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Should I Stay With My Boyfriend?
I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?
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I don't think you should stay with your boyfriend
because it sounds like your unsure about your relationship with him. I also think that being in a relationship with someone when you barely get to see them..never seems to work out. And it really isn't fair to him if your having second thoughts about everything. So..if you love him enough..you would do the right thing..cause leading him on like this isn't right at all!
Cassandra Ann
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No no no no no!..You should neverrrrrrrr feel like you have to stay wit yer boyfriend just because someone you want wont be able to be with you. If he fooled around with you too, that must mean he likes you too, or juss wanted some. But i dont think he would do that to his girlfriend who he obviously loves because hes already living there, I think you should tell your boyfriend..theres a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone....=)
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it kind of sounds like your really not happy in the relationship. after reading everything you said, whether u can be with the other guy or not, all of it kinda adds up to the fact that maybe you and this guy aren't meant to be. don't stay in a relationship your not happy in- no matter what you do afterwards, its really not worth it.
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Don't do anything ur not happy about. Maybe if u werent going out with ur boyfriend, you could meet someone new, and start to like him and then who knows what. You never know what could happen at any given moment.. just expect the unexpected
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Well, if you can't even see him often...Sorry, hun. I'd say no. Plus you cheated on him. I think that was probably because you never see him, like you said. Just explain to your boyfriend that you can't deal with not seeing him and just tell him that you'd rather be frineds. Then find somebody else who you can see more often.
*Randy T*
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If you're unhappy in your relationship, you shouldn't be in it. The main reason to be in a relationship is to improve your life and make you happier. Don't try to go for the other guy if you know you can't be with him, but don't stay with your boyfriend if you're unhappy.
Tell him the truth - that you're unhappy in the relationship, and you'd feel better giving the whole bf/gf thing a rest for awhile. You don't have to tell him the WHOLE truth - about the other guy - but you need to explain to him why you want to break up, if you decide to break it off.
The final decision, of course, will be yours, but you do need to think about what you want to do. If you stay with your guy and you're unhappy, you're leading him on - making him think you still like him when you maybe don't.
You also don't always HAVE to have a boyfriend. It's nice, honestly, but it's not necessary. It can be fun to be single. Consider all your options, and make what you feel is the best choice.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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This sort of stuff can be really complicated. It kinda sounds like you have this boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. That's not fair to him or to YOU! If you've already cheated on him, you're probably not as crazy about him as you should be for such a new relationship. Don't force yourself to be with someone, just enjoy life! Good luck and I hope everything works out:)
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I dont think so if your going to cheat on him that is messed up! If any thing you should tell him what happened and if you really love him stay with him if not break up wiht him you just cant play ppl like dat! hope i helped plz rate
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Honestly.. I think you should break up with him.. Yes you will hurt for a little bit.. but YOU WILL get over it.. trust me.. you will.. about that other guy living with his girl friend.. That happend to me too.. I fooled with him NUMEROUS times knowing he was with his girlfriend and I cried all the time.. but I loooved fooling with him bcuz I liked him so much.. No I loved him.. But I eventually got over it.. Just have fun and be single.. You only live once! So live it to the fullest.. and if girls call u a whore for having fun.. FUCK THEM.. bcuz u can do what u want! lol.. Yes.. definitely break up with him.. Have some fun girl!!
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i don't think you should. if u don't like him then you don't have to be with him. do wut u think is right.
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if ur not happy with ur boyfriend than dont stay with him.
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