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ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be? (link)
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You might feel wierd because he is your best friend and you doing more than being friends and it feels wierd that your doin new things too but if you like this guy keep doing w/e and you wont feel as weird any more.
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iv'e been depressed for a really long time now, when i first told my friend i was depressed a really long time ago she said it was just a phase that everyone goes through and i'd get over it in like a month. well it's been almost 6 or 7 months and i keep getting more and more depressed. i feel so lost all of the time and i cry a lot but i don't exactally know why. i mean, i have friends and a really great boyfirned... i also went through 2 "phases" i guess, were i would cut myself [don't worry, i stopped. but i didn't ever get help so i'm afraid its going to start again] when somthing bothers me, i'm not the type of person that would make it stop.. i just kind of keep it inside and deal with it later. i also am becoming over sensitive, like the other day my friend reiss was messing with me and i compleatly lost it.. i ran out of the room and skipped two clases. i don't know whats wrong with me or how i can make it stop.... please help (link)
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Depression is something we all go through,some of us we dont know why and it confusses us. We're so depressed that we might do things like cut or commite suicide. You need help you should talk to your parents and tell them. You should also go to counseling because of your depression you keep things that bother you in and dont tell anyone this way if you go to a counselor you can tell her/him how you feel.I think you should get meds too it will help A LOT it will help you not to be depressed all the time.If you ever want to talk im me Sugarsweetay13.
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months now and as we all know Valentines Day is really soon but i cant seem to figure out what to get him, i dont want to get hime like cologne or jewlery or clothes, i want to get him something diffrent but i can't figure it out and i really need to figure out soon, can someone please help me out PLEASE.....and please noone say anything sexual.. that isnt a gift.. and its bound to happen anyways.. (link)
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Well you can make him a bear at build a bear and have "i love you" shirt on it or you can be creative. Think of something that he has wanted for a long time and hasn't gotten it yet (to surprise him) or maybe he has a certain band he likes and you can get him a cd or a shirt. With that you can get him his ultime fav. candy (instead of valentine candy you can also surprise him with his fav).
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ok my friend told me a dream that she had how i was friends with satan and made a hit list, killed all my friends.
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I dont think you should be afraid at all. I beleive that everyones dreams mean something but I dont think you should be afraid you sound like a concern person about your friends and you would probaly never kill your friends. hope i ave helped.
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First thing I have to say.. is I am really goin thru a tough time right now so please don't be mean anwsering this question because I am serious about this... Alright... I had like a breakdown today...and cut my wrists a little bit not alot but some..I really can not stop thinking about suicide and I don't know what to do.. I want help so it doesn't go to far... but I'm afraid if I ask people will just think I am doing it for attention and I'm not but I can't take this anymore... I don't know what to do.. Please help me and fast... I'll rate you.. I just want to be happy again like I was when I was little... Ok thanks and remember please don't be mean!! (link)
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Im sorry to hear your going through a tought time. And the reason you cut is probaly because you get so depressed and sad that you just dont know what to do. Cutting is an illness and you should get help. You should go to a counselor and maybe you can get anti-depression pills.These will help you not to be depressed all the time.Hope i've helped
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hey i cut myself and a teacher asked me about them and i have to go to see a counselor should i deny it all or get help? (link)
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If you cut you should get help before you cut in the wrong place and kill yourself. It would be good if you went to a counselor to talk about why you cut, and instead of feeling your pain with a blade you could just tell someone that cant keep it confedential. hope i've helped and good luck
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The last day before winter break this 8th grader (he's odd and acts like a freak, butI don't really judge people like that)and his best friend told me on the bus after all of my friends have gotten off that he likes me. I said "That's cool" and went back to my book. The whole week after winter break they were bothering us, but when it got to the wednesday of that week, they were harrassing us. The kid's best friend was the one who was doing the harrassing, but the kid who likes me was just bothering us to annoy us. The kid's best friend was calling us sexy, telling us that he loves us, and he even fell on my ex-best friend. She told the bus driver and it stoppped. the next time we had a substitute bus driver his friend really harrassed us. He sat on my best friend's lap, and then sat on my lap and said things like "give me a kiss". Then I said "you touch me, you die" and he said "i would rather die baby." That got me really pissed off. I pushed him off of my seat and he went into another guy's seat. We got to school and we all got up in the isle. The kid harassing me and my best friend was standing behind me in the isle. He was pushing me forward and I was pushing him back. Then when I pushed him back he grabbed onto me and made me slip and fall on him. My best friend and I reported him and now he can't sit next to or talk to any girl on the bus. The kid that likes me was just bothering us, so we didn't report him. They were both nice to us and talked to us before, but now they hate us and they were harrassing and bothering us. Why do i feel guilty? (link)
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you shouldnt feel bad they were harrasing you. You should be happy with yourslef cuz they could be still harrasing you if you didnt say anything. Plus it could of gotten worse. Know they cant do anything to you and know they'll think twice before harrasing anyone.
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Im a freshmen in high school most people say that i look much older for my age. Im extremely popular in my school all the girls want to be like me and all the guys want a piece of me but sometimes i think my friends just use me because of this im me on xodanielle432ox.. a friends sn how do i know if i hve true friends or not (link)
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Well ask yourself what a TRUE friend is. To me a true friend is someone you can be comfortable with and can talk about anything no matter how stupid it is. If you dont think they're really your friends and they're just using you dont hang out with them.
