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Ok I met this girl online like 11 months ago and in April I asked her out. I have pics millions of letters and we talks hours everyday on the phone. I really love her. But her past relationship she was raped and had a baby so now her dad doesnt trust guys being with her and since she met me online that makes it even worse. I really wanna see her yesterday was 7 months. I need advice on getting her dad to trust me if anyone can help. And no im not leaving her shes perfect we never argue or fight. Please dont give me answers saying to dump her I understand long distance is hard but I know with her dads trust it will work. Thanks much guys and gals.

Well, i'm sypathetic to her father. This has to be really hard for him. I don't think there is any one thing you can do to change his mind. just keep being a great boyfriend. it's going to take him a very long time to come around. but if you keep being a great boyfriend, her father will see it eventually. good luck and i wish you two happiness

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Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long?

I have been best friends with a girl since the second grade. The key to not growing apart is being open with that person. Tell her all about your life and let her tell you about hers! You will probably grow apart somewhat because of geography, but you can still be life long friends! On another note, be happy you like your new home! good luck hon

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ok my parents always fite about something that i do wrong. I dont no what to do! i get so upset bc it seems like they are goin to split up. How can i tell if they are goin to or not???
PLZ HELP ME ANYONE!~!~!~!

well, i don't know how close you feel to either one of your parents. if you feel close to one of them tell them that you feel this way. otherwise, there is no way for you to know for SURE. If that won't work for your situation, I'd try to be a really good kid for awhile and see how they get along then. Best wishes

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hey... well i kiinda have a problem.. well there is this guy dat i like and this weekend we wanna hang out and fool around... but i have my period do u think i shud postpone the hanging out? cuz i dont want 2 give a hand job and than he cant return the favor... like he knoz i have it but i dont want it 2 get carriied away and he 4gets bout it.. i need help ASAP!!!

i'd get a rain check. if you're just hanging out with him to have some fun, make sure that you can have fun too!

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What do i do when me & my bff have a crush on the same guy?

I say forget it in general. i know it sucks, but if one of you ends up dating him, the other will be really upset. if that sounds like something you can both deal with, let the best girl win

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i LUV cuttin up big shirts n makin them tight n cute like bows down the side but i almost always do the same thing with the bows n im soo tired of it.does nyone kno anythin else thatll b cute to do to shirts? ill rate u a fvive if u answer! thnx

cut the bottom off and make 2 long strings. then cut hole punch sized holes up the sides. Then cut up the side of your shirt. then string the sides up like a shoe lace. if you have extra, tie up the sleeves so they bunch. i've done this before it's really cute. i got the idea off of the special features on the crossroads dvd

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sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent)

This depends on how serious it is. one of my best friends has this problem. hers is so bad that she has a perscription that doesn't work, and she has gotten botox in her armpits. she's hoping to have surgery. if it's not THAT bad, try buying shirts w/ a thicker material and wearing tank tops under them. that what my friend used to do!

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i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate!

I'd start with pads because they're the easiest to use. Then phase yourself into using tampons. I really like the compact ones because they're easy to sneek to the bathroom! :) good luck hon!

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i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13

don't worry, your time will come. i got mine when i was 13. for now, consider yourself lucky. unlike your other friends, you don't have to deal with cramps, bloating, and feeling like a manic depressive once a month. :) you're lucky!

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You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period?

Well, all of that advice is good. Wash your face, use astringant to dry out oils ect. if you're looking for something more perminate, go on birth control. They have a pill that helps clear up your face.

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theres this guy that i like nd hes soooo sweet! but he told me that he likes ma best friend nd that hurt rlly bad. i thawt he liked me but he mite now now. bfore his friends were comin up to meh n sayin that he likes me n stuff but i didnt like him then. also sumtimes i rlly like him n othr times i just think o him as a friend so i dunno whether i should go out wit him or not cuz if i do i rlly don wanna hurt his feelings cuz hes 1 o the sweetest guys i evr met. wat should i do? thnx

Well, it sounds like you like him to me! :) I think you should get the courage to talk to him about it. You guys sound like you're close. Even if he doesn't say what you want to hear, atleast you can know the truth and move on in your relationship. Best of luck

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how can u tell when ur in love with a guy???

