Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 3:22 pm
ok umm... my boyfrend broke up with me monday because he said he didnt want to get sick of me and neva talk to me again if we broke up later in the year..... so now we're ova but i still hav a crush on him! n hes already movin on to other girls (he likes this girl but she doesnt want to go out with him) how do i get ova this n b like my old self... not miserable?!?!?! i really need help. o ya he still flirts with me n stuff u can tell he still likes me too cuz he calls me everyday n stuff so wat should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? theblondeone989 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 3:10 am: Haha, I answered one of your questions earlier, I do believe.
Listen, you don't need this guy. If he has just broken up with you, moved on to new girls already, and yet STILL flirts with you, then he sounds like he doesn't know WHAT he wants. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy, and you shouldn't let this boy control your feelings! There are TONS of guys out there--instead of worrying about this one, go meet some new ones. If you aren't ready to "move on" yet, then why not focus on your other friendships for awhile? Trust me, you'll have forgotten all about this guy before you know it =) [ theblondeone989's advice column | Ask theblondeone989 A Question ]
jeffsbaby answered Thursday November 18 2004, 9:34 pm: well it seems like ur better off friends just dont force him into a relationship .... do what he is just try and find sum1 better !!!goodluck! [ jeffsbaby's advice column | Ask jeffsbaby A Question ]
XoMiSSGuCCiOX answered Thursday November 18 2004, 9:03 pm: he was obviously being an ass by saying that he didnt want to get "sick" of you. i went out witha guy guy for about 9 months and he was acting the same so i ended it, its hard to forget but you should give it a shot. if he flirts with other girls and YOU at the same time that means that he wanted to be social thats y he broke up in the first place. hope i helped drop by something in my inbox and tell me how things go <3 XoX GuCCi [ XoMiSSGuCCiOX's advice column | Ask XoMiSSGuCCiOX A Question ]
gsgirl answered Thursday November 18 2004, 7:04 pm: just kinda stay away from him a little find different guys even if u dont go out with diferent guy flirt with them so u c that there are others. give ur self time. kinda play hard to get make him come to you [ gsgirl's advice column | Ask gsgirl A Question ]
MedicatedSanity answered Thursday November 18 2004, 5:35 pm: wow... um just be friends with him for about two weeks... flirt with him majorly and drive him crazy(in a good way)... then he'll realize what he's missing out on. or you could just talk to him, tell him how you feel, tell him that you won't break up with him later in the year cause you like him too much, and flirt and ask him out again. or you could put it in your mind that the reason he broke up with you is so he could flirt with that girl he likes and then hate him. But i suggest the first one. :) while your doing that you could alway look out for other guys... go the mall, the movies, etc... and look for cute guys to hook up with. ehh good luck with that. [ MedicatedSanity's advice column | Ask MedicatedSanity A Question ]
PleaseHelpMe answered Thursday November 18 2004, 5:11 pm: Okay well i think you needa new guy. He says he doesnt want to get sick of you and never talk to you agian..but by breaking up thats going to happen anyways. He ovioulsy does like you and he might feel like he likes you too much and doesnt want to ruin your friend ship. You need to get a new guy. It's hard but just hang out with your friends to get your mind off of him and soon you'll get another guy. Good luck! [ PleaseHelpMe's advice column | Ask PleaseHelpMe A Question ]
xOxRoHoBaByxOx answered Thursday November 18 2004, 4:47 pm: Oh geeze sounds sooo like me and my ex. One thing you shouldnt do if you stil like him is start to get a crush on another guy, because then he will think that you dont like him anymore. Try calling him or tellikng him in person about how you feel, thats the best thing to do. If he feels the same way he sould return the same feelings, but if he dosnt just forget about him. Have a girl night and have a few girl friends over for a sleep over they will make you happy again! I suggest watching scary of funny movies and eating popcorn or ice cream, get HYPER! lol that always made me happy when i was dreading my break up. Or you can write you feelings in a journal or Diary that way you get your feelings out. I hope i helped! [ xOxRoHoBaByxOx's advice column | Ask xOxRoHoBaByxOx A Question ]
sweeTie3 answered Thursday November 18 2004, 4:44 pm: well the first thing you gotta do is talk ot him and ask him how he feels about you..tell him you want them honest truth..tht will help you see if he does still have feeling for you or is it just cuz he cant find another grl..so he still finds it enjoyable to flirt w/ yah..yah kno? and if he dont like you..i mean just think..you have to move on sumtyme or another..i mean you always think like i cud never forget about him..bu yah you will..trust me..just think theres so much more to lyfe..hes so not worth it..pple who break up and stay friends were ment to b friends..not more..
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