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okay i have a major problem
my school has the biggest clique system EVER....like you wouldn't believe how many cliques there are. Its such a big deal....and its really get on my nerves to the point where I can't concentrate on my school work and my grades are slipping. This is because I'm at the bottom of the pit I only have a few friends (1 or 2) but still I wish I had more and theres a certain group that I would like to make friends with and they seem nice but I'm soo shy and people say I'm one of the shyest girls in the grade and that I hardly speak. I know I should speak more but its hard for me and I think I have social anxiety. Please help as high school is starting next year and I don't know whether to switch schools or change my image at the school I am going to (the school I am at has the grades pre-k till 12th). Also my school is one of the best schools in the nation and that is another reason why I am having a tough time deciding whether to leave it simply because of the cliques. I heard someone call me a reject and a loser at school....and to be honest I am a reject, but I know I'm not a loser. Please help, thank you sooo much!! (link)
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Cliques are a pretty big thing but that shouldnt get to you that much. Try and get involved with sports, or clubs. Talk to people more, find something to talk about like music or fashion or something you like. If your shy you shouldnt switch schools cuz then you wouldnt know anyone there try to stay in the school your at know and socialize. hope i've helped
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how do become more happy and try to make my life less boring.. i feel like i do the same thing every single day .?? (link)
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still do what you usaully do but add a few things in like make plans to go out with your friends and get involved with sports or somehting.
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help! (link)
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If you want a boy friend just hang around with your crush and just be yourself. Just because your friends have a boy friend doesnt mean you HAVE to have one too. Your time will come trust me. Plus being pretty isnt what all men look in for a girl they look for a personality.You wouldnt want a hott guy that is a total jerk would? hope i've helped
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Theres this one girl in my dorm...she CANT spell. A freshmen in college and she cant spell little words, she simply doesnt know how. The word good, she spells gud. She cant even spell little words and this concerns me. She isnt doing well in her classes at all because of this reason. Me and my roommate edit her papers and we try to tell her that she really needs to learn how to spell properly, but she doesnt care. She cant rely on me and my roommate to save her but on every paper. Should I tell her to go to a tutor (which she probally wont go), or let her fend for herself? I tried to help her learn, but I get mad at her everytime I try.
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is really nice of you for trying to teach her. if she is getting on your nerves and expect you to help her all the time she should ask for help from someone else or atleast talk to her teachers. Some people have problems with spelling like a disorder maybe she has that. i hoped i have helped good luck!
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I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!! (link)
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It's terrifying standing up in front of people and talking becuase you think of what could go wrong. Just be calm , and speak in a clear loud vioce so they can hear you. Some people when talking play with they're hair or shake they're leg while talking to keep them calm. try doing something to keep you calm and dont worry about other people. Hope i helped and good luck!
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i want a chinchilla- they r so cute. does anyone have a chinchila-i need to know what kind of thing they like to live in (a cage or something idk) and what kind of things they like to play with... if you could help that'd be awesome-- i rate high unles the answer duzint help me lol. thanx!
**XOXObrittXOXO** (link)
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well my friend has a chinchilla they are adorable they should live in a fairly large cage, they eat flavored wood, and i think they chew on lava rocks, and they take baths in this special kind of sand. Also, i would get it a hamick type bed they love them.
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I am 14/f and my cousin who is 12/f will not leave me alone...i see her everyday and she calls me like 5 seconds after i see her on my cell phone and she wont shut up...she wont leave me alone on the internet and she keeps talking to me and my friends....it bugs the hell out of me.... and she copies everything i do and everything i wear....when i told her that she has to let me have some space she started crying and told her mom that i told her i hated her...which i never said. Her mom came over and told me that i had to be nice to her because she had no friends. What should i do to keep her from annoying me with out making her cry and making me look like a bad person? (link)
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Try and help her out a little bit. Tell her to create her own image. You should also just set aside some special time for the two of you. That way she won't always interfere with you and your friends. Hopes this helps a bit.
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Okay, please Mods PLEASE do not delete this as I'm REALLY concerned!
Well, this girl at my school, she's not my friend or anything I don't know her that good, but she's pregnant. And, she's only 12. We're in 7th grade and all that, and she's expecting TWINS, she should get an abortion and all that but she wants to go through with it. At least that's what I heard, (I hear a lot of gossip. -__-;) Well, anyway, she also smokes and drinks, and she has purple hair and a ton of piercings, and I'm afraid if she goes through with it, her body won't be ready with all those drugs, and she's so young, and she might die...
She's got a pretty bad life, and nobody really likes her, but I still worry about these kind of things...and well, I'm not quite sure what to say to her to try to convince her not to do it. Can anyone give me ideas?
Sorry this was so long. =\
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You should tell her to stop drinking and smoking 1) it WILL mentally hurt the children and it will be harder on her 2)She should get an abortion (i dont really agree or like abortion) it might kill her cuz of the drugs 3) If she does go through with preganancy it would make her life even worse taking care of lil ones 4) tell an adult about it.
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Ok well I really, really like this guy, K. Well K and me met online and we were "talking" and now we have met in person and all. Well I like totally ADORE him! He is soooo sweet and funny! I think he likes me too. But now he has said that he is going to stay single for a while! He's scared because all of these other girls have hurt him really badly, it has just torn him up! How can I make him see what's right in front of him and make him get over these other girls and start a relationship with me? ~Thanks sooo much!~
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Oh and by the way I am a 14/f! :) (link)
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I think you should talk to K and tell him that your not like the other girls and you would never try to hurt him like his other girlfriends.
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