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There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone?
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id leave it alone, chances are she wont believe you, think you jsut want him for yourself and ditch you as a friend, then get hurt buy him somewhere else down the line. if you really want to tell her then jsut start carying a tape recorder around when you all hang out so you have some proof.
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You should really tell her or she'll find out from someone else who knows...and then it'll probably be hell and stuff...So talk to her one on one and give her the 411 on "Nick" Please Rate Me!!!
Hoped I helped ~Kelly
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i agree with what most people have said so far, that if you let it go chances are it will just get worse, and Kellen will end up getting hurt worse than necessary. if you are a good friend to her, tell her what happened. tell her that he just randomly came on to you, and that you wanted her to know that he might be doing this to other poeple, not just you. also be sure that she knows that you have no feelings for Nick whatsoever, so that his coming on to you was completly one-sided-that you did nothing to initiate it. also be sure to tell her that you wanted her to hear it from you first, and you didn't want her to get hurt. that's a real tough situation, and for you to have to deal with it when you're only 14 kind of sucks. i hope this helped, and i hope everything works out! let me know what happens
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Well usually If you just let something go like that it ebds up getting worst when she realy finds out. so I would just tell her. Also he might not only be doing it to you he could be toing it to tons of other girls.if ou find yourself were you cant tell I would go tell someone else fist the they might tell Kellen.
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i think you should really talk to kellen because if she find out later in time she'll feel even worse tell her that nick might not the right person for you he was trying to ask me out and add anything to make her not feel as bad
cya
*Mr.NeWyOrK*
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oMG! cReEpY! lol i thynk u should tell her....no matter if she believes u or not i thynk u need to tell her the truth! always be honet with yer friends!! let her no how he is! good lucc huN!
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leave it alone and if he asks you out say no!!!
good luck!!
froggie7
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Definitely tell her. She's your friend and she trusts you. And her boyfriend, well just take it from my 18-year old guy friend "You cant trust an 18 year old boy, all they think about is sex and getting as many girls as possible." So he could be a player... or he could have just been complimenting you. So don't worry your friend, just tell her... but you should probably confront him first.
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Nick's using her...he's an asshole...he deserves to be wounded. I suggest telling Kellen what you think of him, but not in a way that's going to upset her. And try not to tell her about what he said to you unless it's nessacary, b/c she might just think you're getting them to break up so you can go out with him...trust me, it's just not a good idea.
PISTRIX!!!
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Wow that's just wrong of him. It sounds like he's only going out with your friend because he likes you. You should really tell her before he hurts her more. And if shes your friend dont go out with him. He could do the same thing to you. Besides thats almost rape. Good luck. Bye!
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you should definatly tell her! im sure she would not want a bf like that, so if in the future she could get her heart broken by him going with another girl behind her back.as a friend its your honor to tell her the truth!
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you have to tell her..hes cheatin on her and tht so not cool..and wtf..he 18..lol stay away from him :-) lol..its not rite for him to be doin tht..and for kellen..i dont even see y she w/ him cuz he just gunna keep doin tht..i mean hes 18 he shud b the responsible one.
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TELL KELLEN ASAP
the way it sounds she deserves better and your her friend so tell her
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