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im 13 an di have a lot of older guy friends who work at local mall ....one of the guys just happens to be the guy who sold me my cell and he has a wife and a daughter.....another one of my firends is gay.....i just told my mom that everytime i got to the mall i give the cell phone guy a hug....and she got pissed.....this always happens...i swear everybody i kno she thinks iis gonna rape me.....then she told me how she was taken advantage of when she was a year olda than me.....i dont wanna stop givin hugs to the cell phone guy but she getts pissed
what do i do.....i try to assure her that ill be fine but she said if i keep talkin to ppl at the mall she wont let me ever go bakk
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Your mom is probablly just worried about you. I know that it can get pretty annoying sometimes. Is there any reason that she has to think that he would rape you? Does he have past offences? Is he more than eight years older than you? Think about these questions first. Hearing your mom tell you how she was taken advantage of has probably changed a lot between you two. But, it's good that you have such an open relationship with each other. I wouldn't stop telling her what you were doing, it would only make you both unhappy. Talk to your mom and reassure her that you will be alright. Try to take a couple of girl freinds to the mall with you, or even invite her to come once or twice to see that everything will be alright. Try to come up with a plan that will work for both of you. Like you can only go in a group with at least one girl. Or you can't go to the mall after 5 pm. Or that you'll call her when you get to the mall, and call before you leave. Even just telling her how long you'll be there. Any of these would show your mom that you're responsible and willing to compromise like an adult, which will put her at ease, and most likely make her loosen up. Good Luck!
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Your mom is permenantly scarred from her bad experience, so thats why shes paranoid. When you go to the mall just dont tell her you hugged him..dont freak her out.
-melissa
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I can barely read this, your eloquence is that bad. I don't know whether to correct you, or just blow this off. Why don't you stop giving the old guy hugs so your mom doesn't think he's a pervert, and stop being such a skank. The guy is married and you have no chance.
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Maybe you should talk to cell phone dude and say that you really cant hug him anymore. Tell him that your mom feels uncomfortable about it and that you want to respect her wishes ( You wouldn;t wont to mess your relationship up with your mom with CEllphone DUde!)...he will TOTALLY understand and respect you for making such a MATURE decision!! besides...he has a wife and kids!!!...ewww no fence...hahaha
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
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