Do you think you deserve better? If so you need to move on. Best of luck
xoxoxo

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Shortie8959 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:09 am:
Try flirting back, and if you're feeling brave, ask HIM out. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:49 am:
i would say move on, or ask him out yourself, its hard to wait and wait for someone to come around to ask you out, and half of the time they go out with someone else, then they expect you to wait b/c they say that he'll go out with you when they break up, you get what i mean? theres plenty of guys out there for you and itll be good for you to like someone else. xox

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joolz answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:37 am:
Move on gal think about the amount of time us females sit about waiting for these men to pick us up and wheel us away in to the sunset. Actually i think i need this advice myself, i'm doing exactly what ur doing gal!I shall thank you!

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