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OMG SHES SO ANNOYING
I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person?
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Heyy, thats kinda cool that your cousin looks up to you, but i know that it can get annoying, introduce her to some 12 years that you know, or if theres a school function at her school then go to it and ask her about her friends there and have her hold a convosation with them or since she looks up to her talk her into playing a sport at school and add in that it is the new cool thing to do and your going to try out for the same sport at your school, it might get her interested and help her make friends and keep her busy! alrighty i hope i helped!
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One really good way is to eliminate all contacts with her. Try to change your cell number, or turn it off (she might leave 10,000 messages on it tho) at ur house see if you can get caller id, if you don't already have it. Also change your IM or just don't get on anymore. By the way, this might not work, but talk 2 her mom about how you need some space and that your really stressed out right now because of school and other things that if she could just back off a little. Or what is better is having ur mom tell her for you. Adults seem to listen to each other better.
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One idea you can do is find her a friend her age to hang out with. That way they would be hanging out and she would not bother you.
good luck!!
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you should find her a good friend that she approves of. find her someone kind of like you. or u can find a way to convince her that u rn't cool, (im not saying that u really r not cool) and hopefully she will leave you alone. your choice.
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Try and help her out a little bit. Tell her to create her own image. You should also just set aside some special time for the two of you. That way she won't always interfere with you and your friends. Hopes this helps a bit.
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she thinks of you like an older sister...to me..even though this would be really annoying...it is kind of cool..that someone would find you so AWESOME they would want to copy what you do. She will grow out of it.
If it is too annoying..try and get her to find her own style..take her shopping..act like her taste is really great w/o picking out anything yourself..she is insecure..once she realizes that she is ok..she will stop copying you.
encourage her..in her own taste..she will stop..if not..well heck..i wish someone copied what I did now!!
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Alright either
1. hook her up wit some friends her own age
2. kill the bitch lolz jk
3. Start caliin her and see how she feels
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Just tell her that you are busy... if she doesn't leave you alone, then the next time you tell her, do it in front of a lot of people, like your friends, so that your are not as easily accused of hating her and have witnesses. Or just hang out with her and try to find friends that she can hang out with.
You could always stop talking to her less and less, but she could catch on.
I'm sorry if none of those helped, but she won't be like that her whole life.
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i think u should tell her the truth nd tell her wut u think nd help her make friend'z nd tht she should be herself nd not try 2 be u or anywun else..nd if she cry'z nd tell'z her mom then u should talk to her mom about it cuz it'z not rite to try bein sum wun else..u gotta be urself!
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She's just trying to be like you, beacuse she has no friends she hangs out with you and your friends because she knows you won't be mean to her. Maybe you could go to the movies or go bowling with her once a month, like a girls night out! Hope i helped! Good Luck!
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DOes she have any brothers or sisters?If not then that means that she sees you as a sister and that she can confide in you.If you dresses like you that means she likes your style and she wants to be like you.I personaly dont see no harm i that but if it bugs you alot help he get her own style.If she bus you so much why dont you try to plan things with her ahead of time so she wont pop out of no where and when you plan things make sure that you plan time for urself and friends. Your not a bad person you just want time for yourself.and dont ell her leav me alone more like i dont have time right now y not some other time.i hope i helped good luck!
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tell the faggot she needs to find new people to bother and its not her fault shes annoying and has no friends.
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Try getting her to meet a kid in your school whos her age. About the internet, dont talk to her on it, block her or something. Start doing "older" stuff like going to a pg 13 movie so she wont be aloud to. As i said before try finding someone who is her age and is as "annoying" as her.
Hope I Helped!
~Brina~
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u shouldn't worry about making her cry or looking like a bad person if she is really getting on ur nerves tell her to leave u alone or scram
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