If you're in love, you know you're in love. This is just my opinion, but i think love is wanting to be with someone dispite their flaws. Once you get past the "they're perfect" phase, and you still get a huge smile when you think about them - that's love.

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my friend i think may become anarexic because well she keeps saying that shes fat and shes not i whenver she says she is i tell her shes not but she doesn't believe me....do u think she might? what can i do to help prevent her from getting more to thinking this?


xox lissy

well, it depends on if she's really skinny. if it is getting serious, i'd tell someone and try to get her some help. otherwise, why don't you offer to be a work out buddy. tell her that you two can get rid of some of the flab and tone up! that way she'll still be eating, but not feel so guilty about it.

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Well I need some advice on eating more healthy and reguarly. I'm only 14 but my mother isn't home at night (she works the night shift and McDonalds) and I am in charge of feeding myself. I will be honest I am a good cook to a point though I could still use guidance every now and then. I have the habit of not knowing what to cook so I will end up just eating watered down cream of chicken and egg noodles which I know is not good for me all the time. I like Salmon really well and eat in quite often but that gets tiring. Lately food has taken over my life. I'm always secretly wondering if I should have eaten that, what will I eat for dinner, I don't have anything in the house I need to go out and get something, and I really hate that. I'm not fat I'm normal for my height and I want to just learn to eat at certain times and just have healthy snacks inbetween instead of cookies for my snacks.

If any of you on here can think of some good well balanced meals please answer. Thanks in advance.

put some grapes in the freezer. it sounds nasty, but it's so yummy. it's like eating hard candy. it's sweet and good for you. it's my favorite snack! also, if you are worried about snacking, drink more water. this won't make you so hungry. seafood is really healthy, so i'd keep going that route. chicken salads are my personal favorite!

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this is all the other advicenators, because since you are all on this site like me, im thinking maybe you guys have had the same problem. obviously, we all like helping people. but what happens when we're the ones who need the help, but we feel we can't ask for it because we're supposed to be the one who has all the solutions. please dont tell me to write my problem on here, because obviously i know that. don't get me wrong...i LOVE giving people advice...but in the real world, have any of u guys ever felt like your not supposed to need any back in return? just a thought...let me know what u think.

no one has all of the answers. if they did we wouldn't need our friends and family. we could live life, never have relationship problems, all make the big bucks, and die happy. sometimes problems can bring you close to the people you love. don't be scared to let them help you - i'm sure they want to.

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i usually do pretty well in school, but i am a really bad test taker. even if know the stuff, the second a test is put in front of me, my mind blanks. i don't know what to do because my test grades are bringing down my averages...especially bio. do any of u have any tricks for taking tests? if u do please please tell me...thank you so much

There are a few simple things you can do. First, have someone quiz you over your notes. That way you can see how much you really know. Then, even if you're by yourself, act like you're teaching the material to someone else. I know this sounds silly, but you remeber 80% of what you teach to someone else. It's only like 40% of what you read. I'm in education, and this is something i have my students do! it works really well. good luck and let me know how it goes!

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13/f
Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks.

On the Road by Jack Kerouac

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Hey everyone, i was just wondering if anyone had any creative ideas that you can to do make outfits look cute..like ribbon belts,studs on things..things like that..thanks a bunch :)

ok, this may be WAY more work than you want, but i like to make jewlery. the materials are cheap. You can buy an assortment of bulk beads and other materials at any craft store. Then you can wear a plain shirt and really jazz it up with this really cool jewlery. PLUS it's great when you get a compliment and can say, "thanks, i made it" :)

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What does "style" meen, like in a book report becuase i have to right a paraagraph on what style the writer is using.

just write like the author. for example, if you need to write like gertrude stein, you would repeat yourself a lot but slightly change each sentence, just like her. who is the author? maybe i could help more!

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in writing we are writing biographies..does anyone have any good ideas on who i could do a biography on?

thanx

i once did a bio on marylin manson. he has tons of media coverage so there is a lot of info - plus his life is really interesting.

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