I don't like my ex, Jason, anymore. He still likes me a lot. I like his step brother, Steven. On Saturday I was at the mall with my friends. We were sitting down in a restaurant and Jason and Steven see us and come sit by us. Jason barely said a word to me. Steven talked to me a lot. He kept staring at me like the whole time. I was like "stop staring at me!" and he just smiled and kept staring. I put my shopping bags in front of my face and then he whispered to my ex "she's hot". Then he added his cell number to my address book in my cell phone without me saying I wanted his number. Then Jason wanted to leave and Steven didn't want to. 10 minutes later, they left & my friends & I kept shopping. Steven saw me, say hi and yelled my name and waved really big and Jason didn't even say hi, but supposably he stilll likes me, he says. Then sunday night Jason called me. we talked for a min and then he's like "steven wants to say something to you" and then he said i was beautiful and he missed my laugh. later on he asked me out. i told him i didn't believe him, because i didn't. he said he'd ask me out next time he sees me since i didn't believe him. i never really see him since he goes to another school. i don't know if he was kidding about asking me out. he said he was serious. we talked til 1 am. then last night my ex, Jason was talking to my friend and he said "i think she likes steven. they were talking for ever last night and i asked her if she liked him & shes like i dunno but i think she does which then im going to get really pissed if she does because a lot of my ex girlfriends like him and i like her a lot." Soo, yeah... I wanna go out w/ steven but it'd hurt jason and yeah. i'd just feel i wasn't good enough or slutty enough for steven since he's 2 grades a head of me. but i can't go out with him because of my ex. people said it'd be cruel to do, so its like my decions have to be alright by him so he doesn't get hurt. but what about me? i really don't want to hurt him. but i dunno if steven likes me? does it seem like it?
Lady_M answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 6:34 pm: dude- call up STEVEN NOW!! yes i siad RIGHT NOW..and say yes...but then ask to talk to jason and tell him how you feel. tell him that you once loved him ( if you did)and you really genuinely care for him, but as a friend ( if you want to be friends...or just say it to be nice) but now you like steven and dont want to be held back by him....and no, it issn;t sluty to date steven....OKM?
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