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im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help.
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your 21. it is time to stop worrying about what your parents think. if you have so many questions and worryies about sex, you are definetly not ready for this. and if your this undereducated about the whole sex ordeal, you shouldnt even do anything.
A condom does help prevent pregnancies, but there is a very slim chance of pregnancy. but it is possible. if your on the pill you have to take it regularly or it will not be as accurate as it sould. this means talking it everday, same time everday, and never skipping a pill. the patch you put it on and change it once a week. this should answer mostly everything your asking for.
but you still are obviously not ready to have sex yet.
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Like other people said your 21 and I think it's time that you can make your own decisions without worrying about what your parents are going to say. Having sex for the first time does hurt. But not too bad! ;-) Condoms work well and most of the time will keep ypu from getting pregnant. The pill, you like take it everyday and it prevents you from gettting pregnant or something. I'm not to sure . . . well hope I helped! xoxo - KrIsSy* P.S- Have fun! :-D
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listen you are an adult now your parents have no control over you yes it will hurt the first few times but you will get used to it and then it wont hurt if you use the condom it is 97%affective and usually always works but only have sex unless you are compleatly sure if its what you want to do i hope i helped please rate
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Hey there. Losing your virginity is a big thing, and it does hurt, but only the first time. Maybe you should just get it over with. Now, your 21, and have been dating someone for 6 monthes now. Mayeb you'll marry this person. If you don't end up with this guy, and end up with someone else, if they really love you, they'll marry you virgin or not. PLus now a days not a lot of men are out for that. If you only use a condom, there is a very small chance you can get pregnant, but yes, you still can. With the pill you take it at the same time every day, and it will prevent pregnancy. And about your parents, just make sure they don't find out. By the ways your sounding though, your not ready. OS maybe you should wait till marriage.
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PILLS/PATCHES: you stick the patch on your butt or hip, but I wuold fear that it would fall off. You take the pill like any other pill, just ask the pharmisist at a drug store.
CONDOM: may get you pregnant but you MUST MUST MUST now matter WHAT!!! to protect you from HIV ( HIV leads/causes AIDS)
Syphilis- blisters heart and brain damage and even DEATH. you can even pass it you your child during birth including your partner
Herpes- sores, blisters There is no cure for it and if it goes away, it WILL come back. You pass it on to your children and partner
Gential warts-LARGE flat/ cauliflowers shaped warts on you know where that burns and itches. You can get it removed but it WILL come back. It is passed on and it causes cancer
Gornorrhea- PAINNN!! YOu become steril so you cant have kids-but if you DO have kids, it can be passed on, and skin disease
HOPE I HELPED!!-L.M.*
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With this many questions and concerns, it is obvious you are not ready yet. So your boyfriend wants sex, but what do you want? Please educate yourself about sex and protection before going any further. And decide for yourself how importaint your virginity is to you, don't worry about how others feel about it. Yes sex can be painful, and akward. Please take caution, and don't listen to jeanine278972 about the "pull out method." That is NOT a form of birth control.
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you will feel pain the first time. using pills does work. if you really love him and want to have sex with him then find a hotel or his place when no one is home and do it. or you can wait until you get married. it really is all your choice if you want to experiance this.
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Well.. honestly.. its completely your choice. I've had sex like 10 times.. only 1 time we used a condom.. as long as he "pulls out" (he should know what it means) then you'll be fine! as for marrying someone who wants a virgin.. im sure if he wants to marry you.. he will already be OK with the fact you've had sex... im sure everything will be fine.. JUST BE CAREFUL
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