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ok my dad has a girlfriend... thats ok with me....but like everyone hates her me , my bro, everyone except my dad... i have told him about it so many times but he doesnt listen and he wont break up with her....am i supposed to hurt my dads feelings and lik not hang around her... the only problem is that my dad is lik never home, so i only get to c him wen i c her...i really dont think its fair....i need help this is ruining my life!
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you need to sit him down and talk to him about it. there must be sometime that he's around and she's not. no matter what he's still your dad, and if u tell him you really need to talk to him, he'll listen. tell him all your feelings and that you think that he's spending too much time w/ her and not you. if your dad is a great guy, trust me, he'll understand. now for the girlfriend. is there a reason why you and your brother hate his girlfriend? i mean if your dad likes her then she can't be all that bad. dont be so quick to judge her, give her a chance. she can't be all that bad, who knows? maybe you'd even end up become close w/ her. hope my advice helps~*
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you have to talk to him even more..thts about all i can say..tell him tht its not fair tht everytyme you wanna spend tyme w/ him..you have to spend tyme w/ her which you dont like..tell him tht you respect his feelings for her but you wanna hang out w/ him wen she not around..mayb he'll think about it..you cant get them to break up..but you can at least see your dad w/o her being round if your dad realy thinks about it and respects your feelings
hope everything goes well..!
raTe mE!
<3
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Sweety...I went throught the same thing...this is kinda bad what i did but...I sent a letter to her that said to heather(that was her name)
It read...
Dear Heather,
This is over between us!We have to many things we fight about and it just isnt far to Christina(me)
You X,
Sean(my dad)
And she wrote back and said
Sean,
Fine Bitch be that way!
-Heather
P.s. DONT CALL ME OR WRITE BACK I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!
Or just write letters to your dads girl and your dad so it isnt that bad!
Hope it helps
~*~TinaBUG~*~
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you know what..it is not fair..to have to share youe dad wiht someone you do not like. But guess what..you will probaly date people HE does not lie, so you will be even on that.
you have to sit your dad down and say..you know what..i undertand that you need time alone wiht..so and so..but as your child..I need YOu more than your g/f who is an adult.
He needs to realize that as hi children YOU come first
Now whether he does not not..will show how much of an adult he is.
I am sorry to tell you..but ALOT of adults are SUPER selfish..and DO not deserve having aesome kids..like you.
maybe they will break up...if she has such icky traits..maybe your dad will get a clue too...
till then..hang in there!
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and when you have a bf that your dad doesnt like do you listen? probably not. in my experiance with case studies of cases like this you most likely do have a problem with your dad dating in general and are jsut projecting that into a hate for her specificaly. my advice is, unless shes totatly horrible has a coke habit and beats you then just let your dad live his life.
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Say this to him:
Dad, I'm not going to make this a question of your lvoe but do you love me? You wouldn't want em to be unhappy would you? I have tried my hardest to accept (insert girlfriend here lol) but I just can't seem to. I"m your daughter I will be here forever and I will always love you but I'm not gonna want to spend time with you if I'm miserable because your with your girlfriend.
I hope this helps leave one in my inbox,
Caitlin
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Well, You gotta think about your dad also, I mean, if he wants to be with someone, you really dont have any say over it. I mean, if she abuses you, or anyone, or if shes verbaly abusive thats one thing, but just not liking her could also be jealousy, because she sees your dad more than you do? You should talk to your dad, just you and him and tell him how you feel.
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i no exactly wut u mean. i have a lot a friends that don't like their parents dating other people. you should really try to either catch him when he is alone or just take him away for a second. he is ur dad. you have the right to borow him for at least a few minutes. if he loves you, he'll understand.
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My question What's the reason you dont like her?
But my advice is to at least respect her and if she isnt right for your father, he will eventually see, but you not liking her isnt going to have him break up with her.
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Tell him you dont want to be around when she is around he will gte the pooint sooner or later! has your brother said any thin to him? If you gte your brother to start saying thing to him to then he might realize, wow they must really not like her.
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