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Well there's this boy and..
Well.. there's this boy and he is one of my best friends x's and I love him to death. Me and my best friend.. well i guess I wouldn't call her that bcuz.. I don't really talk to her all that much anymore.. but like.. I love this guy to death and I've slept with him numerous times.. the problem isn't my friend.. it's him.. He loves having sex! And I figure maybe if I have sex with him ALL the time he won't NEED any other girls.. bcuz I definitely don't have a problem with having sex with him all the time.. lol i love it! But like.. we aren't together or anything.. but we would be.. if it wasn't for all these other hoes.. He's the only guy I sleep with and I care a lot about him.. I really wish I knew what I could do to get him away from these other girls.. I want to be the ONLY one he WANTS to have sex with.. and I want to be with him.. WHAT DO I DO!! HELP ME!!
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if he is sleepin wit other girls then he aint worried bout you. i know that sounds mean but its the truth. if he wanted a real relationship and not jus a booty call he would have one. dont be jus another chickenhead ta that dude. you can do betta than that. ~*Alexis*~
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First realize that you being with your best friend's (or just friend, as it were) ex may stir up some icky emotions from her.
Okay - If I were in your situation, I think I would go up to him one day and tell him that I wanted to talk to him alone, and tell him exactly what you told us, starting with the "and I figure maybe if I..." part. Also probably excluding the "what do I do/help me" part as well. If you want to be with him in a solid relationship, you've gotta tell him. He might think you're totally okay with having sex and not being in a relationship, and you're obviously not. He's not psychic, though, so he can't know that unless you tell him.
COMMUNICATE YOUR FEELINGS! Communication is always / often the answer.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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tell him that..and tell him how u feel. just be open to him and confront him with it..good luck
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