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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?
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I'm surprised he knows you're alive. Drop him. He really wants sex and thats it. Guys all the time go out with younger girls for this.
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Your mom is a very important person in your life...she brought u into this world...i dont know about you but i couldnt keep secerts like that to myself...id end up telling her...maybe you and your mom should have a conversation about it and talk to her...tell her wats goin on...and come to an agreement...and if she says just to be friends with him then be friends until your old enough to make your own decisions...and if u think your ready to then tell her how you feel...its worth a shot...whos more important the Senior guy..( who might only stay for a while ) or your mom...( who will be in your life forever )
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~Katie Leigh~
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hey its ok to do this thing behind her back but just remember that if she does find out you will be in big trouble but if you really like him it shouldnt matter my mom had a problem when i was dating a 17 yr old when i was 14 but i also kno that they expect more but i think you should fallow your heart hide somthing from your mother or date some one you really like oh and before you date him behind her back make sure you are really good at keeping secrets i hoped i helped please rate
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Umm.. I would maybe break up and then have him meet your mom. thats only if you feel bad though. if you dont then contine-trix
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Alright, I had a friend in a very similar situation. Let your parents get to know this guy, and make sure they trust you. If they believe you're responsible and they like this guy, you won't have any problems. It'll make the relationship a lot more fun. You won't have to be constantly worrying about being caught. Then, if you do get caught, no horrible consequences. It is doable, no matter how frigid you think your mother would be about the situation. Well, good luck!
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Well, stop doing whatever you're doing, but don't stop seeing the guy. Tell him your not really allowed to do that yet. Just stay with him and wait a few years til you're older and your mom won't care as much. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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I would just talk to him and be friends..because in the end somehow it will get to your mom and it wont be worth it!
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ehh well is this a guy you can trust..yah sum of them may b more mature but sum of them aint tht great..ask your mom sumthin like am i allowed to like date others tht are older cuz this one kid lookd at me the other day..dont tell youve done nething but see wut she says to tht and then you can tell her..slowly..be carefull
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what have u been doing? you didnt state what uve been doing.
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i think u should dump him
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continue to do what you want! its ok to like older people. it just means that your more mature. just keep it sneaky :p
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you should talk to her about it... or HINT to her subtley. Ask her how far apart she and your dad (if you have one-if not I am SO sorry) -that always seems to get my mom! I know tons of kids who do the same thing- you guys are only 3/4 years apart.You should be able to choose..but you wouldn;t want to get in trouble and mess things up with your mom.
GOOD LUCK!!-L.M.*
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what have you been doing?
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well.. I'm a senior and I'm dating a freshman.. and his mom is pretty cool about it.. But if you really like him.. I'd keep going on with what your doing. Why wouldnt your mom like this if she found out???
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