hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday January 10 2005, 8:38 pm: I wouldn't be preparing the nursery just yet.There's no way you could actually reach up and FEEL the baby inside you,even if you were 6 months pregnant.You said that the symptoms you are having right now aren't uncommon for you when you get your period,so it could just be good 'ole PMS.Sometimes,having sex so soon after your period,or even during it,can throw your cycle off track just a little bit.Nothing serious,it just happens sometimes,especially since this was your first time.Typically 4 weeks is too soon to tell if you're pregnant or not,the average menstrual cycle comes every 28 days,give or take a few days.So,I would wait it out another week and half,and if you haven't started or aren't even showing symptoms that you're going to start,you should get a home pregnancy test.And,as I think you learned,from now on,always use protection.If you're planning on being sexually active regularly,you may want to consider getting on some form of birth control.If you have any more questions or concerns,please don't hesitate to leave a note in my inbox!!Hope this helped!:) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:57 pm: Too early to tell if you're pregnant without a test. It's not the unborn baby in you. Its probably just your gspot. Hope you're not pregnant babe. If you're not,lean a lesson. If you are,still learn a lesson. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
SarBear456 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 8:29 pm: Okay, first off..and you've probably heard this a million times USE PROTECTION..and now that thats out of my system..Go get a pregnancy test. They Usually cost up to 15 dollars. And when you feel up your vagina its not a unborn baby. So dont worry about that. If your breasts are tender and your a bit bloated, thats a good sign your period is going to start! [ SarBear456's advice column | Ask SarBear456 A Question ]
Shelbyjune answered Sunday January 9 2005, 4:20 pm: One week after a period -- chances are you are not pregnant. You are no doubt very young; you cannot feel an unborn baby in your vagina (note the spelling). Periods are almost never regulated for the first 3-5 years unless you are on the pill.
Yes, bad mistake that you didn't use protection.
Worse mistake, you had sex and you are extremely young.
Get a home pregnancy test, go to planned parenthood and get a test taken. And I know you're scared, but if you are pregnant (and you probably aren't) going to have to tell your mom sooner or later, especially if you go to planned parenthood.
Next time you get the urge to do this:
STOP. THINK. THINK AGAIN. COUNT TO TEN. THEN THINK AGAIN. THEN SAY NO AND RUN IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION!!! You have your entire life ahead of you and you don't want it to change so drastically because a baby has entered the picture when you are still a child yourself.
Hope I helped Take care (couldn't tell I'm a mom, could you?) [ Shelbyjune's advice column | Ask Shelbyjune A Question ]
maria2653 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 3:33 pm: ok well i can see why your scared. just get a test. digital ones are easier to read. the reason why you feel sick might be because of cramps.if you skip your period... thats bad. hope i helped
MummuM answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:49 pm: You could be pregnant. But, you couldn't feel the unborn baby. I think your best bet is to get a test from the store. Then you'll know for sure. Good luck hun.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:27 pm: First of all, a week after your period ends is the most fertile time for a female. That's right about mid-cycle, when you are ovulating.
Second, your body is ripe to catch STDs at any time.
Third, if you feel like you normally feel when you are expecting your period, then wait. That's all you can do anyway. Stress can make your period come late, so be prepared for that, but if it is more than two weeks late you'll need to buy an over-the-counter pregnancy test.
If it comes back positive, you'll need to see a doctor to discuss your options and healthcare. If it comes back negative and your period still doesn't arrive, you'll need to see a doctor anyway.
You most likely will not have any symptoms of pregnancy this early, even if you ARE pregnant. The only reliable symptom is not getting your period.
Finally, whatever you feel in your vagina, it is not a baby. A baby grows in your uterous, and if you WERE pregnant, the baby would be so tiny that you couldn't ever feel it. If the 'thing' in your vagina is not normally there, it could be a sign of a sexually transmitted disease.
You'll need to get tested for diseases, and then find out about birth control choices. There are a huge amount of pills, shots, patches, etc on the market - but you obviously cannot start using one of these until you find out you are definitely not pregnant. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:27 pm: i hope you havent thrown up in the morning/s yet, because then most likely that you are, go to a store and buy a pergnancy test thats the best thing for you to do, if it says that your not pergnant then yippie! you just skipped a month, that sometimes happens when you first get your period. you cant feel an unborn baby thats in your vag, its prabably the cervix, well go take a test please! xo Renee [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:06 pm: There is a possiblity that you could be pregnant but what you felt up in your vagina was not a fetis because you won't be able to feel it. Try taking a pregnancy test. If you start to get morning sickness then you may be pregnant. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 11:32 am: you COULD be pregnant. the first sign of pregnancy is a missed period.. obviosuly. there is also morning sickness, tender breasts, and more. if you need more information, search 'symptoms of pregnancy' on askjeeves.com.. hope ive helped =) and i hope everything works out for you ! [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
nEedmExOxwaNtmE answered Sunday January 9 2005, 11:18 am: its deff. not a baby u wouldnt be able to feel it.. its impossable and you should take a preg test to be sure and if u dont get your period for a while take another preg test or go see a doctor. *jiLl and raCh [ nEedmExOxwaNtmE's advice column | Ask nEedmExOxwaNtmE A Question ]
azngemini answered Sunday January 9 2005, 10:46 am: i seriously doubt it, babies takes 9 months to form, and they're formed all the way up your uterus, and your finger is probably too short to reach that.
maybe you felt mucus. it comes out of your vagina after you have sex.
take a pregnancy test to be sure [ azngemini's advice column | Ask azngemini A Question ]
Lady_M answered Sunday January 9 2005, 10:43 am: first of all. A baby CAN'T develope so fully that you can feel it after 4 weeks. You should definatley talk to your parents. No matter how against they are about you having sex, or if they know already, you need to talk to them!
Having sex without protection and with out birth control pills is extremely dangerous. ANd if you are in school then you wont be able to have a normal life if you're pregnant and the baby is born. Talking to a trusted adult can elp alot. You can talk to a doctor also.
I'd also advise taking a pregnancey test like EPT so be 100% sure if you are or are not.
dollbaby answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:50 am: The best thing to do is take a pregnancy test and get right to the doctor. Try not to panic. There are places you can go to get a pregnancy test and see a doctor without having to tell your parents - check in the yellow pages or on line even. There is no way that you are feeling an unborn baby at this time IF you are pregnant. The baby if there is one, is maybe the size of a pinhead. And one more thing, if you aren't pregnant... use this as a lesson and don't have sex again without protection. Good luck and let me know how you are - I care! [ dollbaby's advice column | Ask dollbaby A Question ]
hottdancer134 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:41 am: it's not the unborn baby...if your pregnant. That doesn't happen til bout 5-7 months. buy a test if your really that unsure. Hope this helps!
rainbowcherrie answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:36 am: Yes, it is possible that you could be pregnant but the thing you felt is definitely not the unborn baby. You would not be able to feel it. Buy a pregnancy test and take it to make sure. The thing you felt inside you is probably perfectly normal but if you are really worried then you can go to your doctor. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
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