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Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long?
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just keep and touch and always let her them know that ur there
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Well, Moving does tend to stink up a frienship distance wise. But, were not exactly livng in world of no technology: so, use e-mail, if you don't have an e-mail address,you get a good free one at yahoo.com USE INSATNT MESSAGING! obviously dont use it to talk to disguisting gross fifty year old guys, but it can help a relationship. Also old Alexander Grahmm Bell did usa favor by inventing el telefono. So, just because you may not live close enough to her to have sleep overs you can still talk about EVERYTHIng!!!!!!! chances are if your not friends in a year, it won't be because of a lack in communication!
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Well first you don't specify the distance involved, but here's your answer.
If it's any more than 30 miles- give up, you're 13 if you can't make new friend then you are either very fat or some sort of unwanted minority: IE Asian.
If it's any less than 30 miles- give up, seriously all the friend I had when I was 13 were queerbaits who I would not talk to now. You'll look back at them in disgust and if you see them on the streets you'll find it hard to supress the natural instinct to spit on them.
But I suppose your question was how to stay friends-
People like to use you and have you buy stuff for them, if you do that then they will indeed stay your 'friends'. Other than that you're fucked.
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Well, about 2 yearsz ago my bestfriend moved and now we still keep in touch! We talk on AIM all the time, we write letters to each other or call one another and there'sz e-mail too ... so try some of those and keep in touch with your friendsz every once in a while.
hope i helped =]
byeeee!
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I have been best friends with a girl since the second grade. The key to not growing apart is being open with that person. Tell her all about your life and let her tell you about hers! You will probably grow apart somewhat because of geography, but you can still be life long friends! On another note, be happy you like your new home! good luck hon
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if you guys are meant to be friends forever, or at least a while, you will be. i just recently went to college, 1800 plus miles away from all my best friends, including my boyfriend of 2 years. it was the hadest thing i ever had to do, so i know exactly what you're going through. after being here for 3 months, i realized that things aren't going to change between me and my closest friends, because even tho we can only see each other 3-4 times a year, that doesn't mean we won't still be best friends. you just have to keep talking to them, but at the same time make sure that you make new friends in your new town, otherwise you will be miserable. it'll be hard, but hopefully you will be able to see them every now and then between now and the time you get your licenses, because it will reasure you that you guys can make it until then. be strong, and have faith that if you were meant to be friends, you will be. i hope this helped, and best of luck adjusting. if you need anymore help, please don't hesitate to ask me
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Well.... There is not realy a lot to say exept call a lot. And when you go back to viset make sure you get too see yout friends. Also make sure you remember B-days and stuff like that. send the letters and kewl card. then when you are able to drive you can drive to see them
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~Made4Monkeez
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the only advice that i can give to you is to try to keep in touch with your friends. But also, try to make new friends while your in your new town.
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It's not as hard as you think. I moved from Pennsylvania when i was 12 and i'll be 16 in less than a month. I'm still friends with people from there. And if you do stop talking to some people, it's ok. That happens. I only talk to about 3 or 4 people still, but they're my favorite people. And if you're as good of friends with these people as you say you are, then you should have no problem. just chill.
(i've been giving nice advice today, feel special)
PISTRIX!!!
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far far far away? so tht mean you guys can visit like every week or nething? weell i mean you can talk to your mom and ask like if once ever like 2 weeks or like 3 weeks if you can go visit them cuz you miss them..tell her the pple were your at now are cool but you wanna keep in touch w/ your other friends..also..you got aim or aol..you can talk to them everyday on tht..tht makes it so much better..i went to a skool and it was only me..like i hadda leave all m friends and aim is a great way to keep in touch!
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well i think if u keep in touch with each other by callin nd sometime visitin each other dey u can stay friends just try in keep in touch with them as much as u can nd try not to change nd be a new person coz den they'll realized u changed nd will try nd not be ur friend so as long as u keep talkin da friendship will keep going it may not be as strong buh once u get ur license den u'll see dem more nd the friendship will get stronger...hope dis helps
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